I am soo Creeped outt!!?!


Question: I am soo Creeped outt!!!?
Please Help mee!!!!!!Omg, i met this guy on summer on a game online & i gave him my myspace, and aim!.
I know that was REALLY REALLY stupid soo dont tell me that it was because you are wasting your time
So then, he starts getting all suicidal on me!. He would threaten me he is going to hang himself!. And then i persuaded him that he shouldnt!. and then he is all like you saved my life!! And he like said he loves me!. I am the only one he cares about!. and then i blocked him and he cut himself! I am sooo scared!! His life is in my hands! Or else he will die!! I told my mom and everyone but no one knows what to do!! I tried to tell his friends but like no one will do anything about it!. He Stresses me out!like i cant take it any more! He also tries to learn from his mistakes so i have to tell him but if i tell him the wrong thing he will do something bad 2 himself and it would be my fault!I swear i am going to have a freaking aneurysm if he keeps doing this!. (this has been goin on 4 a year)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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This guy is mental!.

Let him do what he's going to do and don't feel guilty over it!. You owe this person nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He just wants attention!. I doubt he'll do anything to seriously hurt himself, he just wants to string you along because he feels like you care about him and he wants someone to feel sorry for him!. If he was going to do all the things he said he was going to do, he would have done it already!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have to keep talking to him!. I know it may be weird or creepy, but it has to be done!. You need to kindly ask him if he would be willing to seek some help!. If he really is wanting to lear from his mistakes, he may try it!. There is also the possibility that he is faking the whole thing!. Just be careful!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would simply block him from myspace and aim!. This happened to me from a guy I met on world of warcraft and I just blocked him!. his life is not in your hands, anyone that gets suicidal over a person they met online and hasnt ever met in real life probably did this to lots of people for attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well if it's been going on for a year, he probably isn't gonna do anything!. I think he might just be trying to scare you!.!.!.
If it's really stressing you out, don't reply to him or anything like that, it won't be your fault if he wigs out!. Okay!? Really!.
If he keeps being all 'suicidal scary' tell him to get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

have you called suiside hot line for him it would be very good of you to know how to deal with it and you were right to block him
i remember when i was in seventh grade this guy followed me home for a week!. i ended up going to a guys house(he was in my class) i hated the guy but he let me come to his house so the creep would leave me aloneWww@Answer-Health@Com

do you know this guy in real life!? or just online!. do you live near him!? i suggest you turn him over to a physcatrist or something like that, and if he just can't handle that then let him do what he wants to do, even though that might be suicide!. i know it sounds horrible, and people dying is terrible, but if that is really what he wants!.!. let him do it!. but FIRST make sure he gets help!.

does anyone know how i can put my own picture on this instead of a stupid avatar!? i've reached my question quota for the day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1] contacthis friends
2] finds out how to contact his family
3] notify them - he needs therapy, and you are NOT a therapist
If they won't give up the info, try the site directors to contact his family
4] HE is responsible for his actions, NOT you!. Remember that!Www@Answer-Health@Com

jeez, how do you know hes not faking it!? just for attention!? stay away from him for a while!.!. he'll get over it, hes probably this guy:
http://www!.houseoffusion!.com/users/image!.!.!.
and it was a dumb idea to tell your friends about him, they'll think youre weird lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

Talk to your school guidence office!. You do not want this guy to kill himself!. That would b so horrible!. U shouldn't b stuck in this position, though, either!. C if u can get in contact w/ his parents and xplain the sitch they can help u out!. Don't b afraid to ask adults for help!. Anyone at ur school will b simpathetic and helpful, and it is good u told ur mom! Ur gunna b okay!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Unfortunately, you came across a guy with some mental issues (obviously)!. Whatever you do, don't feel guilty for what he does!. It is not your fault that he has issues!. Don't keep in contact with him, as it will only prolong the problem!. He needs help, but YOU CANNOT HELP HIM!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him to go ahead and kill himself!. Emotional blackmail is very unfair, and that is what he's doing to you!. You can't be responsible for his mental state!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this is completly his problem!. dont feel guilty if he dies/suicde!. block him!. i know its harsh, but hey, its a harsh world!. dont let some !.stranger stress you!. i wish the best of luck for you and!.!.this random creepy guyWww@Answer-Health@Com

He sounds like a nutter playing mind games with you, to see how far he can go, just ignore the idiot if you can, and dont worry about the geek any longer lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Notify the authorities or a treatment facility to get him help!. No matter what you are not responsible for another person's actions and you should not feel guilty about what this guy does!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't you think hes liyng!? do you know him in real life to start saying that he cuted himself!? i think hes just making fun of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would shut this man out of my life immediately! Stop answering e-mails, block him from my space, change my # etc!.!.etc!.!.!.!.!. This is not your problem!. It goes to show that the internet truly can be a scarey place!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just block him and move on!. It isnt your problem and he probably would have done it to someone else, it isnt anything personal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

tell a pshycologist!.
he obviously needs help!.
do u know him like from school or something!?
or just over the internet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He's probably just messing with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh my god!.!.!.
read this http://www!.metanoia!.org/suicide/Www@Answer-Health@Com

call the cops they will be able to set up something with this guy and help himWww@Answer-Health@Com

he's not going to kill himself he's just lying just block him and don't have contact with him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

this guy is out of it call the copsWww@Answer-Health@Com

all i have to say is try and get him profesional help like a SHRINKWww@Answer-Health@Com

that was stupid of you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it sounds harsh but cut him off completlely, delete your myspace account, change your number !.!.!.!.everything you possibly can!. you not here to save a person from themselves and he he continues hes going to make you ill!. dont have any second thoughts, theyre empty threats, he should have a family/freinds who can help him more than you can and hes simply using attention seeking tricks to keep you were he wants you!. you sound like a good person and i know you want to do right by him but you need to remove yourself from this destructive relationship!. explain to your mother exactly how much this is upsetting you, im not sure if she fully gets what hes mentally doing to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He's only doing it for the attention!. If I were you I would just stop talking to him!. You say he lives far away, so how do you know he is actually serious about all of this!? He could just be saying all fo this just for fun!. (Trust me, there are some WEIRD people out there!.!.!.) He's not your responsibility!. None of this is your fault so don't blame yourself!. Hun, just break off all contact witht his guy!. Nothing good can come of it so why put yourself through it!? Just stop talking to him!. He'll get over it eventually!. Trust me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

In some states, you can call the police and tell them you are aware of someone that has threatened to harm himself!. The police will go to the home and try to intervene!. My sister had to do this with her ex because he would constantly call and threaten to hurt himself!. I know you are worried he may do something really scary, but I can tell you this is most likely not the first time he has done this to someone!. You cannot be held responsible for him, so if you know where he lives call the police!. I don't believe you have to tell them who you are!. It is not your fault if he hurts himself, he has an unhealthy obsession and needs an intervention!. Check out some local support hotlines if you are not sure what to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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