Extremely selfish?!


Question: Extremely selfish!?
I am extremely self involved!. When I don
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I'm sorry I don't really have an educated answer for you, but I wanted to commend you for coming forward and seeking help to understand and change your behavior!. My boyfriend is similar and I know he would never ever admit this like you have, it would do our relationship wonders if he could!.!.!.

I think that this might even be the first step, admitting you think there is a problem and looking toward being held accountable for your actions!. If you don't have someone close to confide in, maybe you can find a counselor to hear you out!? Getting that out, saying it out loud might help you!. I guess in most situations, if you really are looking to change, think about the person you are trying to manipulate and put yourself in their shoes!.!.!.how would you feel!?

It sounds like you need to figure out where that anger is coming from!. I don't think the fantasy is the problem so much as it's become a band aid for the real problem!. Self esteem!? Self loathing!? Do you feel like a fake!? You are definitely struggling with control!.!.but why!?

I live in my own little fantasy world sometimes, I do it because there I don't beat myself up for all the things I perceive as being 'wrong' with me!. It's a bit of relief & escape!. I don't think a little is unhealthy, so long as you see the line between what's real and not, but all day long can't be good, you're missing out on the real world then and there is so much there to be enjoyed!.

Good luck to you!. I hope that you can get to a place where you are happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well my dear, unless you are ready to ADMIT it to FRIENDS, FAMILY and most of all a THERAPIST!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.you aren't going to get much help from YAHOO ANSWERS!.

You have a serious problem and you need to get it addressed ASAP!. You can't live this way ~ it will eventually alienate you and kill you!. Please get some PROFESSIONAL help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

oviously you have way WAY WAY too much sex ms!. exstisy!. Your back hurts!? thats because your boobs r heavy!. LoLWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think you have a bit of a mental illness!.!.!.maybe something as simple as depression!. You need to get some counselling about your anger and your frustrations!. You obviously don't have any real tools to deal with your problems so you make up this little "fantasy" world to make yourself feel better!. Try to get some help!. Even if its just from a school counsellor!. It doesn't sound normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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