Don't you think life is meaningless?!


Question: Don't you think life is meaningless!?
Be honest!. Don't you think whatever you do ends up in missery!? Life is such a pain-staking experience!. Imagine, you bought an ice cream!. Something really tasty with everything you need in it (eg:chocholates, nuts!.!.etc), but once you finish eating it, thats it isn't it!? Its gone!. Ok, you might say you'll go and buy some more!. But, then you'll fell yuk, and awful after eating so much ice cream!.
Well, I think our lives are also the same!. I obtained a really difficult bachelor degree!. Then I got a job, but now, my boss hates me!. I hate coming to work!.
I loved a co-worker in my office!. (Truly and deeply), but she didn't like me at all!. But, played with my heart!. Now I got a badly wounded heart!.
This week, I had to do two professional exams!. I started studying for those with high expectations!. But, due to above problems I couldn't concentrate properly to review and finish them!. One exam, I'm 200% sure that Im going to fail!. The other one on this Thur, Im going to differ!. So I hate myslef!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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It sounds like your perspective on life is what is draining you!. Life is!.!.well, life!. Without pain we would not know pleasure, without pleasure we would not know pain!. Without sorrow we would not know joy, without joy we would not know sorrow!. There is good and bad in life!. Many times we seem to focus on the bad things in our life versus the many good things that have happened or are going on!. How amazing is it that you were able to attend college and obtain a bachelors degree!!? You have a job and what's even better is that you have a choice to remain at that job or leave that job!. If you didn't do well on your exams then wait until your mind is a bit clearer and then redo them!. It's all about perspective!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I guess you just realised how shitty the world is!. But that's good because you get to appreciate the good things about it!. Life is only meaningless if you believe it is!. Put meaning in the things you do and in your goals!. Get over your wounded heart and get ready for the next one!. ;) Enjoy every lick of your ice cream!. Then remember how good that ice cream was!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you are having a hard time!. Everyone in their life does at one time or another, but that doesn't make it meaningless!. There are so many people out there who are so less fortunate than you!. Sometimes you fail, sometimes you win, but that's the way it goes!.
"If I can accept the sunshine, I must also accept the thunder and lightening"!.

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don't hate yourself!. love yourself!. always!. sometimes you're gonna have bad days, true, but God put those days there for a reason!.!.!.to make you stronger!.!.!.for you to learn something that will help you later in life!. don't give up!. prove yourself wrong and stay strong, life will get better!.!.!.i promise you that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well you know sucky things do happen in life you know!.life is not a bowl of cherries!.!. if bad things never happened, how would you learn lifes lessons!. there are bad things and great things!. having a child, imagine the beauty of that, whatching them grow, loving others, helping others, life is beautiful!.you just really need to look at it from a differnt prepective!. what doesnt kill you only makes you stronger!. also!. consider God for change!. maybe he can change your veiw a little!. huh!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

You sound like your depressed!. You should get some counselling or something because having all these negative feelings is not good for you!. Sometimes I feel life is meaningless!. But if I truly felt that way, I would have killed myself a long time ago!. I hope things get better for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

life isnt meaningless at all!. if it was none of us would be here!. life is awesome! and so what a few mistakes!. we're all human and we all make mistakes but we learn from them and be a better person!.
never hate yourself!. you'll never get anywhere if you hate yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I do not think life is meaningless at all!. Look for a different job!. Leave this job when you are ready to start the new job!. You are grieving over a loss of a relationship!. Give yourself time to heal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree you need someone to talk to!. I have been in a similar situation and guess what!.!.!.life changes and so do your feelings!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is meaningless, but you are confusing suffering with meaninglessness!. It is meaningless in that everything we do is ultimately futile, but that doesn't mean it has to be filled with suffering; it's a matter of attitude!.
You have an icecream, you eat it, you enjoy!. Yes, it is gone, but you've had the enjoyment of that icecream, and the experience and its memory adds to your happiness!.
Wounded hearts heal!. Leaving a bad job and getting a better one takes effort, but it is not impossible!. No matter how bad it is, it doesn't take away your achievement in getting your degree!.
If you give up on your exams, you will be even more likely to fail!. Keep trying to study: you may take more in than you think, whereas moping, self-pity and self-defeatism will achieve nothing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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