Don't you hate it when...?!
Question: Don't you hate it when!.!.!.!?
!.!.!.you think, being slightly optimistic for once, that you've done something reasonably well, then people just knock you back down into that deep dark pit again!? how can you pick yourself back up again!? how can you see any hope when the slight bits of hope that occur are willingly and brutally snuffed out by others!?
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Remember, it's not now you fall, but how you get back up!!.!.Falling down is not defeat, real defeat is when you are refusing to get up!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Aw it is hard to keep up hope when people knock you back down!. It is also hard to ignore it especially when you suffer with depression!. It feels hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel as I am in the dark too!.
If you have done something that made you feel optimistic in any way great or small try writing it down and how it made you feel!. Then if someone who is inconsiderate tries to knock you down, pick up your note and remind yourself what you did and how you felt about it!. It is how you felt that counts and not them!.
You are doing really well by feeling optimistic and proud of yourself for whatever it was that you achieved!.
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If you have done something that made you feel optimistic in any way great or small try writing it down and how it made you feel!. Then if someone who is inconsiderate tries to knock you down, pick up your note and remind yourself what you did and how you felt about it!. It is how you felt that counts and not them!.
You are doing really well by feeling optimistic and proud of yourself for whatever it was that you achieved!.
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Not to sound cold!.!. but you gotta learn to get over it!. There are always going to be downers!.!. If you don't want to be down with them, you have to force yourself to stay up!. There's no trick to it, you just teach yourself to let stuff slide past, and move on!.
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If you have a clinical condition then you should turn to a doctor rather than asking something like this on here!.
This forum is a place for people to give their own personal opinions or information!. A question like this when put to the masses is going to produce peoples' own personal beliefs and thoughts on the matter!. My belief is that a person has to work to teach themselves how to let things slide past, or said person will just flounder and keep falling back!. Some people are not able to do so, and end up resorting to medicine to help them because of chemical imbalances within their body!. If it's a matter of being mad that people put you down, then to improve your quality of life you can learn to not worry or think about what others say!. And if these people are your friends, then they obviously aren't very good ones if they "brutally and willingly" snuff out every glimmer of hope you achieve!.
How do you pick yourself back up!? You just do it!. It's hard sometimes, but you do it!. If you don't want to do the work, then you must not care enough to get out of that black pit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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If you have a clinical condition then you should turn to a doctor rather than asking something like this on here!.
This forum is a place for people to give their own personal opinions or information!. A question like this when put to the masses is going to produce peoples' own personal beliefs and thoughts on the matter!. My belief is that a person has to work to teach themselves how to let things slide past, or said person will just flounder and keep falling back!. Some people are not able to do so, and end up resorting to medicine to help them because of chemical imbalances within their body!. If it's a matter of being mad that people put you down, then to improve your quality of life you can learn to not worry or think about what others say!. And if these people are your friends, then they obviously aren't very good ones if they "brutally and willingly" snuff out every glimmer of hope you achieve!.
How do you pick yourself back up!? You just do it!. It's hard sometimes, but you do it!. If you don't want to do the work, then you must not care enough to get out of that black pit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ignore smeagal, she just talking s'hit, ive battled mental illnesses for most of my life, and it is not easy to pick your self up when your down, i never saw hope that it would turn around, but ive started that long road to recovory,this is my hope, sometimes you have to ignore now and look to when its all gonna be over, i know it easier said then done but you have to at least try, try to ignore remarks from others, ****** the lot of them if there gonna pull you down!.
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its because people dont understand what its like!. i know exactly how you feel, and its tough!.
one thing that i found really helped me was to confide in a close friend!. to say "i know this doesnt make a lot of sense, but this is what life is like for me, and i need your support"!. quite often, your friends want to help, but they just dont know how to!.
perhaps you could keep a journal!? make a record of the things that make you smile, and the things that make you cry too!. then maybe when youre feeling down, you can look back and be reminded of the good times!. just an idea!.
good luck!. there is light at the end of the tunnel!. it just might seem like far away! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
one thing that i found really helped me was to confide in a close friend!. to say "i know this doesnt make a lot of sense, but this is what life is like for me, and i need your support"!. quite often, your friends want to help, but they just dont know how to!.
perhaps you could keep a journal!? make a record of the things that make you smile, and the things that make you cry too!. then maybe when youre feeling down, you can look back and be reminded of the good times!. just an idea!.
good luck!. there is light at the end of the tunnel!. it just might seem like far away! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to develop confidence in yourself!.
keep telling yourself that it does not matter what others think!.
What matters is what you thing of yourself!.
Do things!.!.!.!.keeping in mind!.!.!.that whatever you are doing please you!.
You will never be able to please everyone!.!.!.!.and there will always be people that are smarter than you and weaker than you!.
Praise yourself for a job well done!. Sometimes people are just jealous and they have to put you down!.!.!.!.so that they feel superior!. You will be okWww@Answer-Health@Com
keep telling yourself that it does not matter what others think!.
What matters is what you thing of yourself!.
Do things!.!.!.!.keeping in mind!.!.!.that whatever you are doing please you!.
You will never be able to please everyone!.!.!.!.and there will always be people that are smarter than you and weaker than you!.
Praise yourself for a job well done!. Sometimes people are just jealous and they have to put you down!.!.!.!.so that they feel superior!. You will be okWww@Answer-Health@Com
having been a past sufferer of depression, i know exactly how you feel, but please when someone tries to put you back in that deep dark pit again, pat your self on the back for not falling in!. i know it is very hard for you to do, and easy for others to say!. just get started climbing back up that ladder again!. and very good luck with speedy recovery!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There will always be these types of people in life! It's important to ignore them as those types of people want to knock you down for their own satisfaction!. They can't see other people being happy because of their own misery! Hold your head up high and stuff 'em! It's fine to be optimistic, show your strengths and get out there!. No one has the right to push you around like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't worry what other people do or say to affect your attitude being optimistic and seeing the good things in life !. Those other people that bring you down are miserable bastards that want you to join them in their misery!. Just keep that good attitude and life will be much more FUN!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Been there, my friend, been there! There's no answer, you just have to keep you chin up!. Easier said than done, though!. You could always just imagine that the people beating you down are in their underwear, at least that way you might find some amusement in the situation!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That often happens to me! It really does make you feel like poo, i completely understand what you are saying!. Unfortunatly i can't help with making you feel better i haven't been able to get myself back up after people knock me down!.
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You know the words of the song 'pick yourself up, dust yourself down and start all over again!.' and be thick skinned and don't worry about uncouth people who are not worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ignore people!. Dont let them filter into your thoughts!. It sounds harsh but you have too especially if your depressed!. People like to prey on depressed people especially if things seem like they are going right!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
moderate!. the higher you get your hopes the farther you fall!.just don't be depresive!. its as bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont care wat anybody has 2 say cuz people r always going 2 have bad things 2 say so just ignore themWww@Answer-Health@Com
I know how you feel!.!.!.!.it is cruel how some are so ready to criticise but can't bring themselves to utter a word of praise!.!.!.
Never mind praise yourself!.!.!.well done !!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Never mind praise yourself!.!.!.well done !!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What other people say doesn't matter!. The only person you have to please is yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I try not to let it get to me!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Jean Paul Satre famously said "Hell is other people"Www@Answer-Health@Com
TELL me about it!
I worked my way to what I thought was going to be a full time job, having been depressed and with eating disorders, I gradually weaned myself from being on benefits to a part time job!.
Stupidly I assumed that I would literally swap
I worked my way to what I thought was going to be a full time job, having been depressed and with eating disorders, I gradually weaned myself from being on benefits to a part time job!.
Stupidly I assumed that I would literally swap
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