Someone help please... I don't know what to do...?!
Question: Someone help please!.!.!. I don't know what to do!.!.!.!?
I'm a 20 year old college student, and I have my share of problems; I was sexually abused as a child, I was sexually assaulted as a teen and well I'm not exactly doing well emotionally; sometimes even minor situations are too hard for me to handle because I carry so much pain through my life!. Friends are slightly comforting but I am MUCH more comfortable talk to "adults" (like teachers and such), The comfort, empathy and understanding they provide has been my refuge this last little while!. One of my teachers in particular is someone with whom I feel I can really trust, and open up to; but this is my last week in her class!. When I opened up to her about my past once before, she was very welcoming and offered to listen, but I don't know how far I can take that!.!.!. Did I lose out on the chance by being too afraid to talk to her about it again!? If not, how do I tell her that I really trust her, and feel that she's the only one I can open up to!? I just don't know what to do! I'm so confused!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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She was very welcoming when you talked to her as you said!.
I don't think that you lost out on any chance to talk to her about things!. Why would she have changed her mind!? You just need to let her know that you really feel comfortable talking to her, and that you hope that you can continue to do so, even if it's been a while!. Just speak your mind!.
Best WishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think that you lost out on any chance to talk to her about things!. Why would she have changed her mind!? You just need to let her know that you really feel comfortable talking to her, and that you hope that you can continue to do so, even if it's been a while!. Just speak your mind!.
Best WishesWww@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you are already taking the right steps!. Your teacher sounds like someone who would be willing to listen; if it's really on your mind, talk to her about it! I'm sure she would be able to help in any way she can, if you ask her!. As long as you trust her, that's the most important thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
then that means you cannot trust that person (doctor) then go to one till you find one that can help!. that is what you need and be on meds to help this is very important i know that soemtimes someone can help firends especially but they are not trained to really help and it can back fire so please get seeing some professional and get the help you need take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
IF THATS WHO YOU FEEL THE MOST COMFORTABLE TALKING TO AND YOU ALREADY HAVE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEM,THEN THATS WHO YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE FOR SUPPORT!.LET HER KNOW HOW COMFORTABLE SHE MAKES YOU FEEL AND MOST PEOPLE IF KIND WANT TO HELP OTHERS SO I BET SHE WOULD LOVE TO BE YOUR FRIEND!.JUST GO FOR IT WHAT DO YOU GOT TO LOSE IF YOU DONT TALK TO HER ABOUT THIS YOULL ALWAYS WONDER!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You just have to be honest and tell her!. She is someone you were able to trust for a reason!. I think you should go and talk to her and explain it all to her!. You will be fine!. Don't be afraid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think you should be honest with you and tell you how you feel!. it seems to me that she is one you can trust!. you should have someone like her to open up to!. it will help you tremendously!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
hey look my picture isnnt all that welcomeing i look like some punk kid but look give me an email lets talk you sound like you need someone to trust and im turstworthy!. So yea if you want we can just get too know each other till i earn your trust then yea
but if not its cool
i hope all gose wellWww@Answer-Health@Com
but if not its cool
i hope all gose wellWww@Answer-Health@Com
are u on any antidepressants!? I suggest Cymbalta!.!.!.!. don't take Celexa!.!.!.it caused me to gain weight!.!.!.but i've went through a lot of s**t in my life too!.!.!.!.you will be fine just find hobbies to do with your closest friends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to first trust the person who looks back at you in the mirror!. Learn to speak her silent language!. she is your friend and will be with you always, if you will but learn to listen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you find that SOMEONE ( person you can tell anything with assurence of not being looked at differently), YOU SHOULD REALLY OPEN UP and just lay it out how you fell abot them!.
Sharing your problems will ease your pain!.!.!.!.
GL!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sharing your problems will ease your pain!.!.!.!.
GL!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If i were u i wont tell you well i never been sexu!. ab!. before so i don't know how u feel but you will feel better if you tell someone that won't make of it in front of youWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need serious mental health counseling in thereWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just relax and talk to your professor!. I'm twenty and in college, and though I certainly have no of that baggage, I had a very rough year myself!. I'm just saying that because there was a night where I felt the same as you and you're just going to have to take the chance and open up to this professor!. Also, talk with your friends and maybe any family you have that you trust at all!. These people may be willing to help you, and can do just that by listening!. And trust your councilor!.!.!. she/he's there to help you and they cannot, underline cannot, do their job if you don't open up not only your experiences, but your heart to them!.
What you need is to find not just someone, but a couple people you feel could listen!.!.!. and trust them!. I promise you most people are not the perverted pricks that hurt when you were younger!. Most people, especially those close to you, want to see you happy, and will help you!.
I hope you feel better and I wish you could be happy, you sound like a very deserving person!.
Hope you feel better :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
What you need is to find not just someone, but a couple people you feel could listen!.!.!. and trust them!. I promise you most people are not the perverted pricks that hurt when you were younger!. Most people, especially those close to you, want to see you happy, and will help you!.
I hope you feel better and I wish you could be happy, you sound like a very deserving person!.
Hope you feel better :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was much the same when I was a teenager and into my mid 20s!.While I wasnt sexually abused,I was physically abused,to the point where I did some hospital time on some occasions!.I was really messed up,and I had a teacher like yours,whom I could talk to,he helped in a limited way,as much as a teacher could,the important thing was I was comfortable talking to him,it doesnt matter who it is as long as you find someone you can talk to,who wont judge you!.After a while I became comfortable enough to talk to some other people,and eventually the scars I had began to heal!.!.!.over a few years I began talking to anyone that would listen,trying to get it all out of me!.!.!.now when people ask me how I am!.!.I tell them!.!.!.they look at me funny!.They expect me to say"fine" but sometimes I am not "fine"sometimes I am hurting and I tell them,It seems to keep me sane to be free to say how I feel to anyone!.I dont reccomend others do this!.!.but it has worked for me!.!.!.!.Talk to the teacher,and if you can find more people you are comfortable with!.!.talk to them too!.You will be ok as long as youre getting it out,Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're comfortable with her then by all means don't be afraid to open up to her!. It's hard to find people to trust so you'e lucky to have found her!. She's not going to stop talking to you because it's your last class with her in fact colleges encourage you to talk to any teacher who you feel comfortable with!. At the same time remember she is not a qualified counsellor so can't help you in that way!. Talk to her about some things that are bothering you and perhaps a little about your past but tell everything else to a counsellor and if you're not comfortable with the one you're seeing now look for another, it'll be worth it when you find the right one!. Good luck and stay strong xWww@Answer-Health@Com
hey i am so sorry! i know what you are going through i have been through the same!. its hard to deal with and to find somebody you find comfort in!. i have also had to take counseling and found out that i just don't like it i don't find comfort in it!. and i know what you mean about your friends they are there but they just aren't really there if you know what i mean!. i haven't found comfort yet either but someday i hope i will!. maybe you could just write your teacher saying that you need someone to talk to that she has helped you out and if you guys could stay and touch and stuff i really don't know i am sorry just keep holding on i believe it will be betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hi- sorry you are going through this!. Ignore that dippy comment of "get over it, you are a wallflower" nonsense posted by a very silly person!. You went through alot, I know you must carry alot of pain inside and yes, it is important to share that and get it out of you!. I never really opened up to anyone and now years later-I carry major anger and my life takes work to feel good!. So, you are on the right track, and I am relieved you have a counselor!. Ever thought of attending a group meeting of survivors!? Sometimes it helps!. Your teacher may not be able to or allowed to talk with you as much as you like (stuff by the state etc!.!.!.), but you can tell her how you feel and see what she advises you to do!. I know how it feels to lose a trusted person, the only therapist I ever trusted had to go away and quit because her husband died suddenly and she was too sad to work!. :( I miss her and it is so sad it happened to her and her husband!. I have seen people go to drugs, alcohol etc!.!. because they keep it all inside!. Perhaps the counselor will gain your trust with time, or the teacher can assist you!. Never be afraid to try, she seems nice, you have not lost your chance, just find a time to talk, like perhaps ask her if she has any time after classes etc!.!. if you trust her, even if she herself cannot be there, she can give you ideas (other counselors etc!.!.!.)that you might trust as well!. I guess you feel most 20 year old friends are not fully capable of giving you advise because at age 20 I was also a bit confused, however some 20 yr!. olds are able to reate and may be able to lend an ear or shoulder for you,I know I was an "old" 20! lol but you like to talk to older adults due to their life experience and how we surrived being your age and learned to deal with issues like yours!. It is your choice whomever you chose to share with!. You can find some nice, supportive 20 year old and some 40 year old may not be very smart- so be open to even younger friends, as long as they are not just party oriented-lol You seem like a sweet, intelligent person- after such abuse even minor problems do seem worse due to the effects of abuse, makes a person more sensitive with a lower threshold for stress!. Be careful out there, don't go alone with boys etc!.!.!.it is strange, but as a person who was a Psychology major I read alot of research that says these bad guys/abusers can find victims, like a psychic thing, and victims get revictimized! So walk with confidence and don't appear too "nice"!. I studied Psychology, work with mentally ill and have personal experience!. Take care of you!. Is your major Psychology!? just wondering!. You can go forward and have a great life, I hope I could help at least a little!. Take care, don't be confused- ask the teacher first and see where to go from there! best wishes CCWww@Answer-Health@Com
are you seriosWww@Answer-Health@Com
get over it and stop reliving the past
you're a wallowerWww@Answer-Health@Com
you're a wallowerWww@Answer-Health@Com
you'll be fineWww@Answer-Health@Com