How do i give up my arrogance?!
Question: How do i give up my arrogance!?
i'm extremely confused!.please help me!.people say you have to be arrogant,but then it is not nice to be so!.i hadn't called my teacher whom i had promised and then she called the 2nd time and it didn't even come to my mind that i should apologize!.my mom said i was becoming self centred!.there are many instances when i have received the same comment!.but then my sister and many others say that you need some level of ego and arrogance to survive in this world!.i don't know where to draw the line!.whatever i do i over do it!.and i am not finding any support from my family which consists of a pesky grandma,and alcoholic dad and mom(she undergoes mood swings as it is menopause time for her),a sister who is hardly at home(i meet her only on weekends,when she'll be quite busy)!.i don't know how to develop my attitude,i'm running 16,i read a lot of chicken soup books and try to improve myself,but it will have a negative effect!.please give me some self development tips!help me grow into a better personWww@Answer-Health@Com
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After carefully reading your account above, it is clear to me, that you are well on the road to great times ahead! You are 'switched on', you are aware of your own strength areas and weakness, your appreciation of your situation is good: this, indeed, is a very good beginning, from where to develop an excellent personality! Go ahead, take interest in a lot of things around, do music, read books, have good friends, give a lot of time to thinking about things, develop healthy eating habits, exercise habits, learn to relax well, yoga, if you can, keep your cheer, talk to people, spread cheer around: and, you will certainly go places! Okay, the difference between the arrogance you need, and the arrogance you don't is -- the difference between professional pride or righteous pride, a sense of honour, ::and, 'conceit', 'inflated ego' and lack of regard or respect for others' talents and accomplishments and potential! Do respect yourself for your accomplishments and talents and potential: and, also do respect others for similar qualities in them! Learn to live with and in the midst of all others in the family, family is yopur strength, family teaches you a lot of good qualities including how to adjust and accommodate others in your life! You really don't have to be too defensive or too apologetic, at the same time you don't have to be a person of 'superiority complex'! All the best for a great life ahead!Www@Answer-Health@Com
U need to develop interpersonal skills, tact etc!.
Inferiority or superiority complex both are bad!.
But being a young lady !.!.!.!.u need to learn to ward off pesky people!. When i was at ur age i guess i would have done better if i had gone through career counselling!.
have u read books by tony buzan !. he is my favorite!.u can get his books at britsh council library!.
and try sending ur pa to art of living classes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Inferiority or superiority complex both are bad!.
But being a young lady !.!.!.!.u need to learn to ward off pesky people!. When i was at ur age i guess i would have done better if i had gone through career counselling!.
have u read books by tony buzan !. he is my favorite!.u can get his books at britsh council library!.
and try sending ur pa to art of living classes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When your trying to explain what it is your trying to explain don't have an attitude or thumb your nose at people unable to comprehend what your saying!. Its the snooty & bragging that is identifiable as arrogance!. No attitude-All infoWww@Answer-Health@Com
Enough: "I am as good as anyone else"!. That is confidence!.
Too much "I am better than everyone else"!. That is arrogance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Too much "I am better than everyone else"!. That is arrogance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes its okay to have self confidence but realize that you are equal to all people!. Just put your self in their shoes and everything will be clear!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Control your negative emotions----------------Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is a good sign that u know ur weakness & r tryin to improve it!
arrogant attitude leads to nowhere but we shud draw a line at dignity!.never become a doormat
u can share ur feelings with ur mom only when she is in a good mood or ur sis whenever possible !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but never share with a friend!.
sharing will give u good support!.
then set principles for urslf acc to ur experiences & just hav faith in u!.
n just go easy its not that tough!.!.!.!.
neither is it a serious issue!.
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
arrogant attitude leads to nowhere but we shud draw a line at dignity!.never become a doormat
u can share ur feelings with ur mom only when she is in a good mood or ur sis whenever possible !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but never share with a friend!.
sharing will give u good support!.
then set principles for urslf acc to ur experiences & just hav faith in u!.
n just go easy its not that tough!.!.!.!.
neither is it a serious issue!.
good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com