Have you experience a close death from a loved one?!


Question: Have you experience a close death from a loved one!?
My baby brother past away Aug!. 2007 and it hurts even more every day!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Yes, my 21 yr old son was killed in 2000!. I also was at the deathbed of both of my parents and my godmother!. I'm so sorry for your loss!. No one can really know how you feel about this but do know that others care!. I keep thinking about about "if onlys" and "what ifs" but none of that is going to change a thing so try go on with living as he would want you to and know you don't have to hoe this row on your own!. Please feel free to email me if you need to talk to someone!. I've changed my preferences to allow people to email me!.

Again, I'm sorry for your loss!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It seems to me that every other day someone close to me dies!. It was hard at first, but then I learned the sad truth!. Everyone dies!. To make it easier i dwell on the happy things never the bad!. I don't greeve, but i never forget!. A very good friend of mine made a request that i have used as guidence for many years at funerals!. He said, " I want a closed casket funeral!. I don't want all those people to see me like that!. I want everyone to rememmber the real me, the one that was still breathing!." I really respect that quote!. It has helped me and maybe it will help you remember the good in a person!. Try your best to move on, but NEVER, NEVER forget!. ;]Www@Answer-Health@Com

My infant grandson died 3 months ago!. He was only 7 weeks old and he died for no apparent reason in his crib!. We will never forget, but the pain, with time will go away!. I've experienced many deaths in my life!. No one is forgotten, but the pain has lessened with the passage of time!. Death is sleep!. The dead are at peace!. We need to learn to accept what we cannot change, and keep the memories but leave the pain behind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am one of the few who have not yet!. I can't imagine!. I do know, however, that the pain is never really gone!. Perhaps one day it will be easier to only remember the good, and forget the bad, but that doesn't make it any less painful right now!.

I hope the best for you, and I encourage you to find a loving, patient friend/mentor to talk with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My dad died in October!. I'm told many groups of people, including many Native American tribes, believe that it takes a full
"Four seasons" for your grief to fade, though it'll never go away entirely!. The trick is learning to live with it!. And I'm told by the person I trust most that it's possible!.
I'm so sorry for both are loses!. Take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

My dad died 14 years ago, it still hurts sometimes, I think that eventually you just find ways of dealing with the hurt and then it becomes less noticable, and easier to deal with in day to day life!. I always think of him though, everyday!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I lost my babysisterWww@Answer-Health@Com





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