Is it wrong to resent women who wants children?!
Question: Is it wrong to resent women who wants children!?
Because I don't want 'em, and females who want kids, they're making it impossible to find a good woman out there, a real good woman - one who doesn't want kids and won't change her mind!.
Is there no love for childfree men anymore!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Is there no love for childfree men anymore!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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*Agrees with the edit*
I'm a woman who doesn't want kids!. I am NOT GOING TO CHANGE MY MIND!. I've found it difficult to find a man who doesn't want kids!.
Note: who decides what makes "success" in life!? Whether you pass your genes or not, you're just as dead in the end!. And so are your children, eventually!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm a woman who doesn't want kids!. I am NOT GOING TO CHANGE MY MIND!. I've found it difficult to find a man who doesn't want kids!.
Note: who decides what makes "success" in life!? Whether you pass your genes or not, you're just as dead in the end!. And so are your children, eventually!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is hard to find someone who feels the same way about this as you, especially since it's not usually the first question you can ask someone before you start dating, and then you might find out later after you've already been dating the person!. I imagine it's pretty frustrating!. I guess you just have to keep trying to find women who feel the same way!. Maybe look for women who are very career-minded!. Also, it might be something one or the other of you might have to compromise on if you meet someone you really love!. Maybe she will decide it's okay to not have children if it's the only way for you to be with her, or maybe you'll decide it's okay to have children if it means being with her!. But that's a decision you'll have to make at that time, and it won't be easy!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand where your coming from!.!. It might be better though, to search for someone who feels similar instead of trying to change someone else!.!. The only person you can truly change is yourself!.!. Yes, it's frustrating but don't give up hope!.!. I have a friend who's been married for awhile to a woman who shares his view on not wanting to have children!.!.I too don't want children!.!. It can be difficult because most women and men that have children have a hard time understanding it!.!. I'm in my thirties and have discussed it with my therapist who insists this is not uncommon nowadays, though people who insist the American dream is the picket fence scenario still have a hard time comprehending it!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it is wrong to resent women who want children, just like it is wrong for them to resent you for not wanting them!.
Still, you ARE a minority, and women who don't want chidren are probably even MORE of a minority, so you may have to have a lot more patience then most people when finding your mate!. I personally have no preference whatsoever whether I have children or not!.!.!.!. and I might not be a great catch, but I am not a bad one either lol!. So there are women out there, they just aren't the majority!.
Also, try not to resent those who want kids!. Just remind yourself of all the grief you get for not wanting them!.!.!. it feels the same way if you dole that treatment out on people who do want them!.
Good luck on finding your good woman!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Still, you ARE a minority, and women who don't want chidren are probably even MORE of a minority, so you may have to have a lot more patience then most people when finding your mate!. I personally have no preference whatsoever whether I have children or not!.!.!.!. and I might not be a great catch, but I am not a bad one either lol!. So there are women out there, they just aren't the majority!.
Also, try not to resent those who want kids!. Just remind yourself of all the grief you get for not wanting them!.!.!. it feels the same way if you dole that treatment out on people who do want them!.
Good luck on finding your good woman!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have every right to not want children!. Not everyone does!. However, I do think it's wrong to actually resent women who do!. Just as you have the right to not want them, they have every right to want to have kids!. You just have to make sure you're honest about it when you get invoved with a woman!. Not all women want children, so you'll eventually meet a woman who doesn't, hopefully!. If not, you may have to resign yourself to not being in a serious relationshipWww@Answer-Health@Com
You will want kids eventually!.
Its a genetic swtich that triggers!.
Eventually all women want children, and eventually all men want children!.
Trust me it will happen!.
Think about it, if you dont pass on your genetic material you failed at life by definition!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Its a genetic swtich that triggers!.
Eventually all women want children, and eventually all men want children!.
Trust me it will happen!.
Think about it, if you dont pass on your genetic material you failed at life by definition!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i guess u shouldn't resEnt them!. Its a thing that married cOupLes shOuld dO and its a tradition its kinda hard to breakaway with it!. Where would you be at if your parents were child hating couple!.!.!.hmm!.!.one could be a product of accident!.!.well thts not the point !.!.!.anyways like ive said its a tradition/mission watever u call it !.!.a couple might not want to be left childless as they grow!.!.and u might end up a boring old life with no one to watch out for yah!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The next woman you find who wants children --- send her over my way!Www@Answer-Health@Com