Please help - why am I like this?!


Question: Please help - why am I like this!?
I'm fifteen I'm almost certain I suffer from depression!. I usually only feel depressed at night, I cry when I don't even feel upset and when I am uspet I can't always cry!. There's been quite a few times when I've been so upset I've unwillingly thrown up!. I can't concentrate on anything, and I don't go out anymore like I used to!. I don't eat much and don't get much sleep, and I just generally feel really depressed all the time!. I know I need help but I'm too stubborn/scared to talk to anyone and I'm not at all close to my parents!. It seems like nothing can make me happy and there's something making me do stupid things all the time!. I take drugs every now and again but not as much as I used to and I smoke, but I gave up drinking about 5 months ago when the social services got involved!. There's this guy who I don't even like at all but I keep meeting up with him and I've had sex with him, he's 2 years older than me and I can't stand him so why do I do it!? I have thoughts of suicide andWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Well, you already said you won't listen to any advice so what are you looking for on here!? You are 15, realize that your whole self is in the middle of a change that everyone goes thru!. If you really love your little sis (and I believe you do) then get your head on straight for her!. Stay away from sleeping with the guy you don't like, get a p/t job and fill up your empty time by jogging or walking!. Depression at 15 is fairly common but don't let it take over, you are the boss of your own self, force yourself to talk to your Doctor about what you have said on here, or a school councillor!. You may not like them or think they can't help but they are trained to help people with your problems!. There is nothing shameful about asking for help, the shame lies where so many don't ask!. Others your age are feeling somewhat the same as you maybe on different levels, but believe me taking drugs is not the answer (been there done that)!. Don't be afraid to ask for help!. It's like an ingrown toenail, it hurts so bad you don't want anybody to touch it but when you finally do get help for it you wonder why you waited so long because it feels so good to be over with!. If you want to feel better then you and only you can make it happen!. Get a backbone, you know something is wrong try to fix it!. You could be opening a door to a beautiful new life why wait!. Good luck!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You can really be helped by seeing a counsellor and all you need to do is tell someone and ask them to help you to do this!. I am a counsellor and have helped people like yourself!.

Please ask someone to help you and tell them how you feel, don't suffer anymore as their is no need!.

Good luck and remember through out it all if you will get through this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Firstly, there are people out there who can help you!. You might have to go through 5+ different therapists - skills vary widely!.

Getting help doesn't make you weak - but not getting help will!.

When you feel bad, does it always feel the same!? If it's just different intensities of the same feeling, this isn't classic depression!. It would be a particular isse which needs addressing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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