I feel lonely all the time ... help?!
Question: I feel lonely all the time !.!.!. help!?
I used to have a bunch of friends to hang out with in elementary & junior high!. But ever since high school, I changed to a totally different person and I can't relate my changes to anyone in high school!. So, I pretty much seclude myself!.
In college, I find myself doing the same thing!. I can't relate to most of the people in college and when I do talk and make friends, it's purely on academic purposes!. Like I would befriend with this person because we're in the same class and sometimes I need help in notes or homeworks!.
I don't consider myself a loner because I like spending time with people, but my problem is find the kind of people I like spending time with!. I don't have a lot of friends because of it, but I can count them on one hand!.
I am so lonely that when I find some events interested, I don't want to go because I have no one to go with!.
I cry when I get depressed (normally twice a week)!.
I can't find the people that I can relate to, how do I do that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
In college, I find myself doing the same thing!. I can't relate to most of the people in college and when I do talk and make friends, it's purely on academic purposes!. Like I would befriend with this person because we're in the same class and sometimes I need help in notes or homeworks!.
I don't consider myself a loner because I like spending time with people, but my problem is find the kind of people I like spending time with!. I don't have a lot of friends because of it, but I can count them on one hand!.
I am so lonely that when I find some events interested, I don't want to go because I have no one to go with!.
I cry when I get depressed (normally twice a week)!.
I can't find the people that I can relate to, how do I do that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I think you are correct about not transferring to another college!.
You will still have those same feelings there!. They will follow you!. If there is a counselor or adviser at your college, a first step could be to talk to this person about your feelings!.
I know what it feels like to be lonely!. It does make it hard to go new places because we know it would be more fun if we had someone to go with!.
I also don't like to hang around bars/clubs!.
Conquering loneliness is a long slow process!.
Put yourself in the environment that interests you!.
Take small steps that can help you feel bits and pieces of happiness!. The trick is to figure out how to make that happiness present most of the time!. I hope you will feel less lonely over time!. Therapy with the right therapist can be a place where you can explore your loneliness and come up with ways to manage it!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You will still have those same feelings there!. They will follow you!. If there is a counselor or adviser at your college, a first step could be to talk to this person about your feelings!.
I know what it feels like to be lonely!. It does make it hard to go new places because we know it would be more fun if we had someone to go with!.
I also don't like to hang around bars/clubs!.
Conquering loneliness is a long slow process!.
Put yourself in the environment that interests you!.
Take small steps that can help you feel bits and pieces of happiness!. The trick is to figure out how to make that happiness present most of the time!. I hope you will feel less lonely over time!. Therapy with the right therapist can be a place where you can explore your loneliness and come up with ways to manage it!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com