I don't know anymore.?!
Question: I don't know anymore!.!?
i envy asian people, but then after awhile when i think about it!. i start to dislike asians overall!. i have asian friends & stuff!. but, i feel this weird distance, like, they think they're better cause they're asian!. i live in SF, CA!. there's a chinatown here & japan town!. so there are ALOT of asians, 60-70%!. sometimes the asian people don't even want to talk to me because i'm "white"!. it hurts, you know!. i'm suppose to be proud of being white!.!.!.then why do i feel like crap !? all the guys in my school are asin, and they on't even ntice me, won't even give me a chance to get to know them, because i'm white!. they're naturally thin, i'm not!. they have super straight sily hair, i have curly hair!. they have brown eyes, i have green/gray!. they have flat noses, i have an ugly white nose!. i really need some self-confidence tips, because i'm not doing too well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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People are going to hate you because you are white!. I've had the crap beat out of me for being a white boy in the wrong place at the wrong time!. Japan is known for racism it does not mean they are all racist, it's also known for shunning the deformed and dismembered!. Are they looking at you any differently then anyone else!? You are young and young girls often feel inadequate!. Also Asian guys as far as I know are not really considered a catch!. They may be afraid to approach you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Most people hang out with groups of there own "type"!. I understand how it is because alot of times I found it hard to make friends when i was the visual minority in a town and was white!. Go to South Korea for a year because tehre it is a symbol of wealth to have a white freind!. Im sure your not fat and Im sure you are very pretty dont get to down on yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
to me asians are bred to be snobs and racist, i have an asian neighbor, she claims shes not materialistic but she wont hesitate to rub something in your face, shes very much oh its cause im asian im so smart, im like whatever you must be dumb cause youre twice divorced,lolWww@Answer-Health@Com
Here's the deal!.!.!.!.straight out, I'm half Asian and I know exactly what you mean!. Seriously, our culture is considered 'fast' and 'rude' which is what you're perceiving when you state that we think we're better than you!. Most would probably not like me for stating this, but it's not that we feel like we're better than you (or anybody else), it's just that we pretty much 'stick to our own' mostly!. You asked and I had to keep it real with you!. So it's not you!. Hope this helped, because I know exactly where you're coming from!.!.!.!. Keep your head up, you'll be fine!.!.!. And stop comparing yourself to us!. Be happy with who you are!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
self confidence tips, huh!? well first of all, don't assume that you are supposed to be proud of your white-ness!. people are people!. it is unlikely that they are looking down on you because of your ethnicity, although it does happen!. could it be because you have other personality traits they dont like!? who cares if you are naturally thin or not!? we were all made a different way because that is what suits us!. i was made with a rotund body, and am very pear-shaped!. the guy who i want to marry happens to be very attracted to my pear-shaped body!. it also give me more power in my lower body, which i use on a daily basis in my nanny job!. look a tthe things baou tyour body you like!.!.!. your strength, your unique eye color, etc!. and hopefully you will STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS regardless of ethnicity!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm Asian, but I understand your feeling!. You know what!? This is the first time that I heard about white people talk about this stuff!. The same situation, just coz I've a black hair, flat nose, yellow skin, skinny and whatever that call Asian look and I'm not english native speaking it doesn't mean I'm stupid and white people can look down up on me!. I hate when they look at me that way, the way that say- oh, you are Asian! and your english sounds so funny, I don't want to talk to you!.-
The point is!.!.!. I don't know!. I need some self-confidence, too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
The point is!.!.!. I don't know!. I need some self-confidence, too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com