Kindah Depressed?!
Question: Kindah Depressed!?
Well Im 13 and i skateboard and stuff!. I dont have that many friends but i have good friends!. Sometimes i fell depressed because im not that good at most of the things i do and try!. And i fell lonely alot because i never have a girl friend and iv never been kissed by a girl inlike all my friends!. And i also dont get alot of attention at skool and stuff!. And sometimes i fell depressed because i well this might sound spoiled but im not! Sometimes i get depressed when i cant afford something i like or when i get bad grades!. So my question is mainly how can i fell better about myself and my life!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Wake up one morning and try to find every single little positive thing arond you (did your mom make you breakfast!? Did you get an extra hour of sleep!? Is it nice outside!? Can you hear a bird signing!? small things) Make a mental list in your head and by the end of the day it will be hard to be depressed, just try to remember all the great things about youor life, like the fact that you still have another 90 years to get that girlfriend and kiss, ok maybe you want that kiss before your 20 but that still gives you 7 years!. The point is you don't need to do everything right now, when you finally get your kiss it will be wit the right girl so keep your eyes open for that special person!. And don't let little bumps like bad grades or expensive stuff get you down let it help you make a goal!. If you want something but you can't afford it then make it your goal to earn enough money for it!. If you get a bad grade then strive for a better one and when you reach your goal reward yourself!.
BE HAPPY!Www@Answer-Health@Com
BE HAPPY!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Aww hun don't feel bad that you haven't had a girlfriend yet or your first kiss!. I didn't get my first kiss until I was 14!. I assume that your in middle school which is a really hard age for anyone!
I guess that my advice to you would be to maybe go to the nearest skate park and try to make some friends there!. You will both have something in common!. I have found out through life that it's really better to have a couple really close friends rather than a bunch that you don't know very well!.
Try talking to your parents if you feel like you can, and if the depression worsens after a couple weeks they can help you to maybe get some counseling!.
Good luck =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I guess that my advice to you would be to maybe go to the nearest skate park and try to make some friends there!. You will both have something in common!. I have found out through life that it's really better to have a couple really close friends rather than a bunch that you don't know very well!.
Try talking to your parents if you feel like you can, and if the depression worsens after a couple weeks they can help you to maybe get some counseling!.
Good luck =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are 13, you have a whole life to live!. Don't be in such a hurry to grow up!. Kissing a girl will come when the time is right!. Enjoy the things you have, be grateful that you have them, there are many who don't!. Look at all the things you are good at!. And remember sometimes getting all the attention is not the best thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're 13, what do you need a girlfriend for anyway!? I dont make friend very easily either but when I do, they're the most amazing people ever!. Just be careful about who you let into your life though, or you might end up getting hurt even more!. I'm sorry, I really can't say anything to you except just try to look on the bright side of things!. Take it easy kid, I'm sure you'll feel better someday!.
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sounds like you don't have a lot of motivation to do things!. Do things you've never ever done before!. You're young, you've got a lot of time!. When you find something that you like/love, work hard, work like crazy, give it everything!. You'll get recognition for it, people will know you for it!.
you've probably heard this a lot but its better to have fewer friends that are good than to have a lot of friends who aren't really that close to you!.
Maybe act more personable, more social!. as for school, all i can say is work hard!. get used to it, force yourself!. try to gain self control!. cuz in highschool everything's going to count!. and good grades seriously pay off!.
do things that you like, don't do things just cuz someone told you to!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
you've probably heard this a lot but its better to have fewer friends that are good than to have a lot of friends who aren't really that close to you!.
Maybe act more personable, more social!. as for school, all i can say is work hard!. get used to it, force yourself!. try to gain self control!. cuz in highschool everything's going to count!. and good grades seriously pay off!.
do things that you like, don't do things just cuz someone told you to!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
You answered one ofmy questions!. I want to tell you that there are situations a LOT worst than yours!. I do not wish to share all of the horrible stuff Ive been through but I have not been kissed either!. I dont have any friends at all (ur lucky u atleast have one), and my life at home is total misery!. My advise to you is do not pay attention to the otherpeople, one day you will get kissed too and youll have attention and there willbe more love involved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Focus on the positive things in your life!. Focus on what you DO have (good friends), not on what you do not have (not a lot of friends)!.
You can try doing things that make you happy, like spending time with friends, skateboarding, etc!.
You can talk to a trusted adult about how you're feeling about your life and about yourself!.
Don't worry about the girls!. You're only 13!!! Focus on having fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can try doing things that make you happy, like spending time with friends, skateboarding, etc!.
You can talk to a trusted adult about how you're feeling about your life and about yourself!.
Don't worry about the girls!. You're only 13!!! Focus on having fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com
get yourself a good hacky sack, seriously!. I was the same way in high school and I was kinda fat!. some kid came from California and showed some kids how to play hacky sack!. At first, I, like most other people, didn't think I could do it!. So, I went to the mall, bought my own footbag, and practiced at home untill I was addicted!. I soon began to lose weight, was more agile, felt great about myself, and soon, I had people watching me because I was one of the best in school!. Hacky sack became very popular at school and so did I!. Give it a shot,buddy!. Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are only 13!!!!!!!
Many of the things you complain about will come later in life!. All you can do for now is try harder to do better at the things that matter to you!. Then in the end, you can say that your hard work beat everyone else's talent!.
And money definately isn't everything!. I have no ipod!.!.!.(dun dun dun!!! gasp!!) live with what you have and just don't get to materieal!. Plus, do what i do and mooch off of those friends of yours
Don't beat yourself up!. Everyone goes through things like this!. You have great friends, so nothing else should matter!. Be glad you're not a loner!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Many of the things you complain about will come later in life!. All you can do for now is try harder to do better at the things that matter to you!. Then in the end, you can say that your hard work beat everyone else's talent!.
And money definately isn't everything!. I have no ipod!.!.!.(dun dun dun!!! gasp!!) live with what you have and just don't get to materieal!. Plus, do what i do and mooch off of those friends of yours
Don't beat yourself up!. Everyone goes through things like this!. You have great friends, so nothing else should matter!. Be glad you're not a loner!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey lil man don't worry, this sort of happen
to me when i was little i got my first girlfriend at 15 and got my
first kiss at 16!. My advise to you is try and get into sports or after
school activites(this can help get friends) or do something your good at, and show it off but not too much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
to me when i was little i got my first girlfriend at 15 and got my
first kiss at 16!. My advise to you is try and get into sports or after
school activites(this can help get friends) or do something your good at, and show it off but not too much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds pretty normal to me! First look at all the good things in your life!.!.acknowledge what oportunities you have !.!.and what options you have!. You have to feel good about yourself by acceptingyour strengths andyour weaknesses!.!.build on yoru stengths once you can see them! Good luck, teenage years are tough years!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Kissing a girl willcome in time, and if you cant afford to buy a new toy, get a job!. It you get depressed everytime you cant afford something i feel bad when you a man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Cling to your good friends!. Don't let failures make you stop trying new things!. It is very hard to be a teenager - try to stay positive - things will better - the girl thing will happen in its own time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well are you Catholic, if so pray to Saint Michael, if not, convert, its the only way into paradise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if u r good @ skateboarding do it a lot and u'll be great! then u wont have 2 worry about being good @ lots of things if u r really good @ 1 thing!. and lots of girls like skaters (not ice skaters)Www@Answer-Health@Com
dude!.!. go to the mall and be more active
be more out going
hang out with new people
stop being such a loner
dont feel sorry for yourself
and take chargeWww@Answer-Health@Com
be more out going
hang out with new people
stop being such a loner
dont feel sorry for yourself
and take chargeWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just give it time and pray to God he will help and just be yourself :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
There's one thing no one ever tells you when you're a kid - everyone lies!. I'm sure you know of people in your school who claim to have slept with girls, or done something crazy!. I'd put money on it being a lie!. Try not to let what they say bother you, I know it's easier said than done, and school's sh*t believe me I've been there!.!.!. but the awesome thing about school being sh*t, is that all the people who had an apparently 'awesome' time school turn out to be 9-5 losers, and all the weirdo's who had no friends and got bullied by the other kids turn out to be rich, successful, well rounded individuals!. I'm proud to say I was picked on at school, cuz every time I bump into anyone who used to know me they're amazed, and it's a great feeling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com