Is it unhealthy to still?!
Question: Is it unhealthy to still!?
talk to me wife who died 6 months ago with our baby in a car accident!.
It makes me feel better, especially at night!. Her mother is mad at me because I won't give away their things to charity!. I'm just not ready yet!. But they don't seem to get that!. They act like ok so they're dead that's it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It makes me feel better, especially at night!. Her mother is mad at me because I won't give away their things to charity!. I'm just not ready yet!. But they don't seem to get that!. They act like ok so they're dead that's it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I support you!.Take as much time as you need,you lost 2 people in your life that where your whole world to you!.I see nothing wrong with talking to them at all!.we all grieve and handle loss in different ways!.When you feel the time has come to move on and get rid of their stuff you'll do it when you are ready!.But you will still have the memories that you will never get rid of!.
GOOD LUCK!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
GOOD LUCK!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe her mother is further along in the grieving process than you are and seeing that you are still behind her makes her feel as though she didn't love her daughter and grandchild as much as you did!. Seeing you hurt can't be easy for the people around you and they want you to be better, they are trying to move you along the path!. And really thats all on them because you have to do this process the way that you feel is right because only you know how you are feeling!.
It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks you have to do this your way!.!.!.don't let anyone force you to move faster than you need to because in the end you will be better for it!.
I am so sorry that this happened!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It really doesn't matter what anyone else thinks you have to do this your way!.!.!.don't let anyone force you to move faster than you need to because in the end you will be better for it!.
I am so sorry that this happened!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There is no time limit on grief, friend!. Everyone recovers from tragedy at a different rate, and I would have to say that you deserve as much time as you could ever want or need to get past this difficult part in your life!. The first year was the hardest for me after losing a partner; and though its been many years, now, I still talk to him - whenever I'm lonely, sad or just had a really rough day!. I've also been known to take a picnic to his grave and spend the day with him!. I do see a therapist, and I have been assured that these activities are not a sign of mental illness - it is perfectly normal!.
I wish you the best blessings in this tragic time of your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wish you the best blessings in this tragic time of your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First off, I am very very sorry to hear that about your wife and child!. I can't even imagine to know what you are going through!. To answer your question, I think it is HEALTHY to grieve the way you are!. I mean, six months isn't a great amount of time to have passed after losing two people you love more than anything!. If it makes you feel better, do it!. If you are still talking to your wife after 6 YEARS, then!.!.!.I would say that is unhealthy!. Right now, I think it is natural!. I also think your mother in law in an insensitive B*&$%!. She has no reason to be mad at you for wanting to keep her belongings!. You let go of those at your pace!. I think you are handling this well and healthy!. Again, I am sorry for your losses!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think its the best thing you can do, if it helps you to keep their stuff, keep it! Thats a horrible loss, its not going to be over night that your over this and i cant believe the mother in-law is pushing you, that was your wife and child, YOUR family! I talk to my mother who died when i was young eveyday and know shes hearing me!.!.!.You will be in my prayers, your wife and child also!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if it helps you there is no reason to talk to them, telling them about your day etc before bed!. Everyone mourns in different ways and takes different lengths of time to get over a loss!.
Try talking to a therapist as well!. They can help you in other ways to deal with the situation!.
It's only been 6 months, how can they possibly expect you to move on from loosing someone so close to you and a baby!.
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Try talking to a therapist as well!. They can help you in other ways to deal with the situation!.
It's only been 6 months, how can they possibly expect you to move on from loosing someone so close to you and a baby!.
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I don't get your first phrase!. Are you saying is it unhealthy to be still!?
If that is your question, my answer is no!. You must take the time to grieve and take as much time as you want and/or need!. Don't clear out anything for at least a year because you will not have good judgment for at least a year!. I'm surprised that her mother is saying such things but, you should write her a nice letter thanking her for her concern and politely tell her to butt out!.
My thoughts are with you during your time of grief!. Love and respect to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If that is your question, my answer is no!. You must take the time to grieve and take as much time as you want and/or need!. Don't clear out anything for at least a year because you will not have good judgment for at least a year!. I'm surprised that her mother is saying such things but, you should write her a nice letter thanking her for her concern and politely tell her to butt out!.
My thoughts are with you during your time of grief!. Love and respect to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I just answered your other question telling you the same thing happened to my sister!.!.!.If talking to them makes you feel better do it all you want!.
It has been 6 years since we had this tragedy in our family and their rooms are exactly the way they were the day they died!. You have to do this your way and not listen to her mother!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It has been 6 years since we had this tragedy in our family and their rooms are exactly the way they were the day they died!. You have to do this your way and not listen to her mother!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no i think its healthy!. its just ur way of coping and everyone should accept that!. but talkin 2 them is defiently not unhealthy!. like people talk 2 god nd yet u cnt c him so no i fink that ur ok!.
but it becomes unhealthy wen u start to belive that there still alive!.
im realli realli sori 2 hear abt them and i hope u'll be ok
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but it becomes unhealthy wen u start to belive that there still alive!.
im realli realli sori 2 hear abt them and i hope u'll be ok
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To be still or to steal something!? If your asking than i think you kno the answer!.!.!.!.!.YESWww@Answer-Health@Com
u no how i feel from what i said in other question of yoursWww@Answer-Health@Com