How can I have sex without being expected to "perform"?!
Question: How can I have sex without being expected to "perform"!?
Alright, The question is vague, I know, but bear with me!. I have a problem I will fail to be able to get off or in some cases even get it up if I am EXPECTED to perform!.
In terms of my history, I am with my second ever partner and am 20 years old and in GREAT shape!. I have no depression, health, or stress issues outside of sex!. Sex where I am expected to perform just kills it for me!. I want to figure out a way to enjoy sex and not consider it stressful work!.
This same problem occurred with my first girlfriend as well!.!.!. We got past it by just saying "screw it" to the condom and just using the pull-out method and from then on things were better!. Somehow, that gave me confidence to use a condom!.
So, what do you guys think!? How can I shift my paradigms and become more deeply involved with this girl!? It is important I do this b/c she has issues where she views herself as a failure b/c she can't help me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
In terms of my history, I am with my second ever partner and am 20 years old and in GREAT shape!. I have no depression, health, or stress issues outside of sex!. Sex where I am expected to perform just kills it for me!. I want to figure out a way to enjoy sex and not consider it stressful work!.
This same problem occurred with my first girlfriend as well!.!.!. We got past it by just saying "screw it" to the condom and just using the pull-out method and from then on things were better!. Somehow, that gave me confidence to use a condom!.
So, what do you guys think!? How can I shift my paradigms and become more deeply involved with this girl!? It is important I do this b/c she has issues where she views herself as a failure b/c she can't help me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
TRY NOT THINKING PLAY SOME LOUD MUSIC AND TURN OUT ALL THE LIGHTSWww@Answer-Health@Com
i think this may call for some medicinal maryjane !.!.!. you need to stop thinking so much and feel wht is going on with your partner!. Focus on how good it feels and get out of the head!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
think of it as your helping her!.!.!.start off with 4-play it will be easier for you and get your Johnson so hard theres no turning back!.!.!.also do some positions where your not doing all the work exp: Riding
hope that helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
hope that helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
You might need to see a doctor, cause it could be an erection problem!. Or you could see a psychiatrist, cause it might just be mentally!.Www@Answer-Health@Com