How do you deal with answerers who taunt and make threats on Y A ?!


Question: How do you deal with answerers who taunt and make threats on Y A !?
i ask heartfelt honest questions, im open and honest, maybe to my own detrement!.

i do it because im a lonely person, and struggle with alot of pressure and problems in my life as i always have done!.

and hopefully, possibly to make friends and connect to someone!.

im not really bothered or scared that i ask open and honest questions and put myself outthere!.

but i get really annoyed and it takes alot of self restraint when you get insulting answers or taunts from people you dont know!.

like this question earlier :

http://uk!.answers!.yahoo!.com/question/ind!.!.!.

notice the answer guy who said he knows who iam !?

this to me is mind games, the sort i dont like!.

how do you deal with it !?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I had the same thing,,now i dont,,let anybody ,,email me,,,but,,it stops the Good People ,from doing it to,,,which,,spoils this site,,,,Www@Answer-Health@Com

Face it - you are ****** and its no ones fault but yourself! Oooh! What a nasty person! :-) (No mind games there, just honest straight talking from someone who sees you ignoring all the long kind caring answers you get with your repetitive daily question)

You put no value on the compassionate answer at all, you don't take peoples advice on board or the same question wouldn't reapppear time and time again every day for monthsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Please dont let these idiots put you off, ive seen this time and time again, someone asks a question because they obviously need some help and advise and a lot of the people who reply are genuinely trying to help and advise, but you also get a lot of sarcastic, stupid, idiotic answers!. Honestly, these people arent worth worrying about, they do it for a reaction, to upset and annoy, dont let them get to you, just concentrate on all the genuine answers you get and ignore the idiotic ones because sadly these people get a kick out of upsetting people and are best off ignored!. Keep asking your questions!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

dont take it seriously ! that only means you are popular somewhere!
this remind me of a song that says:

Boys and girls pretend to know me, they try so hard

Don't try to hate me because I am so popular!.!.

Pop, pop, popular! Pop, pop, popular!Www@Answer-Health@Com

The best thing for such a sensitive soul as yourself is to stop posting on Yahoo Answers and find a similar forum where the posts are moderated regularly!. This way any dodgy posts are removed immediately without disrupting the flow of the topic!. There is lots of free stuff out there to start your own forum if you can't find a forum to suit you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

seems to me that most people answered with thought and consideration for you!. You will always get the odd one who's mean or offensive!. Just ignore them and concentrate on the constructive answers!.

Remember, none of us (well hardly any) know anyone else on here, so it really isn't personal!. So, as it's not personal it's silly to take it to heart!. If you do, maybe this site isn't a helpful one for you!.

Take it easy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sweetie!.!.!.please don't let these cold hearted, no soul, not worthy of your time of day bother you!! i know that is easier said than done!.!.!.but they are getting exactly what they want when you let it bother you! they are so immature and have NO clue to what troubles life holds for so many of us (you)! if you ever need to chat i am here! you will be in my thoughts! please just blow these dumb asses off! they are just bottom feeders and need to stay there!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Anything you post online has the risk of abuse!. All you need to do with 'Answers' is report abuse!. However, I must admit, though I am a very mild mannered chap, sometimes, some of the questions are difficult to answer without a hint of sarcasm!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Report 'em
Block 'em
Ignore 'em

Honestly they're not worth getting upset about!. The people who are insulting on here are normally your basic typical bully - insecure and inadequate who can only feel good about themselves by insulting other people!. Try not to get too worked up about it, life's too short!Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's easy to not let these insults bother you!.

nothing matters, i don't matter, you don't matter, no one in the world matters!. hence whatever they say to try and get at you, doesn't matterWww@Answer-Health@Com

You pretty much have to ignore them !.!.!.!. you don't want to be wasting your time on the jerks!. From what I have seen, you get more positive than negative response on YA so keep your focus on the positive :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

ignore them, aswell as the people who answer your questions saying you cant spell they are the worst if you dont like a question someone else is asking dont answer it

people are cruel!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.end ofWww@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like you need your confidence building up!.
There are a lot of idiots on here just like anywhere else in the world!.
Just take no notice and move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ignore them, there are plenty more people who genuinely want to help and give you good advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah, report it or think about who the writer COULD be!. Possibly some 13 y/o kid thats bored!. lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

Report them, if its bad enough Y/A will delete their account!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ignore 'em :o)Www@Answer-Health@Com

report their asses!!!!!!!!!!!!#!@#$@#$@Www@Answer-Health@Com

report him

and/or ignor him

xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

It is sad that when someone wants real honest answers about any questions, people post mean comments, right off with jokes and never write an answer to the question!. You aren't the only one, some people in Pregnancy section write dumb stuff when pregnant women are asking serious questions!. Or some were complaining that in the "Trying to conceive questions" forum are getting abortion questions and feel that they are being taunted!. Some people feel that it is funny to write stupid stuff and hurt other people's feeling!. The best thing-ignore them and report them!. If they don't want to respect the guidelines, they shouldn't be here!.
Next time you want to write a question, write a warning like " Only serious answers please, any negative comments will be reported"!. I have seen some askers putting this along with their questions and believe me nobody wrote mean comments!
Good luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you need to very careful not to take any of it seriously!. Some folks seem to adopt an entirely different personality when they are on line, I guess being anonymous allows them to be outrageous and insulting and far braver than they ever would be in real life!. I think that is why some YA members seem to be so brutal and seem to do it so easily!.

I think that you should see your doctor, and maybe get referred for counselling!. It would seem like maybe you have a few issues going on right now but remember this: despite what other people think, having a few psychological issues going on is not anything to be ashamed of, you wouldn't feel ashamed of a broken leg, or being deaf - would you!?

Find the courage to go and get some help, you may be surprised how the world can look a little better after a while!. And don't take any notice of anyone on Yahoo Answers !.!.!.!.!. except me of course! and the others who are being helpful and supportive!. Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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