SUICIDE HELP please!!!!!!!?!


Question: SUICIDE HELP please!!!!!!!!?
ok i am really thinking of commiting suicide after what happened tonight!.!.!.
i am sooooo young to be already thinking this and i have been thinking of suicide since i was 6 years old (NOT KIDDING)
ok now i am 12 and lately i was thinking about killing myself and i decided to tell my parents (again) about this little problem!. my parents didnt even seem to care!. my mom said "well its your own life, not mine and i have done my job as your mom so do whatever you want" and my dad was like "WHAT THE ^&&* ^*&(*& !!!!! WHY DO YOU WANNA KILL YOURSELF!!?!!?! YOU HAVE IT SO ^&*(&*(&(* GOOD!!!!! I AM SO TIRED OF THIS!!!!!" and beat me so hard on my head my vision is blurry right now!.!.!.
and the weird thing is my dad has never hit me that hard before! but anyways my parents dont care and wont take me to see a doctor or anything, and since they dont care i really think i have no reason to live!. i have A LOT of homework these days and have been all negative lately and cutting myself, but what is the bestWww@Answer-Health@Com


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i have had allot of mental heath issues since i was about 7 and have tried to kill myself many many times and trust me it is not the answer if your parents wont listen then try talking to a friends mum or dad or a teacher or even your principal they are more likely to listen than your parents and believe me your parents do love you its just that they don't understand and don't want to have to admit to them selves that there is a problem here OK and if you ever do need some one to talk to then ask your teachers or guidance counsellor and they should give you the number of a local crisis care hot line these numbers are free to call any time of the day or nightWww@Answer-Health@Com

I have been there
I've wanted to kill myself when I was younger and yes sometime's life sucks but it happens for a reason you can chose to let it control you or become stronger from it
suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem
and it sounds to me as if you suffer from depression

Have you tried talking to a counsler!?
I know it may be hard but I tell you what if I didn't talk to counsler's when I was younger I wouldn't have made it
So please talk to a counsler at school!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you feel that way and your parents wont help and you honestly feel like you may hurt yourself, call and ambulance!. (you can do it, ivedone it) tell them you want to kill yourself and you dont feel safe!. youll go to the ER get evalutaed and maybe go to a mental hospital!. (they hel i swear they are magical places!)you only go for a week or two,!. they will help your parents stop being so lame! god thats so lame that thay said that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sorry to hear that but dont kill yourself there is some ppl out there that do care about you and you would hurt them if u did!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.and if your parents dont want to listen to you then tell a teacher or some other adult that you know will do something to help you!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.wat ever u do remeber that if u kill yourself those ppl you leave behind will hurt just the same!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.i hope everthing works out!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.just dont hurt your self anymoreWww@Answer-Health@Com

my sister went through the same thing you did, she used to call CPS on my parents!. now she is fine she says she wants to kill her self but she never does!. Just don't do it, you wont ever know what this world can make of you!. Your still just a kid, you can still save yourself!.!. check out the school counselor tomorrow!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

go to your local county mental health!.!.!.they wiill eaither see you for free or for really cheap!. Also, nothing you say gets back to your parents or anyone else without your ok!. At least talk to them, and then go from there!. Maybe they will help, maybe they wont!.!.!.but it doesn't sound like they can make you feel any worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, well, regardless, what ur dad did was wrong!. he should NOT have beaten you!. Doesnt matter if it was a first time thing or not!. It was wrong!.

As for the school counserlor being a shithead!.!.!.!.since you cant talk to him, talk to someone else!. A teacher you trust would be a good choice, or a suicide hotline!. Just try it!. It cant hurt!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your young killing yourself is not the answer go to your school counsellor and talk to them there be able to help you sort out your problems !. you sound as if your lonely and your in need of some love and affection but theres better ways of getting it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nothing is worth dying over!. Help is only as far away as the nearest telephone!. The people working at the 911 switchboard are most helpful and caring!. Also calling a clergyman is good!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey,,,,pause for a second and wait!.!.!.!.!.have you ever thought of praying to Jesus!.!.!.!.do it quick coz He will help you NOW!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe you need a friend, you know like a closer friend, somebody that understands you and appreciates you, like a boyfriend!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

cause you are probably alone, and then it comes depression and everything else!.!.!.!.!.

I used to be like you!.!.!.!.!.but then I decided that If I killed my self, I am a coward!. But I'm not!.!.!.!.!.so

In my case, I'm like 24 years old and I'm alone with no girlfriend (my first relationship was a mess) sometimes I get depressed, but once you are mature enough you learn to control it!.

well any question you have you have a friend right here

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herbozo2003@yahoo!.com

good luck my friendWww@Answer-Health@Com

Do not commit suicide!. I went through it all!. I ended up making an appointment to go and see my doctor and then i went to a psychologist, she helped me change my thinking patterns and made me see the Positive sides of life, you need to do the same!. No matter how bad things get there is always someone there to help, even if your family is not!.
After going to therapy my head is no longer muddled and cloudy, i have ony positive thoughts and life is a lot easier, i think you would benifit from seeing a proffessional!.!.!.
and dont put it off, you need to do it now!Www@Answer-Health@Com

suicide is selfish and so are you!. lets look at this from your mums point of view for a minute!. her daaughter has just told her (and not for the first time) that she is suicidal!. she probably feels like you don't love her enough to care what that would do to her!. so she doesn't react!. fair call mum - you obviously haven't thought about her at all!. as for your dad, same deal different outcome!.
stop being a drama queen!. suck it up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay first i think we've all been there at one point in out lives!.!.!.!. including me!. But suicide is a periment solution for a temporary problem!. If your dad hit you that hard!.!.!.!. you need to tell someone about it!. & I know it must be really hard to hear your mom say that to you liek she doesnt care but you know what if your parents wont take you to get help then go to a school counsler b/c they'll help you as well!. i know when i wanted to commit suicide my mom didnt take me seriously when i told her!.!.!. bc i wanted to get help!.!.!.!. cuzz i wanted to do it really bad!. but i didnt want to Does that make sense!? Well anyways she didnt take me to get help & that hurt me cause it seem like she didnt care so i know where your coming from but go talk to a school, counslerWww@Answer-Health@Com

This is really hard to answer!. Don't do it!. Life sucks sometimes but you might as well stick it out, it doesn't last that long!. More people then you think, think about suicide when they are young!. You should talk to a counselor at school!. You're dad should not have hit you, but from his response it sounds like you talk about this type of thing all the time!. Which is another reason to go see a counselor!.

Try to get involved in something you enjoy, a sport, anything something you can tolerate that is not drugs!. If you are not interested in anything pick something that you think you can tolerate the best then fake it till you make it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, I honestly care about you and your well-being!. Please don't kill yourself!. You can talk to a school counselor and they can lead you in the right direction and you could also call The Samaratins free help hotline!. If you are really only 12 years old then you have a LOT to live for!. I can tell because you are really smart and write well!. You also have great insight!. Just reach out for help-start with the school counselor and pray!. Gob Bless you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

The fact that your father beat you is against the law!. Not only have you been physically abused, but your medical needs have been neglected!. Please call the national child abuse hotline to receive some more information and talk to someone about this over the phone!. The number is 1-800-4-A-CHILD, and then press 1 to speak to a counselor!. There are people on the phone available 24/7 to listen and support you!. You deserve parents that will hear you when you have threatened to take your own life!. Please call this number and take action to help yourself!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

I am a happily married, proud parent of a 9 year old girl but when I was 13, I wanted to kill myself and my classmates!. (I am now 28 years old)!. I had tunnel vision and I couldn't see that anything could ever change!. Luckily, my parents got me help and sent me to a mental hospital!. I was put on medication and finally realized that my life wasn't just ****, but I had a chemical imbalance!. I am still on meds and my faith in God has helped me tremendously!.!.!.I was close to killing myself too!. If my mother hadn't taken me to see a psychiatrist, I probably would have been the first "Columbine" type of case you had heard of!. If your parents aren't there for you, talk to an adult you trust!. Your teacher, counselor, friend's parent, or even just someone at a suicide hotline!. Just don't end your life!. God has so much in store for you!. He will use your pain to help others if you will let him heal you first!.
BTW, I have cut myself too (still have the scars to prove it), have been beaten by my Dad as well!. Please don't give up!. There is so much more to life then what you are going through right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are probably stressing out, due to rampaging hormones, pressures of school, and problems with others!. It is vital that you get 8 - 9 hrs of sleep every night, or you won't perform well!. See study tips, and memory improvement, at http://www!.ezy-build!.net!.nz/~shaneris in sections 13, and 41, and start study/homework groups with friends: academics is only one pathway to success, and many people are just not suited to it, so don't stress too much about it!. Richard Branson left school at 16, and Winston Churchill was not a well-performed student!. Your future may well be in another field, such as: graphic artist, real estate, cinematography, Feng Shui consultant, landscaping, fashion design, aromatherapist, music industry, photographer, personal trainer/aerobics instructor, etc!. School is about teaching some basics, and keeping students occupied, so adults can work, that's all! Try many things (except drugs, binge drinking, and the more dangerous ones) and develop those areas in which you perform well, or have a natural aptitude!. Consider having vocational guidance tests, and career counselling, to give you some ideas on what may suit you best!. Ultimately, it is much more important that you be a good person, who helps others when reasonable to do so, and makes a fair contribution to the society which supports him/her, than scholastic achievements!. ~~~ View the advice on self harm, in section 16, at ezy-build and contact them, when you feel the need to self harm/cut!. There are various suggestions, much information, and useful weblinks on my website: far too much to include here, which is why I needed to create it!. Seek therapy, to help you address the actual cause of those problems, rather than using an inappropriate method of treating the symptoms, which others have found, doesn't work, in the longer term, and which leaves behind the extra problem of scarring to deal with, then!. ~~~ See the advice, and weblinks/hotlines regarding suicidal thoughts/ideation, in section 5, at ezy-build and contact them, when the need arises!. If your father DIDN'T CARE about you, he wouldn't have even bothered to try to knock some sense into your head, which is what, in his inappropriate way, he was trying to do!. Your mother is probably, tired, possibly menopausal, or pre -menopausal, or suffering from pre-menstrual syndrome, and is looking forward to you getting through the difficulties of adolescence, to reach a level of stability and maturity!. View section 13!. A certain level of stress is unavoidable, in modern society, so it is a good idea to develop effective coping methods!. See stress treatments, at ezy build, below on page 42!. Practise daily, one of the relaxation techniques on pages 2, 11, 2c, or 2i; whichever works best for you, but the mindfulness breathing for 15 - 20 mns is ideal, although the progressive muscle relaxation can be learned quickly, and takes only several minutes, if pressed for time!. Employ the EFT version for use in public, for which you can reasonably claim that you have a headache, as you massage/tap your temples, but it may be advisable to restrict yourself to subvocalising (saying it to yourself, in your mind, not aloud)!. Section 53, and pages 2, 2!.q and 2!.o refer!. "Even though I sometimes suffer from stress, I deeply and completely accept myself"!.

(The following is a variant of EMDR therapy, which has been used successfully for those people suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, insomnia, and anxiety: it is easily learned, quick to use, yet can be very effective)!. Prior to using either of the methods in the above paragraph, first sit comfortably, and take a deep breath!. Then, without moving your head, move your eyes from the left, to the right, and back again, taking around a second to do so (say: a thousand and one: this takes approximately a second)!. Repeat this procedure (without the words, although you can count, subvocally if you like) 20 times!. Then close your eyes and relax!. Become aware of any tension or discomfort you feel!. Then open your eyes, and take another deep breath, and repeat step one, closing your eyes, and relaxing afterwards, in the same manner!. Then, repeat the procedure one last time!. Some people may find that this is all they need do!. With experience, you may find that you can practise this in public, with your eyes closed, which greatly widens the window of opportunity for its use, and avoids attracting unwanted attention!.


You can also multitask, using the gazing technique, as you walk/jog or exercise, by focusing on a distant object, noting any thoughts which flash across your mind, without pursuing any particular train of thought, just gently redirect your focus to the gazing!. Yoga, or Tai Chi may suit others, better, or use them all!. For some people, visualisation of a quiet, relaxing scene, like a tropical beach, (feel the sun warming you, as a gentle breeze caresses your skin lightly, inhaling the tangy, salt laden spray from the sparkling, translucent, aqua waves, crashing on the white, coral beach sand, as the seagulls swoop and cavort playfully overhead in a cloudless, azure sky; you feel just like one of them; free to soar and cartwheel, or just glide, in the moist, heavy air, and that this moment will last forever!.!.!.!.!. Some people may find it helps when they listen to: http://www!.amazon!.com/Sounds-Of-The-Ocea!.!.!. Other suggestions: http://www!.secretsofmeditation!.com/demo!.!.!.!.
and the audio, as well as the printed version, at: http://www!.lessons4living!.com/relaxation!.!.!. and http://www!.amazon!.com/Ambient-Rain-Sound!.!.!. or the mountain river sounds!. Take 4 Omega 3 fish oil supplements, daily, replacing 2 of them with cod liver oil supplements, or a teaspoonful of the oil (I spread mine on toast, and mask its strong taste with fishpaste, and pepper), in the winter months only!. Those people who receive adequate exposure to sunlight, daily, won't need the vitamin D from cod liver oil, but many people, particularly those in latitudes far from the equator, find this difficult, to achieve!. Eat healthily, in accordance with your "nutritional type" as determined at http://www!.mercola!.com/ SEARCHBAR!.

Try having a cup of "Tension Tamer", herbal tea (from supermarket tea aisles) from Celestial Seasonings, or make some at home, and cool, then bottle, and drink as needed (I find it so strong tasting, that I need to drink it quickly, followed by something like fruit juice, to take away the taste, but others may find it more tolerable)!. C(h)amomile tea is a more palatable option!. As with all herbal/green teas, use lemon/lime, and/or a little sweetener (NOT ARTIFICIAL!!!) but no cream, or milk!.

Xylitol, or Stevia is preferable, (health food stores) or fruit sugar (fructose, such as "Fruisana", from supermarket sugar aisles) or even a little honey, because these will reduce "sugar spikes", which later deplete you of energy!. Minimise/eliminate consumption of highly processed foods, particularly grain products, such as white bread, donuts, cake, cookies/biscuits, or anything with sugar!. Opt for more wholefoods, non-starchy vegetables, and fruit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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