Love relationship in a dilemma.?! PLEASE HELP PEOPLE. genuinely help needed.?!
Question: Love relationship in a dilemma!.!?! PLEASE HELP PEOPLE!. genuinely help needed!.!?
P!.S!.- SORRY FOR THE QUESTION BEING TOO TOO LONG, BUT I SWEAR TO GOD, I NEED YOUR HELP!. I NEED A SERIOUS AND A MATURE HELP!. PLEASE GIVE ME YOUR VIEW POINTS FOR THE SITUATION!. PLEASE PLEASE !! THANKS
I am 21, and was dating a 24 year old guy (we both are from India, and from same religious background
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I am 21, and was dating a 24 year old guy (we both are from India, and from same religious background
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Whoa!. Ok!. First, Scorpio/Sagitarius is a very powerful combination!. Passionate, righteous, loyal, yet cannot commit due to an wandering spirit!.
He may love you, but his loyalty to his family takes precedence!. I suggest you make a full break from him for a few months and re-examine how you really feel!. You dated him for only 4 months!. He was also honest with you about how he viewed your future!. You have to respect that and start accepting it!. It is very difficult to remain friends with a lover you are so passionate about when the break-up is still so recent!. My advice is to take a real break from him and sort your life out instead!. Try not to call him and don't take any of his calls!. He has made his choice as well and he shouldn't dictate how you should dress or style your hair!. Take control of your life and love yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He may love you, but his loyalty to his family takes precedence!. I suggest you make a full break from him for a few months and re-examine how you really feel!. You dated him for only 4 months!. He was also honest with you about how he viewed your future!. You have to respect that and start accepting it!. It is very difficult to remain friends with a lover you are so passionate about when the break-up is still so recent!. My advice is to take a real break from him and sort your life out instead!. Try not to call him and don't take any of his calls!. He has made his choice as well and he shouldn't dictate how you should dress or style your hair!. Take control of your life and love yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you both need to go your seperate ways!. He "has a right to me" - what is that all about!? I realize you live in a different culture from mine but no one has a right to you but you!. Move on with your life!. Grow up a little!. He isnt the one for you!
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I think its more simple than it seems!. If he loved you, he would be with you and not want to leave you!. When you love someone, nothing and no one stops you from being by there side!.!.!. and he is not by your side right now!. I hate to be harsh dear, but sometimes we get so caught up wth so many emotions and fears that we see the simple sight of how things really are!. And it has nothing to do with religion or customs or anything of that matter, were talking about plain and simple relations between man and woman here!. If two people want to be together because they "both" share the same feelings, theres nothing thats gonna stop that!. Now, i dont know how fast someone can fall in love in 4 months of dating, especially since its been a bumpy ride for both of you!. But im not here to judge your feelings, im here to answer your question, and to give you an honest hearted advice if i may, and i say this from the heart because i have been through this situation before with another guy!. What i would honestly do if i were you, is just to let things unfold on their own!. Dont force him to anything, if he really cares for you, you will know it soon!. But if he goes back with you because he feels forced, then thats not real love!.!. and you dont want that to happen, because that wouldnt be fair for either of you!. I know its easier said than done, but its the best you can do now!.
In the meantime try to get your mind off things too!. Go out and distract yourself doing something else that you enjoy doing!. Even if its something as simple as going out for a walk in a nice place, it should clear your mind and give you enough time to yourself to think things over!. You might even start to see your problem in a whole other way, but it should free you from all the stress your going through now!.
What ever you decide, i wish you the best, and i hope my advice may be of some help to you!.
Good Luck! :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
In the meantime try to get your mind off things too!. Go out and distract yourself doing something else that you enjoy doing!. Even if its something as simple as going out for a walk in a nice place, it should clear your mind and give you enough time to yourself to think things over!. You might even start to see your problem in a whole other way, but it should free you from all the stress your going through now!.
What ever you decide, i wish you the best, and i hope my advice may be of some help to you!.
Good Luck! :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
That was a BOOK!
Anyway, things are done differently in India than they are here, but I will try to help anyway!. I think in a relationship you should reach a point where he should think of YOU as family not just his family!. When his family says they don't believe in the marriage thing and you do, then not one opinion should be held over the other!.
Sounds like he still likes to flaunt you even though you are "friends!." I think the best thing to do is be together where a marriage is possible or not be together at all!. How are you to get over him if he is always around!? You can't!. You need to get what you want out of the relationship or cut off all ties with him!.
Also, you say he's a great guy, but those gestures (not arguing) take a back seat to the fact that he choses his families choices over his own and yours!.
I hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anyway, things are done differently in India than they are here, but I will try to help anyway!. I think in a relationship you should reach a point where he should think of YOU as family not just his family!. When his family says they don't believe in the marriage thing and you do, then not one opinion should be held over the other!.
Sounds like he still likes to flaunt you even though you are "friends!." I think the best thing to do is be together where a marriage is possible or not be together at all!. How are you to get over him if he is always around!? You can't!. You need to get what you want out of the relationship or cut off all ties with him!.
Also, you say he's a great guy, but those gestures (not arguing) take a back seat to the fact that he choses his families choices over his own and yours!.
I hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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