I am not motivated to live anymore, what do I do?!
Question: I am not motivated to live anymore, what do I do!?
I have no motivation anymore, I used to try really hard in school, but now I am so sick of it and I don't want to wrok anymore!. I tell myself what's the point!? so I have no motivation and can't work on anything!. Unfortunately I'm in year 10 and this has come at the worst point in my life!. I need to work really hard in Year 11 and 12 because i have to get good marks because i want to be a physiotherapist, but when I have no motivation to live and do anything i just can't work!. I know being a physio sounds like a driving force, but I realy just feel like I have given up on life!. I don't really want to be here anymore because I'm not happy!. If you have ever felt like this, how did you get over it!?!?!? What gets you up in the morning and makes you do schoolwork when you don't feel you don't hae the motivation to live anymore!?!? Help me please, there must be a way out of this!.!.!. what is it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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For me, i know there are still things i want to do, see, and places i want to go and go back to!. Also, the unexpected things along the way are sometimes the most rewarding!. Take it one day at a time!.!.!.!. I felt the same way in highschool!.!.!. I thought it could not get any worse!.!.!. But then i thought, there are people who have it a lot worse than i do!. Find the small things that make you smile, happy, etc!. it seems that you put a lot of pressure on yourself!. take a step back!. you are still young!. think of all the old people who would wish to be your age again! [me included!] this is your time in life when you should be enjoying yourself! there is always someone who has had it a lot worse than you [and that is not a condescending shot a you] i've been where you are!. it gets better, believe me!. but you have to find what makes you happy!. 10th through 11th, i hated life!. but in senior year, i thought to myself, i'm young, f*** it!. do you have good friends that can cheer you up!? maybe just some weirdos that you can laugh with!? just think of everything possible down the line!. life is full of possibilities! Enjoy the great, ignore the bad because the bad will not last forever!. for the fear of sounding too preachy, i'll stop now!. "what does not kill you makes you stronger" survive and adapt!. good luck in the future! if all the hard work for being a physio brings you down too much, stop!. there are other proffessions!. find something you enjoy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What gets me up in the am is my family, as screwed as they are, I still know that I need them and they need me!. I can't help you with the school work part of your prob!. because I am not in school myself but I think that maybe talking to a counselor or one of your teachers may help!?!?!?!? Sorry if I am rambling, it's late!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think with technology and how the world works today, an orange is starting to get peeled!. Suddenly we don't feel so safe and secure for our future cause death could come tomorrow!.!.!.so what's the point!.!.!.why keep going!. I don't know their really is no point!.!.!.their's so many people that your personal mark on the world is worthless and will be forgotten within time!. Their is no god or afterlife when your dead your gone for eternity their really is no point to live other than the fact of existing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think we all feel like this at some point but it should only last a day or so!. If you continue to feel like this for long periods you should speak to a psychologist as you are probably depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm not really sure how to answer this!. Honestly, I think society and the economy have a lot to do with things now a days!. The world is getting worse!. I sit and think "damn, if things are this bad now, how will they be in ___ years"
I hope I'm not depressing you further, if I am, I'm sorry!. I know I'm at a bad point in my life!. I moved to a new state almost 2 months ago!. Where I WAS, I was going to have to move into another place, but!. I had a Full time job and my boss's liked me so much they were going to try what they could to get me into an apartment!. However, instead of staying there, where I probably would of been better off, I moved to Colorado!.
Since I have been here, nothing has gone right for me!. Nothing!. 2 weeks after moving here, my glasses broke!. They are prescription, so, I've been without them for over a month!. When I first moved here, I had high hopes of having a job within the first 2 weeks!. I still don't have a job!. We (My mom, whom I moved in with, me and my daughter) had to move from where we WERE to a smaller town!.!.and there isn't **** for jobs here!. So, I'm still jobless, which in itself is frustrating and depressing!. My car is broke down!. Head Gasket, going to take a good amount of money to get that fixed!. When I did my taxes, I found out my former employers took not federal taxes out, so, I owe in!. Probably being charged for everyday I don't have them their money and will probably end up owing a lot by the time I get a job!. When I get a job, I am expected to pay $400/month in rent, which, wouldn't be a problem if my mother wasn't so insistant she's first in everything!. She even tells me that she won't be leaneant enough to let me get my glasses FIRST before I pay her any rent!. I am more than likely going to have to make up for the months that I am living here and don't have money for rent!. So, by the time I do get a job, I won't be able to save any money for anything!. I have to pay child support as well, till I can get full custody of my daughter!. But still!.!.!.I know how you feel!.
As to what gets me up everymorning!.!.nothing really!. I go to sleep, I get up!. I live day by day!. I figure, somewhere along the line, somethings got to give and things will hopefully get better!.
I'm sorry if it didn't help but, just wanted to let you know, you aren't the only one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope I'm not depressing you further, if I am, I'm sorry!. I know I'm at a bad point in my life!. I moved to a new state almost 2 months ago!. Where I WAS, I was going to have to move into another place, but!. I had a Full time job and my boss's liked me so much they were going to try what they could to get me into an apartment!. However, instead of staying there, where I probably would of been better off, I moved to Colorado!.
Since I have been here, nothing has gone right for me!. Nothing!. 2 weeks after moving here, my glasses broke!. They are prescription, so, I've been without them for over a month!. When I first moved here, I had high hopes of having a job within the first 2 weeks!. I still don't have a job!. We (My mom, whom I moved in with, me and my daughter) had to move from where we WERE to a smaller town!.!.and there isn't **** for jobs here!. So, I'm still jobless, which in itself is frustrating and depressing!. My car is broke down!. Head Gasket, going to take a good amount of money to get that fixed!. When I did my taxes, I found out my former employers took not federal taxes out, so, I owe in!. Probably being charged for everyday I don't have them their money and will probably end up owing a lot by the time I get a job!. When I get a job, I am expected to pay $400/month in rent, which, wouldn't be a problem if my mother wasn't so insistant she's first in everything!. She even tells me that she won't be leaneant enough to let me get my glasses FIRST before I pay her any rent!. I am more than likely going to have to make up for the months that I am living here and don't have money for rent!. So, by the time I do get a job, I won't be able to save any money for anything!. I have to pay child support as well, till I can get full custody of my daughter!. But still!.!.!.I know how you feel!.
As to what gets me up everymorning!.!.nothing really!. I go to sleep, I get up!. I live day by day!. I figure, somewhere along the line, somethings got to give and things will hopefully get better!.
I'm sorry if it didn't help but, just wanted to let you know, you aren't the only one!.Www@Answer-Health@Com