I am very depressed and I think I need help! I am 13 years old and I think Im su!
Question: I am very depressed and I think I need help! I am 13 years old and I think Im suicidal!.!?
Thank you to everyone who is willing to help me or at least answer my questions as best as they can!. Well!.!.!. I am 13 years old, my parents are not divorced, but they fight alot!. My dad is cheating on my mom, he has even hit her sometimes!. My brother has a drinking and smoking problem because he is very depressed too!. I hate the town where I live because everyone at school is mean to me and it seems like it is not the best place to be if I want to have a good life in the future!. I want to move to Europe where I have lived the first 6 yearsof my life (because I want to remain anonymous I do not want to share which country)!. My family was not like this until 1 year 2 monthsand 1 week ago before my dad started cheating on my mom!. I've wanted to move for 6 years now and I hate my lifestyle today!. My dad is ussually gone most nights and when he is home I hear him yell at mymom till late!. I am having a lot of suicidal thoughts and do not know what to do!. If anyone can help me please comment!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Please consider calling a Suicide Hot Line Number!. Most phone books, if not all have them listed in the front!. The one in mine is 1 888 568 1112, you can call 24 hours a day 7 days a week!.
Suicide is a permanent action for a temporary problem!. Living in a household with domestic abuse is not healthy for you!. (or anyone else there)!. Seeking help from others qualified to do just that is not a sign of weakness!. It takes courage perhaps, but it also makes the statement to yourself that you deserve a better life, and trust me you do!. All the regrets your parents may or may not have later will not help you at this time!. There are self help groups the crisis line can put you in touch with for a start!. I hope you get some direction for professional help as well!. Have you ever thought of telling your parents to clean up their act!? To get help or leave!? Your dad hitting your mother is assault in the state of ME!. I don't know about your state but you could find out!. Do you feel safe enough to call the police should your father hit your mother again!? Some men need that kind of wake up call!.
I like the suggestion of keeping a journal!. That will help you get things out of your head and out of your body!. Please, call the hot line or speak to a family member or adult you admire and trust!. You don't need to live like this!.!.!.and you do deserve to live!. You have the right to seek happiness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suicide is a permanent action for a temporary problem!. Living in a household with domestic abuse is not healthy for you!. (or anyone else there)!. Seeking help from others qualified to do just that is not a sign of weakness!. It takes courage perhaps, but it also makes the statement to yourself that you deserve a better life, and trust me you do!. All the regrets your parents may or may not have later will not help you at this time!. There are self help groups the crisis line can put you in touch with for a start!. I hope you get some direction for professional help as well!. Have you ever thought of telling your parents to clean up their act!? To get help or leave!? Your dad hitting your mother is assault in the state of ME!. I don't know about your state but you could find out!. Do you feel safe enough to call the police should your father hit your mother again!? Some men need that kind of wake up call!.
I like the suggestion of keeping a journal!. That will help you get things out of your head and out of your body!. Please, call the hot line or speak to a family member or adult you admire and trust!. You don't need to live like this!.!.!.and you do deserve to live!. You have the right to seek happiness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hang in there, I am 11, about 5/6 years ago, my dad got really sick (hep c)!. My mom thought he was going to die, so she began to have an affair!. I know what your going through!. My rents are now split up!. I hate school, and I want to kill myself too, sometimes!. I would suggest going to a counsellor, or talking to your parents!. I didn't, and now I regret it!.
Good Luck with everything!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good Luck with everything!Www@Answer-Health@Com
YOU ARE SO YOUNG!. COMMiTiN SUiCiDE iS NOT THE ANSWER AT ALL!. iT WiLL JUST MAKE THiNGS WORSE FOR yOUR FAMiLY!. iMAGiNE WHERE yOUR BROTHER, DAD AND MOM WiLL BE iNA COUPLE OF YEARS FROM NOW IF YOU DO THAT!. i KNOW YOU MAY NOT WANT TO DO THIS BUT YOU HAVE TO GET HELP!. THATS THE ONLY WAY THAT EVERYTHING CAN CHANGE INTO SOMETHING BETTER HOPEFULLY I HELPEDWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well have you tried talking to your parents!?
and suicide isnt worth it!.!.im 13 too and ive actually been going through depression for a few years!.and ive been in he same situation!.things will get better!.
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if you EVER wanna talk!.im here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
and suicide isnt worth it!.!.im 13 too and ive actually been going through depression for a few years!.and ive been in he same situation!.things will get better!.
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if you EVER wanna talk!.im here!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
visit: suicideforum!.com
there you can meet people who can relate to you
btw, it is strictly a pro life site and discourages suicide, but you can talk freely abour your suicidal feelings
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
there you can meet people who can relate to you
btw, it is strictly a pro life site and discourages suicide, but you can talk freely abour your suicidal feelings
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
im sorry to hear about your situation
acknowledging that you may be depressed is a good thing as alot of depressed people are in denial
home life for you obvioiusly isnt great and if i was you i'd be looking for alternatives, do you have any relatives you could move in with or friends, even if it only be temporary!. i too was in a situation where my parents were fighting and my dad was getting violent but they weren't seperated
so my brother and i basically sat down and told my mother that we werent happy with the situation and it was affecting us nd her both physically and emotionally and well basically told her we wanted dad out of the house as he was effecting everybody, you may not be able to do this asi know it is hard but atlease tellher how your feeling
i'd talk to your brother about your feelings and ask him if he thinks it'll be better if your dad left if so boith of youse should calmly talk to your mum and tell her how your feeling
if nothing changes i'd find alterernative living
also talk to a close friend or counciler or a hotline lioke the kids help line
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
acknowledging that you may be depressed is a good thing as alot of depressed people are in denial
home life for you obvioiusly isnt great and if i was you i'd be looking for alternatives, do you have any relatives you could move in with or friends, even if it only be temporary!. i too was in a situation where my parents were fighting and my dad was getting violent but they weren't seperated
so my brother and i basically sat down and told my mother that we werent happy with the situation and it was affecting us nd her both physically and emotionally and well basically told her we wanted dad out of the house as he was effecting everybody, you may not be able to do this asi know it is hard but atlease tellher how your feeling
i'd talk to your brother about your feelings and ask him if he thinks it'll be better if your dad left if so boith of youse should calmly talk to your mum and tell her how your feeling
if nothing changes i'd find alterernative living
also talk to a close friend or counciler or a hotline lioke the kids help line
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
One thing you always need to remember is that it is never your fault! Adults make decisions on their own sometimes they are not the best nor the wisest but it would be surprising what a sit down conversation can do!. Family nights are good!. Suicide is never a way out, my sister took her life when I was 12 and the pain that dwell-ed upon me is still unbearable what hurts the most was that she was in total control of it and she never thought to think of the funeral expenses she would charge and the pain she caused!. Talk to someone!. Not just anyone but someone like Ashley (below) may be going through the same thing!. I hope this helped!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First things first!. Do NOT do anything rash!. If you are truly feeling suicidal, try calling a hotline!. They're trained in these sort of situations and you can remain anonymous if you wish to!. Try talking to someone you trust, whether it's a trusted friend, or a guidance counselor!. It does help! If you feel you're truly in danger, it may be best to contact an adult that you can talk to!. Do you have any family you can get in touch with!? An adult that you trust!? I'm not trained in this sort of thing, but I am a teenager who's been through some times where I felt the same way!. It does get better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think i would stay away from home as much as possible!. You should stay away from whats negative! And Does ur mom know he is cheating!? if she doesnt then i think you should tell her!. Try to find soemone to look up to and if you arnt able to talk to someone about it then u should get a journal!. I am sometimes depressed and i found out it helps me alot when i tell people!. But sometimes i cant tell people so i write down in a private journal about myself and my problems and about how i can change some things!. Good Luck and im sorry i hope things work out for your family!. Just stay away from negative things! If he his hitting your mom then you or your mother should try to take a stand!. Peace and Love sorry!. =(Www@Answer-Health@Com
I just want to say how proud of you I am (even tho you do not know me)that you are mature enough to put your feelings out there to ask for help!.Even if it is a web site!.Apparently you are a smart person to know and admit these feelings and thoughts!.I agree with some of the other answers about talking to someone you can trust!.I would say an adult somewhere at your school or a family member!.Call the help line becouse they can help but you need to talk to someone in person also!.Your mmom is the first place to start but if you are not sure bout that yet talk to the counceler at school!.Ther can get you some ongoing therapy!.(you are not crazy if you need therapy )I wish you goodluck and if you need to talk I am here!.I may not know what to say but I can listen really good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your parents do not realize the damage they are doing to you, which is very sad!. Is there a Grandma or aunt or someone related to you, that you could talk to and maybe even live with for awhile!. If you talk to a relative they may talk to your parents and tell them it is safer for you to be there!. Even your brother's behavior is not healthy for you to be around!. Suicide is not a good choice though!. I think many children your age feel this way at some point or another, but things do get better, I promise!. I'm sure you've heard this before, but people that are mean to others!.!.!. well they do it because they really hate themselves!. They feel crappy inside so they want to make someone else feel crappy too, and so they make fun of others!. The best remedy for that!.!.!. IGNORE it!. Funny thing is!.!.!. those are the people that turn out to be the big losers in the world!. Good luck, and think about the life you will lose if you choose suicide!. You have your whole life to live, and it gets better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com