Ok.. i have been scarred for life.. how do i recover...PLEASE?!

I understand how you feel!. But I think you're mad because maybe you think that you can't compete with someone of another race!. I mean!.!.!.if it was just "another" woman, you could compete with her!. I know that sounds wierd!. But I heard that once in a class!. I think making friends (like one of the answerers said) of someone of "her race" might help you learn about different cultures/races!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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I think this has a lot to do with your self confidence!. The reason why you do not like the people of that race is because you believe them to be superior to you just because your ex went for that specific type of race!. You need to learn how to let go of your ex and become a better person from the inside and not despise people from the outside!. Sometimes, it doesn't take a partner to complete you, but you need to find what it is that helps complete you as a person!. Please don't hate people for an unreasonable excuse!. Everyone is different individually and shouldn't just be hated upon their race for something they've never done to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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You know, I know you sound racist, but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that you aren't!. I think right now you are just hurt, and that is how you are dealing with your pain by taking it out on other people (of that race)!. It might help to try to make some friends of whatever the girl's race is so you can see they are not all man stealing meanies!. And in time you anger toward that race and about the situation will go away!. Just know if he did that to you, he wasn't worth anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Your anger comes from associations!. When you see a couple who reminds you of this touchy subject, you go over the whole bitter problem again!.

However, it is possible to accept this and move on with your life!. You haven't been scarred; you just need a band-aid!. Probably you are torn up because you still have feelings for him and can't get over him!. But these things pass naturally!. To catalyze the process, try exposing yourself to new people and situations and take your mind off the things that make you mad by engaging in some kind of activity you enjoy!. Also, vent, vent, vent to your friends!.

It never pays to generalize!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Its ok maybe you were not meant to b i kinda had the same sort of problem that girl it doesnt matter just think of your self being in that race or her being in your race everyones the same he was jerkit doesnt matter who he dates and what race there from just think hes a jerk and he left me because im a good person that girl doesnt know hes a jerk yetWww@Answer-Health@Com

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ok, first of all, the way you worded this was super confusing!. What I did when I was pissed about this kind of stuff was ask myself: Is it worth it to be this angry!? And I always find the answer of that to be no, then I move on with my life!. Just find it in yourself to forgive that guy, and this won't happen anymore!.

Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Please think of all the people in the world as belonging to one race: the human race!. So he left you for some other girl, I know it hurts but it will get better in time!. And who knows, perhaps another nicer boy is in your very near future!Www@Answer-Health@Com

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be friends with someone with "that girls" race!. That might enlighten you!.!.!. but you might just be against interracial relationsWww@Answer-Health@Com

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it took me a few years and a great counselor to get me over my first husband leaving me for another man after 13 years of marriage, so honey it could be worse, see your pastor or find a counslor or someone to talk to, you do have a anger issue to cover and take care of, then hunt up yourself a hunk and get back into the dating game and get over him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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