How do I not care what others think?!


Question: How do I not care what others think!?
These girls have been talking about me!. They said some very nasty things about me!. I can what others think about me!. That's why I try to be perfect!. How do I not care!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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That is a tough one!. Years and years of practice!.

And remember---I think very highly of you and my opinion is the only one that counts!. 8-PWww@Answer-Health@Com

In all honesty, you can't care what people think of you!. If you think you're belittled because they are talking to you, look at it this way, if they are taking the time out of their lives to worry about your life/you, then obviously you're important in someway!. You can't worry about what people think, it only matters what you think of yourself, and you should think you're the prettiest girl in the world!. Deep down, everyone is, and that's what's worth talking about, not peoples appearances or looks!.

Best Regards,
Joe SWww@Answer-Health@Com

Figure out why it is that you do care!. I don't mean the superficial reason, but the deep down inside reason!. What are you insecure about!? What are the causes!? How do you address them!? What can you do to move beyond them!? Along the way you'll get to know and like yourself a whole lot more!.

Ppl can tell you to ignore it, distract yourself, just don't do it, think of something else!. That doesn't get you anywhere except erasing part of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Now why would you want someone else to shape your destiny and take all the fun out of life--not good!. The way you are headed will never allow you to reach your maximum potential!. So they say mean things let them just go find friends that are not so condescending!. If they know this gets to you they will continue!.!.!.do not sound like the kind of people worth worrying about!. You sound as if you are very sensitive so be careful who you hang with!. Ask yourself if you really want to be like these folks and if the answer is no!. Move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just don't focus on them!.!.!.!.and focus on the present not the pass or the future!.!.!.!.Your you becouse of you not what other may say or think obout you!.!.!.no ones opinions about you makes you who your, you have the power in your life and be who you want to me!.!.!.!.!.thats my best advice!.!.!.!.I hope it does something good for you!.!.!.!.!.!. ;0)Www@Answer-Health@Com

the trouble in this life!. to many people worry what other people think!. you have got to be live in yourself!. and have the courage of your convictions!. don't attempt to be perfect!. because nobody is!. were all human!. just be YOURSELF!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you have to learn to be your own best friend!. what YOU think has to matter more to you than what anyone else thinks!. when you learn this, you will well on your way to being an adult!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Your asking this like it is a problem, do I have a problem as well!. Not that I care what anyone here thinks of me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You ignor people and you think of stuff you have done that was big and wonderful to other peopleWww@Answer-Health@Com

just comes with age thats allWww@Answer-Health@Com





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