Abusive and distorted?!
Question: Abusive and distorted!?
im 14!. i come from a very messed up family and its ruining my life!.
i recently have called the cops on my dad for child and domestic abuse but that still hasnt kept him from screaming and ruining mine and my moms life!. 3 days this past week my mom has left the house crying (leaving me alone with him)!.
i have a sister that is always at work or with her boyfriend!.
im slowly moving towards depression and i have been cutting myself and have been eating less and less!. (i have been struggling with anorexia for the past 2 months) i also have been doing more and more sexual things just to make me feel better about myself!.!.!.
can anybody relate to me
or have any advice!?
i need any kind of help i can get!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i recently have called the cops on my dad for child and domestic abuse but that still hasnt kept him from screaming and ruining mine and my moms life!. 3 days this past week my mom has left the house crying (leaving me alone with him)!.
i have a sister that is always at work or with her boyfriend!.
im slowly moving towards depression and i have been cutting myself and have been eating less and less!. (i have been struggling with anorexia for the past 2 months) i also have been doing more and more sexual things just to make me feel better about myself!.!.!.
can anybody relate to me
or have any advice!?
i need any kind of help i can get!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
That is a terrible situation that you are in!. Don't let it destroy you! Even though you are only 14, you obviously are mature enough to know what's going on is wrong and needs to be fixed!.
First of all, stop cutting yourself!. What does that solve!?!?!? Nothing!. If anything, it'll just be a constant reminder years from now when you have an ugly scar of bad memories!. And you have to try and eat properly!. Even if you don't have much of an appetite because you are stressed out, eat healthy food when you do eat!.!.!.!. you need to stay strong! And don't even waste your time/energy doing more sexual things!.!.!. you know that's wrong, or else you wouldn't of mentioned it!. Be your own best friend and support yourself!. Tell yourself what ever you'd tell a friend in the same situation, and follow that advice!.
Do you have any relatives that you could live with temporarily!? If not, if your father is truly that abusive, keep calling the police on him!.!.!. eventually they'll lock him up!.!.!. but only if you are very serious and very sure of the accusations!. Eventually he won't be allowed near you or your mother if he's that bad!. Maybe you should call a shelter or abuse hotline and speak directly with someone who's trained in this area!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all, stop cutting yourself!. What does that solve!?!?!? Nothing!. If anything, it'll just be a constant reminder years from now when you have an ugly scar of bad memories!. And you have to try and eat properly!. Even if you don't have much of an appetite because you are stressed out, eat healthy food when you do eat!.!.!.!. you need to stay strong! And don't even waste your time/energy doing more sexual things!.!.!. you know that's wrong, or else you wouldn't of mentioned it!. Be your own best friend and support yourself!. Tell yourself what ever you'd tell a friend in the same situation, and follow that advice!.
Do you have any relatives that you could live with temporarily!? If not, if your father is truly that abusive, keep calling the police on him!.!.!. eventually they'll lock him up!.!.!. but only if you are very serious and very sure of the accusations!. Eventually he won't be allowed near you or your mother if he's that bad!. Maybe you should call a shelter or abuse hotline and speak directly with someone who's trained in this area!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you see what you are doing to yourself and why, then stop what you have control of!.Www@Answer-Health@Com