I want to start over?!


Question: I want to start over!?
I really hate my lame friends that expect me to ALWAYS be there for them, when they cannot be there for me!. And they expect me to pay the price when I'm flaky once , but then they are flaky to me for a whole week!.
I hate my boyfriend who is so concerned about spending money that he decided to make one budget cut: our dates!. We never go out and when we do I pay!. And then he needs to buy some axe deodarent and pairs of shorts for the summer or needs to waste gas to drive out to his friends house a couple cities over!. I understand, !.!.!.!.!.no part of that!.

So This summer I want to get a job and take a bunch of classes so I can meet new people, and completely ignore all my current "friends"!. Sounds healthy!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I would go for getting the job taking classes and meeting new people!. I wouldn't ingore them!. I would tell them if they couldn't think about anybody but themselves then you're to busy!. Find out who really truely are your friends!. As you get older things change and so do friends!. different interests for yourself and them too!. That will tend to pull you apart!. It's part of life!. Hang on though to those that pay interest into you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go full steam ahead with your summer plans and set up rules for dealing with your friends!. If they cannot play within your set of rules, start making new friends!. Probably one or two at least of your old friends will prove their worth!. And it sounds like you need a boyfriend that thinks better of you and is not such a sponge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

VERY HEALTHY!, If your life sucks, drop everything, and move somewhere else, and start over! It's a great idea!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hi,
Yep!.!.sounds Way healthy!.!.Good job!.!.learn while your young!.!.!.!.
you're heading in the exact right direction! Well done!

Love,
Eileen!.!.!.boot the dude to the curb!. You deserve better, but take care of yourself first!.:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

ya!.!.i think u need to keep ur firends still!.!.but get closer with others!! go for it!
and ur boyfirned!?!? totally now u feel!!
he needs to get off his butt and work too!!
so ya, u need new ppl and new faces! just dont forget about the old ppl in ur life theyre important too:)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Actually, that sounds good to me!. I did something like that and made new friends and developed a different social life!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Except for ignoring your current friends, sounds healthy to me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like you need a clean break from everything!. I say go for it, make the start over!. Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah just ignore them
u chose how to live ur live
with or without them
its up 2 u to progress in live, forget the old n welcome the newWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think it sounds very healthy!. Go for it!Www@Answer-Health@Com

go for itWww@Answer-Health@Com

go for it!. see who really is your friend and maybe keep a couple!. i broke away from everyone i knew!.!.!.my "friends"!. they sound like yours!. they never made sense to me!. we were different and it just to me didn't seem to work out!. they don't seem to miss me so whatever i don't really miss them to be honest!. slowly move on!. things will happen when they happen!. im kinda glad those people arn't even in my life anymore!. they were mean!.!.!.selfish etc!.!.!. i don't need that!. i did everything for them and got attitudes for it!. im better then that!.!.!.i shouldn't be treated like that!. i got a new job!.!.!.quit my old one!.!.!.my boss was a bastard!. he was such a bully!. i don't like this new job and it's not permanent but it's a change which is good!. i might go back to school !.!.!.idk though!. things are slowly changing!. do what you feel is best!. and do it in a way where no1 will get hurt!. i grew up and apart from the people i used to think were my friends!. we still say hi how are u and watnot but we don't hang out or anything!. we "try to" but im better off with people i can really get along with!. if i take a class or two of something im really passionate about i will make good friend because we have the same interests!.!.!.in college and high school i was stuck in classes i hated and didn't get along with people because we were so different!. you can do that!. move on!. good luck and enjoy!. at least you want to do something about it!. i learned the hard way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like you are in a critical mode!. People can be a bit annoying!.!.!.!.!.including ourselves!. I enjoy doing things on my own lots!. I don't have a ton of friends!.!.!.!.!.!.only the folks that are sincere!. I would not "ignore" your friends!. When we get to know folks then we see their dark side!. You have to take the good with the bad!. Go ahead and take classes and work but realize that even the new friends may get annoying as well!. Are you able to talk to your friends!? Find out how valuable they are before you dump them!. Are your friends aware that they are being flakey!? You better communicate!.
Do free stuff!.!.!.!.!.Go to the beach!. Walk in the woods!.!.!.!.!.or do those free things available in your area!.!.!.!.!.ride bikes, swim!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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