My ex boyfriend is trying to control my life and every aspect of it!?!
Question: My ex boyfriend is trying to control my life and every aspect of it!!?
im 16 and my ex in 18!. i care about im allot, and we're really good friends!. he knows everything about me and we talk all the time!. he cares allot about me, but hes trying to control me! i strugle with anorexia sadly, im working on it, but he calls everynight to make sure i had enough calories and if my cals for that day dont satisfy him, hell yell at me to eat or threaten to call and tell my mom (which he has done before)!. allso, im a social smoker, and whenever i want to hang out with any of my friends who smoke, and he finds out which he allways dose because their his friends too, he threatens to once again tell my parents!. i dont know what to do!. even if i stop being friends with him he'll still find out!. he smokes himself, but whenever i mention it he says he has control and i dont and thats why i cant smoke!. my friends tell me to try and get him to quit too so hell stop hanging out with my friends who smoke so i can smoke in peace, but he wont listen!. someone help me please!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
He sounds more like a parent!. He is treating you like a child!. I wouldn't mess around or talk with him anymore! Smoking is bad for you! Just thought I would through that in, in case you didn't know!Www@Answer-Health@Com
1st of all stop smoking its bad for your health&about your ex stop answering your phone!.he will get bored when u stop talking to him if it doesnt work!.!.confront him&tell him what you u fell about what he did to you!.!.he doesnt love u but he trying to control your life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sometimes it is better to lose a "friend" and be lonely than to have a "friend" such as this!.!.!. He is manipulating you!. That can turn dangerous!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stop answering your phone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com