Should i just give up on life?!
Question: Should i just give up on life!?
if ttc is not emotionally draining !.!. having no diploma no car no friends an a shitty verbally an physically abusive boyfriend isent great either=( i have allways had plans an dreams on how i wanted my life to be atleast graduated from highschool kids of my own i allways wanted to be a mom an with cervical dysplacia along with pcos i doubt it will ever happen i am also over weight i have tried so hard and soo longto loose weight but the lbs wont shed !.!.!. life just keeps caving in on me !.!. im in a bottomless pit i dont think i will ever be good enough for the world so i am about to just give up on life it pointless an i just dont want to go onWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Hi hon:
I can totally identify with what you are saying!.!.!.and I am here to tell you YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!!!
I was married for 14 years to a physically/verbally man!. When you hear for all those years that you are stupid!.!.!.good for nothing you start to believe it!.!.!.I am not stupid and NEITHER are you!.!.!.!.he broke my teeth so my confidence in my appearance was ZERO!.!.I am getting that fixed now!.!.!.but I guess essentially he broke my spirit!.
So first of all I would say to you!.!.!.get rid of the boyfriend!.!.!.he is dragging you down hon!. It may be scary to be on your own but things will get better!. It took me a long time to trust anyone!.!.!.but 10 years later I have a fab boyfriend who treats me like a queen!.
Once you are out of the grips of this boyfriend you will see how things will fall into place !. Start by getting a few high school credits through correspondence!. Did you mention the TTC!? Do you live in Toronto!? If you do you don't need a car!.!.!.major headache!.!.!.lol!.!.!.I live north of Toronto now and not the bus service available here that there is in TO!.!.!.I wish I could bus it!.!.!.with gas prices as they are and all!.
You will see as you are out of the grips of your abusive boyfriend your confidence will increase and you will see things will get better!.
Weight loss can be tough!.!.but I think the mistake most people make is depriving themselves totally of things they think are fattening!.!.!.WRONG!.!.!.!.just adjust your portion size!.!.!.eat cheesecake if you want just a teeny tiny piece!.!.!.lol!. Exercise is good too!.!.!.but don't make the mistake I did!.!.!.I thought walking my dog was exercise!.!.!.!.not really!.!.!.gave me too much time to think and worry etc!.!.!.!.so pick something really physical!.!.!.like kick boxing or any of the martial arts!.!.!.can work out frustrations at the same time!.!.!.lol
I work with a girl who is 300 pounds!.!.!.beautiful face and voice!.!.!.lots of great qualities and she has found a boyfriend who loves her!.!.!.!.looks past the weight!.!.!.she is losing weight like crazy now as she feels loved!.!.!.big difference!.
You know, recently I worked with a guy!.!.!.he was like 22!.!.!.so me I am twice his age!.!.!.lol!.!.!.but he had a great philosophy!.!.!.he would say " Deal with each thing as you can and LET IT GO"!. I thought WOW for such a young guy he had figured this out!.!.!.wish I would have long ago!.!.!.!.and you know what I have tried it and it works!.!.!.!.letting everything cave in on you is so overwhelming!.!.!.dealing with 1 at a time makes so much more sense!.!.!.!.Think I will have that tatooed somewhere "LET IT GO"
I will think of you often and hope you are ok!.!.!.hope I didn't babble your ear off!.!.!.lol
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I can totally identify with what you are saying!.!.!.and I am here to tell you YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!!!!
I was married for 14 years to a physically/verbally man!. When you hear for all those years that you are stupid!.!.!.good for nothing you start to believe it!.!.!.I am not stupid and NEITHER are you!.!.!.!.he broke my teeth so my confidence in my appearance was ZERO!.!.I am getting that fixed now!.!.!.but I guess essentially he broke my spirit!.
So first of all I would say to you!.!.!.get rid of the boyfriend!.!.!.he is dragging you down hon!. It may be scary to be on your own but things will get better!. It took me a long time to trust anyone!.!.!.but 10 years later I have a fab boyfriend who treats me like a queen!.
Once you are out of the grips of this boyfriend you will see how things will fall into place !. Start by getting a few high school credits through correspondence!. Did you mention the TTC!? Do you live in Toronto!? If you do you don't need a car!.!.!.major headache!.!.!.lol!.!.!.I live north of Toronto now and not the bus service available here that there is in TO!.!.!.I wish I could bus it!.!.!.with gas prices as they are and all!.
You will see as you are out of the grips of your abusive boyfriend your confidence will increase and you will see things will get better!.
Weight loss can be tough!.!.but I think the mistake most people make is depriving themselves totally of things they think are fattening!.!.!.WRONG!.!.!.!.just adjust your portion size!.!.!.eat cheesecake if you want just a teeny tiny piece!.!.!.lol!. Exercise is good too!.!.!.but don't make the mistake I did!.!.!.I thought walking my dog was exercise!.!.!.!.not really!.!.!.gave me too much time to think and worry etc!.!.!.!.so pick something really physical!.!.!.like kick boxing or any of the martial arts!.!.!.can work out frustrations at the same time!.!.!.lol
I work with a girl who is 300 pounds!.!.!.beautiful face and voice!.!.!.lots of great qualities and she has found a boyfriend who loves her!.!.!.!.looks past the weight!.!.!.she is losing weight like crazy now as she feels loved!.!.!.big difference!.
You know, recently I worked with a guy!.!.!.he was like 22!.!.!.so me I am twice his age!.!.!.lol!.!.!.but he had a great philosophy!.!.!.he would say " Deal with each thing as you can and LET IT GO"!. I thought WOW for such a young guy he had figured this out!.!.!.wish I would have long ago!.!.!.!.and you know what I have tried it and it works!.!.!.!.letting everything cave in on you is so overwhelming!.!.!.dealing with 1 at a time makes so much more sense!.!.!.!.Think I will have that tatooed somewhere "LET IT GO"
I will think of you often and hope you are ok!.!.!.hope I didn't babble your ear off!.!.!.lol
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Not really, if you don't like your relationship you can get out , if you need to loose weight talk to a doctor, maybe it is a thyroid problem, and if you want to have kids you can adopt or have foster kids!. These solutions may be harder for you but better than giving up all together!.1-800-799-SAFE (7233)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you can always get a ged, or there is highschool online courses, get out of that relationship, i was in an abusive relationship, and i actuly went to a womens rescue center tell i find a safe place to live in!. keep your goals!. dont give up on life, with some small changes in your life you will realize that you can be happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
PLEASE PRAY GOD LOVES YOU!!.!. YOU HAVE TO HAVE FAITH AND GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU! YOU WILL BE OKAY!!! JUST PRAY!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
please don't give up!. i was there too, where you are now!. life gets better!. i promise!. it will!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
God is testing you!. prove him ur strong!. Its time to be strong! no time to sit back!. get urself out there!. Join school again and graduate!. its never to late, its just we people make it to late!. and as far as ur boyfrnd is concered , if he abuses u no point been with him, its ur life make it easy, tell urslef u dont deserive it! you cant give up!. Its a run till the end, be the first one! never give up!. what if u dont have frnds,car or whatever!. u have urself and your courage!. Its time to start over new!. people dont get chances to start again!. Believe in yourself, tell urself u can and u'll make it!
Your not alOne! God help those who help themselves!.
Good Luck!
God bless you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your not alOne! God help those who help themselves!.
Good Luck!
God bless you!Www@Answer-Health@Com
never stop fighting, im 20 i live on my own with no family no friends and am un happy in work, but i know the only way is up and your the only person who can help your self, dont let weight get you under everyones different and have their own imperfections!. as for your abusive boyfriend get rid, if u feel this low he cant knock you down any further and he is the one who will end up with nothing exept guilt!.
STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER THE WORLD AND GO AND SEE WHAT THE WORLD HAS TO OFFER YOU, IT'S A BIG ENOUGH PLACE AND ITS YOUR OYSTER
GOOD LUCK ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
STOP WORRYING ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER THE WORLD AND GO AND SEE WHAT THE WORLD HAS TO OFFER YOU, IT'S A BIG ENOUGH PLACE AND ITS YOUR OYSTER
GOOD LUCK ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com