Bored with everything... any advice?!


Question: Bored with everything!.!.!. any advice!?
For whatever reason, I don't seem to really enjoy anything!. I'm pre-med in school and have a 3!.7 GPA, but I realize that I don't care whether I get an A or a B- in a class!.!.!. I simply don't seem to care about anything!.

I also can't find anything that I really enjoy!. I don't like going to bars since they're boring to me and I don't like being drunk!. I don't like parties all that much since you have the same small-talk conversation about 100 times which gets old!. I've stopped lifting since I don't care whether I have a six pack or not!. I've somehow gotten stuck with this nihilist attitude that nothing really matters!. Not only do I not like doing anything, but I don't like it when I'm sitting on my butt either!. It's a lose-lose situation all the time!. Has anyone been in this situation and found a way out!? I really want to enjoy things more, but I don't want to get pills or anything!.

Also, don't give me the people in Africa argument!.!.!. that's a vacuous statement to meWww@Answer-Health@Com


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I think alot of ppl get in this rut sometimes!. I know I did!. I had good grades - and they were not hard to get!. I worked in a bar at night, so that kind of lost its appeal quick!. Alot of ppl have no depth at all and seemed like they were on some other level than me (boring!) What helped me was to plan my dream vacation and then work towards that!. I even made a point of not making it too easy to obtain ( I went to Japan ) money wise for myself!. It took me a little over a year to save up!. It gave me something to work toward!. In school I took extra classes so that I would have the time to take off!. I picked up extra shifts (bartending) and had a lot of fun planning the whole thing on line and thru travel brochures/books!. Slowly but surely my attitude brightened!. When I went, I went alone but stayed in an "American" hotel!. I met lots of great ppl more like myself and I got to see an amazing country and culture!.

Also helping ppl is a great way to feel good!. Maybe visit seniors or help out Vets ( I do that now and love it )

Mostly you just have to tell yourself to get over yourself though!. Life is what you make of it as corny as it sounds!. And you have to ask yourself - is life boring or are you!? Try some introspect!.!.!. What DO YOU want!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

aww *hug* get a therapist i love them!. get sunshine it helps beilive me and excerising daily does wonders! seriously!. im soooo much hapier and all i have to do is run for 10 mintutes a day outside! its amazing!. tell me if it helps! (everyone thinks its weird when i say that but i seriousl care and want to know if i ever help anyone haha)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you need a change!. I don't know your money situation is but if you have enough to go on a small trip I think that would be a good idea!. On a day you don't have any classes you should take a drive somewhere by yourself and do somthing crazy! I don't know if this helps at all!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're tired of being entertained, from the sound of it!.

So get out there and do something!.

Volunteer for a free clinic!. start putting some of that training to work!.

Involve yourself in other people's lives!.

Works every time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I didn't even read it but hope this makes you laugh lol


http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=eBGIQ7Zuu!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Disillusionment!.!.!.!.

Knowing yourself really matters, and everything else and all other obligations are secondary!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

sounds like your developing something bad in your mind!. such as being depressed!.

Get some help, make some friends!

Ask a Doctor!Www@Answer-Health@Com

try being open mindedWww@Answer-Health@Com

skate!. (skateboard)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Take up a sport like golf, or something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

do extreme sportsWww@Answer-Health@Com

i knoe how you feel!.!.i'v forced my self into doing things i used to like and im getting used to them!.!.!.kind of wierdWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey you sound like an bright person!. Think back to your childhood, what did you like to do!? What is your passion, if you do not have one try some new things!. How about going to the gym!? Also, I would strongly suggest that you do something to help others!. You are a caring and thoughtful person, there are many out there how need you!. Look in the paper for volunteering opportunities!. When you reach out to others and get out of yourself, you realize how blessed you are!. Give it a go!. Let me know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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