Is there a possible positive outcome to loneliness?!


Question: Is there a possible positive outcome to loneliness!?
It's a miserable period, but does it force you to make positive changes to your life, or help you to withstand it, and discover a richer, inner life!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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I believe it does, to all three!. When you are alone, you are better able to understand yourself more!. With people around, you tend to adapt to them!. When alone, you only have yourself to adapt to!. When you are around people, they can often influence what you do and how you feel!. When you have nobody, you realize the things in your life more because of that "missing" feeling!. In loneliness, you have an "inner world" that you live in!. This world is how you feel!. When you live in this world, you learn to know yourself!. You see the bad things in your life, you see the good things in your life!. Maybe you want change, so you make it!.
Loneliness is considered a type of suffering!. You can learn compassion from suffering!. You learn that people are important, you want them in your life!. You learn to treat them better!.!.maybe out of fear of losing them!.
Or maybe you enjoy the life of loneliness or isolation!. Maybe you are an introvert, and you like the peace and quiet of being lonely!. Maybe you like to live in your own little world, where nobody can be near!.

This is basically what I've learned from being lonely for about a year now!. It's what I've learned from isolation!. Hope it helps answer your question!. There are many thoughts on the subject out there, all of them important!. Maybe you should look inside yourself to find yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You simply have to choose to add new things and ultimately people into your life!.

When I am alone, I love it, I unplug the phone, catch up on news or dive into a new book,

When I go to work, my customers are my livelyhood, I give the best service I can give and back it up with a guarantee!.

Give the best you have to others, and you won't have time to be lonely, don't look back, unless you are talking with old friends, look and plan ahead, Make you priority #1, just for a whileWww@Answer-Health@Com

I often have many friends that are a bit too satisfied with their shitty lives!. I used to have a lot of friends, get hundreds of myspace comments and all that stuff- I definitely wasn't lonely!. Now, i deleted all those accounts and stopped talking to my old "friends"!. Now I only have a few!. I used to get 84384 calls a day and texts, once again- now I only get a few!. Am i lonely!? No!. I quit smoking pot and changed my life around!.!. now i go hiking and often meet people there, i meet people at the gym, i leased a horse and met a bunch of people at the ranch!. Just come out of the house and do things you really enjoy doing- there you will meet people just like you!.!.!. and you won't be so lonely!. You're probably lonely because you don't fit in with those people!. Sometimes its nice to branch off and have time to discover yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am a hermit pretty much, I read alot and remember almost everything I read, the few friends I do have think I am the smartest guy they know!.

I think being alone just really helps your attention span!. kids now want fast video games and want everything NOW! I think isolation with slow education(reading)would help them understand how much work it took to put that damn video game together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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