I can't take it anymore?!
Question: I can't take it anymore!?
Ok, i turn 21 in a few weeks, and i feel like my life is a mess and i am seriously close to suicide, i have self harmed ever since i was 13, i have been doing so alot lately, i have also abused drugs since that age aswell, mainly ecstasy and cocaine!. Sitting here, in my parents house, I currently have one friend, an ex-boyfriend who is a criminal and a lay about, he has been to prison and is due in court in a few weeks and could well be sent down again for serious assault(when i first met him 7 years ago he wasn't like this, he was quite successful) i just hang about with him as he is the only person i know now, but i hate what he does and really don't want to be associated with him anymore, especially if he goes to jail again!. I went to london when i was 18 and ended up in prostitution/escorting, please don't judge i was very young and was lead into it, so anyway i have had some very scary experiences through this and have also met some vile people and now i hate myself for this
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So now i am at home, still in the uk but far away from london, and i have lost touch with all my friends from school(although none of them were real friends) and have nothing, i have put on loads of weight in the past year, now a size 16 from a size 10 and i feel so low about my life, I cannot see a way through, no-one knows my situation and all i do every day is lay in bed untill 4 in the afternoon and drink vodka every night!. My parents just think I am lazy, i have tried jobs but i have suck low confidence I can't stand anyone,i think they all hate me!. I want to improve my life but don't know how, i have always been told i am a pretty girl and i feel i have alot to offer, but i think my life is over at 21, i feel bad for my family who have to put up with me, i don't know what to do!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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So now i am at home, still in the uk but far away from london, and i have lost touch with all my friends from school(although none of them were real friends) and have nothing, i have put on loads of weight in the past year, now a size 16 from a size 10 and i feel so low about my life, I cannot see a way through, no-one knows my situation and all i do every day is lay in bed untill 4 in the afternoon and drink vodka every night!. My parents just think I am lazy, i have tried jobs but i have suck low confidence I can't stand anyone,i think they all hate me!. I want to improve my life but don't know how, i have always been told i am a pretty girl and i feel i have alot to offer, but i think my life is over at 21, i feel bad for my family who have to put up with me, i don't know what to do!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Being 21 can be a very confusing time in your life!. You need to take a minute and slow down!. Think about what you are saying for a second!. We all have rough patches and times in our life, but things will always get better!. Suicide is not an answer, but rather a quick, useless, cop out!. Having low confidence there are things you can do to boost your self likeness!. For instance, spend an hour at the gym!. If your that concerned you will find ways to help yourself!. My suggestion would be to put down the bottle to start!. Alcohol only masks your symptopms and makes them worse!. Read the Secret!. Fantastic book!. We all feel alone at times, consult a therapist near you!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm a grandmother and your question has made me so sad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're going through hell, keep going!. Move away!. Go get a summer job in a spanish resort!. Offer your services to voluntary organisations!. Get online and make new friends!. Go to church!. Most of all though go and see a doctor and explain how you're feeling!. Don't give up!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
first you need help with your drug problem maybe try going to rehab or an alternate program!. just try to pick yourself up and dont give up because its not worth killing yourself over it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
u really need help!.!.if u r thinking of suicide that is a sign that things must not be well!.!.go see ur doctor and tell him/her so they can help u and put u on a medication!!
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oh poor thing
but there's one thing i can say
when it gets darker is because the sun is about to come out!.
and you have to hit rock bottom to start moving up!.
meet new people, but be very selective!.
and also there is nothing wrong about you hanging out on your own for a while until you get sorted!.
enjoy being with yourself, read books, go see a film and hang out with your mum and dad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but there's one thing i can say
when it gets darker is because the sun is about to come out!.
and you have to hit rock bottom to start moving up!.
meet new people, but be very selective!.
and also there is nothing wrong about you hanging out on your own for a while until you get sorted!.
enjoy being with yourself, read books, go see a film and hang out with your mum and dad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Suicide is a long term solution to a short term problem!.
What would jeremy (kyle) say:
GET A JOB
The only way to boost your confidence is to have a series of sucesses!. Get a job, get some cash, you'll make new friends, you'll be supporting yourself, you'll be more active, you'll loose weight, you'll be happier in yourself!.
And ditch the "mate", he's bringing you down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What would jeremy (kyle) say:
GET A JOB
The only way to boost your confidence is to have a series of sucesses!. Get a job, get some cash, you'll make new friends, you'll be supporting yourself, you'll be more active, you'll loose weight, you'll be happier in yourself!.
And ditch the "mate", he's bringing you down!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What you need to do is shake yourself out of it!.
Don't bother about friends or boyfriends - the only person you need is yourself!. It doesn't matter whether other people hate you or not as long as you don't hate yourself but it sounds as though you do and that is your problem!. You need to snap out of that in order to sort out your life!.
Give up the alcohol, go on a diet, find a job - even a part-time one will do!.
Then you will start to feel a lot better about yourself!.
The most important thing is to do it alone without anyone else's help, nothing will make you feel better about yourself than that!.
Trust me on this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't bother about friends or boyfriends - the only person you need is yourself!. It doesn't matter whether other people hate you or not as long as you don't hate yourself but it sounds as though you do and that is your problem!. You need to snap out of that in order to sort out your life!.
Give up the alcohol, go on a diet, find a job - even a part-time one will do!.
Then you will start to feel a lot better about yourself!.
The most important thing is to do it alone without anyone else's help, nothing will make you feel better about yourself than that!.
Trust me on this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should speak to your doctor, get help with the depressiona and self harming!. Maybe talk to your mum and tell her how your feeling!. But please get help your far too young to be feeling like that!
You have been through a lot in your short life and if you can get through that you can handle this!. Vodka is not helping you it causes depression so you are just feeding your problems!
Make a call tomorrow and get some help, Maybe talk to your Mum now!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have been through a lot in your short life and if you can get through that you can handle this!. Vodka is not helping you it causes depression so you are just feeding your problems!
Make a call tomorrow and get some help, Maybe talk to your Mum now!Www@Answer-Health@Com
life isnt over by a long shot, id suggest possibly stop seeing this vriminal friend because that wll never help you out to be with that kind of a person( especially if he is violent), i would lok into finding a skill or trade college or scholl to give you atleast something that you can always do!. start looking up more and have a positive look on situations in your life and ull be surprised the changes that may occur!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try Alcoholics Anonymous, Narcotics Anonymous, Samaritans, your GP maybe able to get you into re-hab (just like a celebrity)!.
All this worked for me!.
Don't go near Bridgend - you will find that suicide will change your life forever!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
All this worked for me!.
Don't go near Bridgend - you will find that suicide will change your life forever!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't give up on yourself, there are still things you can do or try before completely giving up on yourself, think about what you want out of life, and then slowly try to get it, it's not easy, but then again nothing is, the friend that you spoke s is clearly a bad influence, try to keep a distance from him, try to get a job where you don't have to communicate that much, or be around people, if you don't like that, or find some hobbies or classes you can take, sitting at home and doing nothing is the worst, I've been through!.!.!.!.!.!.still going through!.!.!.!.!.that and it is awful, your life just feels empty and you try to fill it with food, liquor, and other things, but it never really helps, it sounds to me like you might have depression, and also ever low self esteem, maybe talking to somebody about your problems will help, good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please believe me i have just started to feel better i know what you are going through, and you feel like it is the end but ring the Samaritan's they will talk to you and they will give you some advice if you are serious and want to get away from this guy, you are so young and have been through so much that you must be able to get on that phone i know it is easy for me to say but please try it good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
ok!.!.!.!.!.you have alot of work to do
first weight doesnt really matter you must get your life back in order
second stop abusing seek help or counseling
third move some where away from your current situations and start a new life else where!. wheres no drugs no nothing!.
fourth start taking applications from jobs and fill out
fifth STAY AWAY FROM BAD INFLUENCESWww@Answer-Health@Com
first weight doesnt really matter you must get your life back in order
second stop abusing seek help or counseling
third move some where away from your current situations and start a new life else where!. wheres no drugs no nothing!.
fourth start taking applications from jobs and fill out
fifth STAY AWAY FROM BAD INFLUENCESWww@Answer-Health@Com
I understand pretty much what you are going thru, cause I been there, too!.!.!.like you!. You are suffering from severe depression, and there is a cure to your problem!. I, too!.!.!.faced depression!. I felt unhappy, felt like giving up on life!.!.!.feeling so hopeless!. I didnt do drugs, but I did drink, alot!. I, too!.!.!.had a hard time holding a job!. And, also!.!.!.no one knew about my depression!.!.!.didnt tell anyone!. Felt as though no one would understand!. I suffered for some time, and everytime I felt like giving up!.!.!.I felt this sense of hope, within my heart!. Hope, is what kepted me going!. I thought,"Life had to be better than the way I was living!." Later, when things got so bad, I went to seek help, from people, first!. I realized people cant help!. I came to realize, that only God can!. I turned my heart to God, and seeked His help, last!. I started to learn more about God, by reading the Bible, about Jesus!.!.!.God's son!. God was my only hope, because people failed to help me, when I tried asking them to help me with my problems (including the depression)!. When I believed God will help me, He did!. By my faith in God, thru Jesus Christ!.!.!.did I receive the help I longed for!. God set me free from the bad things I was suffering from!.!.!.even the depression!. God cured me!.
And, God can do the same for you!. All you need is faith!. Believe that God can help you, and He will!. He did, for me!.
I am so glad I didnt give up on Life, for God has given my life back!. If it wasnt for God, I would not be alive, to tell you my life story!.
God, thru believing in the Son, Jesus Christ!.!.!.saves lives!. Jesus said, "I am the Way, the Truth and the Life, no one can come to thy Father (God), except thru Me!."
There is Hope! There is a Way! There is Good News!
God, thru Jesus!.!.!.is the answer!
a Christian here to help you find the Way towards true happiness, freedom, joy, love, peace, worthiness, courage, and strength!.!.!.which is what Life really is all about,
AngelaWww@Answer-Health@Com
And, God can do the same for you!. All you need is faith!. Believe that God can help you, and He will!. He did, for me!.
I am so glad I didnt give up on Life, for God has given my life back!. If it wasnt for God, I would not be alive, to tell you my life story!.
God, thru believing in the Son, Jesus Christ!.!.!.saves lives!. Jesus said, "I am the Way, the Truth and the Life, no one can come to thy Father (God), except thru Me!."
There is Hope! There is a Way! There is Good News!
God, thru Jesus!.!.!.is the answer!
a Christian here to help you find the Way towards true happiness, freedom, joy, love, peace, worthiness, courage, and strength!.!.!.which is what Life really is all about,
AngelaWww@Answer-Health@Com
oh god if you listen to anyone please be it me !
a lot of your critics are under 30 me 39 been there done that and again only recently !.suicide tried but was brought back 4 ****** times i keep telling myself for a reason ,kids husband,family business,but each time nothing changes only for a while even while in a unit they try and pin it on an aspect in your life they chose relationships for me maybe because of what i said or not but went back!.so good so far till recently,felt walked over,as much as i shout it only briefly changes,still goes back to" normal" "what is percieved as normal" not me its those around you who want things quiet no conflict!.dont beat yourself up about friends i am in touch with one ! only when i bump into her when we just happen to be in the same place!.you do not need them you need to be yourself first it takes time so dont make new friends yet find family if you can who will wait for you to come to them!.but be taken care of by them !.i did i am still here!I hate everyone dont know why but i do i avoid all parents when i have to take my daughter to school,i hate small talk,make excuses etc to get away!how about getting up and taking a walk now its getting warmer outside i know the heat helps me look up eyes shut and absorbe the warmth no i am not nutty or church going it just feels good try it forget maybe for 1 min about your size if you have not gone up a dress size dont think about it there is a place for everyone you have to find it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
a lot of your critics are under 30 me 39 been there done that and again only recently !.suicide tried but was brought back 4 ****** times i keep telling myself for a reason ,kids husband,family business,but each time nothing changes only for a while even while in a unit they try and pin it on an aspect in your life they chose relationships for me maybe because of what i said or not but went back!.so good so far till recently,felt walked over,as much as i shout it only briefly changes,still goes back to" normal" "what is percieved as normal" not me its those around you who want things quiet no conflict!.dont beat yourself up about friends i am in touch with one ! only when i bump into her when we just happen to be in the same place!.you do not need them you need to be yourself first it takes time so dont make new friends yet find family if you can who will wait for you to come to them!.but be taken care of by them !.i did i am still here!I hate everyone dont know why but i do i avoid all parents when i have to take my daughter to school,i hate small talk,make excuses etc to get away!how about getting up and taking a walk now its getting warmer outside i know the heat helps me look up eyes shut and absorbe the warmth no i am not nutty or church going it just feels good try it forget maybe for 1 min about your size if you have not gone up a dress size dont think about it there is a place for everyone you have to find it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like you have many problems, which, when added together are obviously getting the better of you!. This is not the end, I promise you, even if it feels that way!. I'm afraid an overnight cure isn't possible, but you can make yourself feel better within days of deciding to take action!. First of all take stock of your situation and write down everything that you want to change!. I know that kicking bad habits is hard; it took me 15 years to stop smoking, so the drugs will have to be reduced slowly!. Stop seeing your bad influence friend, he's doing you no good at all!. Reduce your vodka intake each day until it's down to something respectable; after which stopping will be much easier!. Get up at 12ish each day and get the bus to town and have a walk around, talk to people; even if it's only to ask them the time of day!. Start getting up ewarlier each day!. If things really are getting on top of you, see into some counselling or have a chat with your doctor; there ARE peopl;e out there that want to help you!. When you are enjoying life again, start looking for a job!.
Don't feel down about losing contact with all your schol friends; most people do that anyway!. If you want to lose some of the weight, the advice on this site is excellent:
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I promise you, just getting up earlier and doing something with yourself through the day will make you feel better!. All the best for the future and if you want a chat email me on this thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Don't feel down about losing contact with all your schol friends; most people do that anyway!. If you want to lose some of the weight, the advice on this site is excellent:
http://www!.iansanswers!.co!.uk
I promise you, just getting up earlier and doing something with yourself through the day will make you feel better!. All the best for the future and if you want a chat email me on this thing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Pick yourself up lady!. No one's gonna do it for you!. "You have to get on your own two feet!." You're 21, able bodied!. Get off your *** and get a job!. It's simple!. Go to McDonalds if you want, but get a friggin job!. You don't have low confidence, you're lazy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com