Contemplating suicide?!


Question: Contemplating suicide!?
ok i have alot going on like tomorow i have to go to court and face the man who raped me plus he called me today and theres a whole bunch more and i don't know what to do i have tried killing myself twice in the past i can't call my therapist because his solution for everything is mental hospitals what should i doWww@Answer-Health@Com


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You can do this!. Because you were raped, don't feel like you are weak!. You are much stronger than you think you are and because of your past experience, you should be the fighter you can be!. Life is hard!. I know plenty of people who have been raped!. They have been raped for years!. They are very strong people now!. They have overcome the bad situation they were in, and I know you can do it too!. Be strong and don't give up!. Something terrible was done to you!.!. are you going to sit there and take it, just give up, let evil win by killing yourself!? NO! It is in the past!. You can overcome it!. You should be proud of yourself because you are living-- the world can be very beautiful once you get past this dark period!.!. and you will get past it!. There is still so much to see, more movies to watch, more things to do, more people to love and more to love you back!. Remember, your life is a story, so make it have a happy ending!. Heroes usually suffer at first, but they end up doing a lot of good in their life!. Be strong!Www@Answer-Health@Com

First off get a restraining order on this thug prohibiting any and all contact including phone calls or letters!. Call the police immediately if he tries to contact you, he has no right to!. Second, fire your therapist!. Either get a new one or go solo!. Even though you have "no one to talk to" you really do!. Find someone at work (or just someone you know, they don't have to be a friend) who is trustworthy and open up to them!. Even if they don't really help you, just telling someone can help!. **** really ****** sucks but when you get to the point where you may actually kill yourself then you need to get help, whichever form that may take!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

theres always someone to talk to!.!.!. there are free phone services for these sorts of things!. Dont stress out, try to think of it like your getting through one of the major stresses in your life and will never have to go through it again!. If you dont have faith in your therapist maybe its time to think about getting a new one!. At the end of the day the therapist is there to help you and if you aren't feeling like your getting the support you need, switchWww@Answer-Health@Com

wow, sounds like you're dealing with a lot, in this situation i can't say i know what you're going through, but there is a lot of women in this crazy world who have been in your situation!. My best of wishes are for you! i will pray for you also!. I just want to say life is worth living and if you can make it in court tomorrow, you are a strong, brave and a woman full of courage, i really do hope for the best and i hope you live happily!. Please don't kill yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Are you a girl!? anyways, first of all you dont need a mental hospital and you don't need to kill yourself because your a strong person!. You know what the best thing to do is just wake up tomorrow and just be happy and forget the past, so what if som1 raped you, should it ruin your life!? NO, and so what!? its not like he had AIDS!. BUf if he did then that should be a problem!. And if he made you pregnant then it's ok its still from you right!? JUSt remember PAST is PAST!. AND no to SUICIDE because we only have 1 LIFE and the heaven and hell thing isnt for sure!. SO just LIVE LIFE being HAPPY!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look you may have heard this before but the answer is to always look for the positive sides!. I have been in countries with terrible situations!. I have seen people that have not eaten for days and some of the women I have seen have also been raped and have AIDs!. it is at times like this when I feel selfish!. Sometimes I feel down and complain to myself that i do not have enough money or that my life could be better!. but if these people can see hope and continue with their life then surely you are in a better situation so u can too!. Chin up and look for the positives and I gurantee that things will get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There are help lines you can call if you have no one to turn to!. Good luck!. He isn't worth your life, don't let him control your mind like that!. You are above him and after you face this court date and whole situation you can begin to heal and move beyond it!. Please don't kill yourself!. You matter to at least one person in this world!. I recently had an uncle commit suicide and it solves nothing, the only thing it does is leave a huge trail of sadness for everyone whose ever known you!. Good luck!. Hang in there sweety!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Killing your self is a stupid way of getting rid of your problems!. You have to be strong, get threw this, show no fear or weakness!. Suicide your self just will show that you are coward and weak!. You can pass this awful situation by your self, you are the only one who can save you!. Get up, be strong, and you will see how life changes!. But don't kill your self, that's not the answer! (Any if you kill your self, I will feel that I didn't help in anything) Good Luck and Bye!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Killing your self really wont make anything better, it will make everything worse for the people you will be leaving behind!. I know things seem bad sometimes but they get better it may not feel like they will some day you just have to keep pushing on and get through all the crap!. I hope you get the help you need because Id hate for one more person to take their own life!. Good luck to you and I wish you the best!Www@Answer-Health@Com

do you know that if you kill yourself you will go to hell!!

okay, just be calm!. your life is not over!. the bastard that raped you will be sentenced tomorrow!.

plus, just think how you committing suicide will effect your family!! take their emotions into consideration!. they love you and need you (even if they haven't told you so)!.

you don't need a mental hospital!. you just need to grab a couple of friends and catch a cruise ship and relax!. take your mind off your rape situation!.!.!.!.he's going to jail!.!.!.!.!.that chapter of your life will be closed then!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Please dont, I feel very sorry that you went through something so horrible!. I would honestly look at it like life may suck now but it might always get better, find a priest even if your not religious they can be really insightful even when they don't bring religion into it!. Think of anything and everything that brought you happiness at some point in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

can you call a suicide hotline!? i am sorry for what you have gone thru! be strong for court tomorrow! you will help put the sick bas**** in prison where he belongs! then he will never hurt anyone else again!. make sure you tell some one he called you-can you change your number!? please do not hurt yourself-if you do-then he wins!. be strong and hold on! you CAN do this!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Im sorry for what what happened to you and I agree mental hospitals can be really tough!. Just go with it, killing yourself is not the answer trust me!. I know rape is hard and you probably feel like crap but its so not worth it!. Please dont kill yourself!. If you need to talk to someone Ill be here to listen, email me on yahoo or send me an IM!. Im here to listen but please dont do anything stupid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

u said that man who raped u !.!. called u!.!.why is that!?!? to warn u or what!? well if that is the situation, then u shud report it!. coz he has no right to do that!.!. he deserves to be behind bars for putting u in this position today!. just go to court and tell the truth!. and next time he calls ( if via h/phone) record it!. and proof it to the police!.
ok abt ur condition!.!.!. be brave!.!. i think u are pressured by the nightmare ( what happen to u in the past)!. change ur therapist u need to talk to someone who actually listens!. face to face!.!. here in the yahoo answers!.!.we can only write to u!. u need to bring out u feelings in detail to someone in person!.!.
dont kill urself!.!.it is not justice!.!. to punish urself for the wrong doing of someone else!.!. u shud show that u can live!.!.

add!.!.!.!. would u like to talk to me on messenger!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't kill yourself!. Think of the person who will discover your body!. That's not a nice thing to do to them; plus, you get in trouble for that **** in the after life!.

Meditate instead and write in your journal!. Also, get a new therapist!. The one you have now sounds like a jerk off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is better to be alive and in a hospital than dead with your family mourning you and the rapist off scott free!. Your pain will pass, but death is permanent!. Just endure it while you can, and if not, then call the doctor, that's what they are there for!. My prayers with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont waste your life because of them!.!. if you would kill yourself, you would just give them the pleasure!.!.

kill them instead!.!. no don't do that!. you would just turn yourselves like them!.!.

never stop till they are rubbing bars for life!.!.

and also there lots of people in the world!.!. never give up!.!.!. especially your only life!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

suicide is a very bad thing!.!.you will go to hell for it! So to be on the safe side just try writing in a dairy or something and just take things one at a time!.!.!.take it easy!.!.!.you are not mentally ill!.!.!.you just went throught problems!.!.!.heck everyone goes through rough times!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! just try chilling out!.!.!.practice a hobby!!.!.!.goodluck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

i been thru wat you've been thru!.!.

honeslty, find a friend or a boy/girl you like && hang out with them and have a good time!

serioulsy!.!.!. it helps!.

and remember, wen u kill urself!.!.!. its a selfish move, think about the ppl ur going to hurt && whose going to pay for the funeral && stuff!.

juss think 10yrs from now, will it be worth it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to us we'll help forget about everything you have to do tomorrow and think about now and what do you think about yahoo answers take it one day at a time and you will see that this and all will passWww@Answer-Health@Com

don't do it!.!.!. as bad as things may be, it just means that things can only get better!.!.!. wait it out so that you can enjoy the good parts of life afterwards!Www@Answer-Health@Com

go to court and own his ***** *** you will feel a lot better after he is punishedWww@Answer-Health@Com

find someone to talk to !! get help !Www@Answer-Health@Com

you do and he wins and does it againWww@Answer-Health@Com





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