I think I am very depressed about my age and getting older?!
Question: I think I am very depressed about my age and getting older!?
I am 51 and have a 45 year old boyfriend I've had for 8 years that likes to bring up my age all the time!. Lately he's being mean about me not being "wet" enough for sex and being old!. It is true that I haven't cared that much about it since going through an early menopause in my mid-40s!. I am used to being admired for my figure and decent looks, which seem to be declining!. When I look at my future, it seems bleak!. I only have a CNA license, and am tired of dealing with nursing homes, and I have two years of college that I never got a degree from!. I look back at my life and feel so depressed!. Can someone give me advice, try to cheer me up!? I have just thought about getting rid of myself but that's against my religion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Why in the world do you need someone as mean and rude as he is around you!? Honestly, you would be better off alone than with someone who is that mentally and verbally abusive!.
Kick him to the curb and never look back!. You are in the prime of your life!. You can go back to school and get a degree!. You can find a career you will enjoy!. Make up your mind to change your life!. You will start to feel much better once you move in that direction!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Kick him to the curb and never look back!. You are in the prime of your life!. You can go back to school and get a degree!. You can find a career you will enjoy!. Make up your mind to change your life!. You will start to feel much better once you move in that direction!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was always told that if you dont love yourself how do you expect other people to!. Today 51 is not old but it sounds like you are letting yourself go!. Maybe that is what your boyfriend is hinting at!. So its now up to you to work on that figure and think of ways to improve your education so you can get a better job!. Hope I cheered you up!. I am sure you have lots left to give to others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
why don u look at the good thing that are on ur life not the past lets forget the pass and live wat u r linvin now i bet u got some great people around u an they all want the best for u so live wat u r livin now and live everyday to the fullest if u feel old then ur goin to be old but if u feel youn ur whole appearance will change and u will be radiant and young just live wat ur living now and look foward for great thingsWww@Answer-Health@Com
First of all STOP worrying about things you CAN'T change! (we ALL get older, it's part of life!) 2nd tell your boy friend if he can't be nice he can be rude somewhere else far from you! your future can be as bleak or as bright as you make it!.!.!.!.!.!.it's your choice!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just pour some water on your vagina before sex!. Problem solved!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It seems like the underlining cause of your depression is your boyfriend!. If someone is being 'mean' to you over a period of time it will lower your self-esteem therefore causing you to become depressed!. You may want to consider ending the relationship!. Seeing that you are a religious person you will always have a relationship with Jesus and he will fill that void!. He talks to you in His word (the Bible) and you talk to him by praying!. Pray for wisdom and guidance!.
"Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart!." Psalms 37:4Www@Answer-Health@Com
"Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart!." Psalms 37:4Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, I feel for you!.!.!. It took me 16 years to go back to school and earn a bachelor's! It wasn't easy!.!.!. Anyways, you can always try to return to go back to school to make the most of those college units!. If not, try going back to take something else!. Age should not be a factor in educating yourself!. I hope you can still make the most of your future!. Don't dwell so much on the past!. Regarding the sex issue, any lubricant will do!. You may need to explain to your bf what you are feeling regarding the school situation and your life!. Cheer up and Enjoy life!Www@Answer-Health@Com