Anyone else abused by adoptive parents?!
Question: Anyone else abused by adoptive parents!?
AM was dom, AD her sub in almost everything!. They were infertile, and only adopted after failure was certain!. They were old, unhappily married, and emotionally unhealthy!.
They used fear and physical abuse (slapping, scratching, squeezing, using paddles), from first memories until I turned 14, and I finally beat up AF during an attack!. The verbal abuse included non-stop criticism, aloofness, and AM saying "I wish you were never born" or "I hate you" (really!?)!. There was some weird sex stuff by BM at night: laying in my bed, rubbing my bare butt and calling me "sexy"--when I was about 7 until middle school or so!. It might have been related to booze!. It stopped when I began to vocally resist!.
They show thinly-veiled contempt toward any success I have in marriage, childrearing, or school/work--as if it were unfair that someone "bad" like me is undeservedly lucky!. My AM once told my wife to consider the "option" of divorcing me!. When she told me, I wasn't upset, just numb!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
They used fear and physical abuse (slapping, scratching, squeezing, using paddles), from first memories until I turned 14, and I finally beat up AF during an attack!. The verbal abuse included non-stop criticism, aloofness, and AM saying "I wish you were never born" or "I hate you" (really!?)!. There was some weird sex stuff by BM at night: laying in my bed, rubbing my bare butt and calling me "sexy"--when I was about 7 until middle school or so!. It might have been related to booze!. It stopped when I began to vocally resist!.
They show thinly-veiled contempt toward any success I have in marriage, childrearing, or school/work--as if it were unfair that someone "bad" like me is undeservedly lucky!. My AM once told my wife to consider the "option" of divorcing me!. When she told me, I wasn't upset, just numb!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It is so disturbing to find out the way you have been treated by people that were supposed to protect and care for you!. These people should be reported to the authorities and charged for child abuse!. They are still trying to control your life by manipulation and guilt!. What cruel people!. Your AM is not a healthy woman!. It would be important to get counselling to get out the pain from your childhood so that you can be there for your children!. When we are abused growing up, there is a lot of pain that needs to come out!. We trusted these people that were supposed to protect and nurture us!. they failed miserably!. I'm so sorry that you have had to endure this painful reality!. Please get help for you and your family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com