Please read my blog [It's a good one]?!
Question: Please read my blog [It's a good one]!?
Please!. It's just a blog I want people to read and post comments on if they can relate or anything else!. Mainly set for teens as I am one but parents can read if they want!.!. I don't mind!. Some people say it doesn't even sound teen so i just encourage you all to read it!. It would make me feel better!. I've gotten so many good comments on it already!. I just want everyone to see it and keep reading my posts so I'm not practically writing to myself!.
I would just really appreciate it!.
Peace!.
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I would just really appreciate it!.
Peace!.
http://angstriddenteengm!.blogspot!.com/Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Awwww, I feel you, I really do!. I am not a teen but a 30 year old mom!. I know that seems really old to you, but I can remember my issues when I was growing up!. Reading your post, I can see how kids get caught up in grown up issues!. And I can also relate to the pressure of not fitting in!. Rumors are something else, and you just have to ignore them, kids seem to misbehave more when they see that you are letting them get to you!. When I was a teen, this girl put out this rumor that I had some STD, I was a virgin and I didnt even know her!. I thought she was crazy!.!.!.!.!.anyway one day I heard her mom fussing and cursing at her and I realized why she spread that rumor!. It was obvious that she had some familial issues!. And to this day, I always think of how people look "normal" but you never know what "dirty laundry" they are hiding!. And the kids who tease, fight, and start rumors probably has more issues than you!. I know that kids feel that adults cant relate, but we can!.!.!.!.!.trust me!. We just seem like we dont connect with how you feel because we tell you to get over it, or ignore it, but that is only because once you get older and you look back on a particular situation, you realize that it was not as big of an issue as you made it!. Unfortunately, for you, this ability to do this only comes when you are older!. Trust me you will be telling your kids the same thing!. My daughter is only 9 and she looks at me like I am crazy when I tell her to laugh at the person who is calling her a name or to hit the person back (yes I do) who is hitting her!. I was a kid and I now know how I should have dealt with my issues!. I only wish I knew then!. As far as the issues with your family goes, I know its tough, and in times like that I only think of things that would be worse than my current circumstance and that helps me to appreciate what I do have!. Your dad probably really feels bad about being unemployed!. Even though it seems like he is just all "willy nilly" about it, I am sure that he may be depressed and his pride may be hurting, I pray that everything goes well!. Lastly (I know I chatter too much), it is an awful feeling to get your heart broken, I would compare it to the death of a close family member or friend!. It is a serious issue (which is why I have forbade my daughter to even think about a boy while she is in school, even college)!. Love is a complicated thing for adults to deal with, and I definitely know that when you are young and not yet full of the wisdom of the world, love is even more complicated!. I know it feels like she was "THE ONE" and that there will never be another, but I am here to tell you that there will be others!. And you will look back on that situation and think, "what was her name again!?"!.!.!.!.!.!.!.okay, maybe you'll remember her name, but you know what I am trying to say!. Hang in there, that happy person is still in you!. I can see it through your writing!. I know a suicidally depressed person when I see one, and you my dear Gavin is not one of them!. Kudos----to stopping the cutting- you have it in you to find happiness again, dont let your circumstances master you, You Master Your Circumstance!. You are merely trapped in that whirlwind of teenager-ism!. Good Luck!.!.!.!.time flys!.!.!.!.find some enjoyment in it!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sorry, all I got to was family of 5 living off $42,000 a year!. Way more than my family of 5 has!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey Kiddo
great and very interesting blog you wrote!. Hang in there and don't give up the fight!. Being a teen can be hard,i know was "One" once myself!. was hard at times but that was back in the 70's and i know things are a lot different these days!. I would say a little harder, for a number of kids/teens!.
But as time goes on and you get a little old, things will change for the best and get easy (believe it or not)!.
Things often have a way of working out, for the good and the better!.
Keep your head up and always look on the brighter side of life (even when you think there isn't one)!.
Stay on the right side of the track, and good things will come all in good time!.
Love will come and go, and you to will find true love when the time is right!.
In the mean time enjoy life and take each day with a pinch of salt!.
Peace,Love and Kisses xoxoxWww@Answer-Health@Com
great and very interesting blog you wrote!. Hang in there and don't give up the fight!. Being a teen can be hard,i know was "One" once myself!. was hard at times but that was back in the 70's and i know things are a lot different these days!. I would say a little harder, for a number of kids/teens!.
But as time goes on and you get a little old, things will change for the best and get easy (believe it or not)!.
Things often have a way of working out, for the good and the better!.
Keep your head up and always look on the brighter side of life (even when you think there isn't one)!.
Stay on the right side of the track, and good things will come all in good time!.
Love will come and go, and you to will find true love when the time is right!.
In the mean time enjoy life and take each day with a pinch of salt!.
Peace,Love and Kisses xoxoxWww@Answer-Health@Com
we almost have the same prob!.!.!.but i can say mine is worst!.!.
but anyways here's the deal!.!.!.you just think too much!.!.!.
about the grandfather you can't do anything about that!.!.!.he's old so thats normal for them!.!.!.
about your mom at least she has a decent and respectable job!.!.rather than other people who's rich but gets the money illegally!.!.and i know being a teacher is stressful and the bills and everything!.!.!.try to relax her everyday or try to get a part time job if your on the right age!.!.!.so you can help with the expenses!.!.!.
about the rumor!.!.ignore it and be yourself!.!.!.
in looking for friends dont just sit try to talk to people!.!.so at least the people your with are the people you chose!.!.not the people who chose you!.!.cause it would be hard for you to be with people your not comfortable with!.!.!.(been there done that!.!.!.dont make the same mistake!.!.!.)
about the grades!.!.its because you think to much!.!.you dont listen anymore with your lessons!.!.!.
you think to much like an adult like me!.!.!.your a teenager!.!.!.
dont be like me who end up in a wrong path and now suffering for what i've done and its hard to go back!.!.!.
and if have questions just email me!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
but anyways here's the deal!.!.!.you just think too much!.!.!.
about the grandfather you can't do anything about that!.!.!.he's old so thats normal for them!.!.!.
about your mom at least she has a decent and respectable job!.!.rather than other people who's rich but gets the money illegally!.!.and i know being a teacher is stressful and the bills and everything!.!.!.try to relax her everyday or try to get a part time job if your on the right age!.!.!.so you can help with the expenses!.!.!.
about the rumor!.!.ignore it and be yourself!.!.!.
in looking for friends dont just sit try to talk to people!.!.so at least the people your with are the people you chose!.!.not the people who chose you!.!.cause it would be hard for you to be with people your not comfortable with!.!.!.(been there done that!.!.!.dont make the same mistake!.!.!.)
about the grades!.!.its because you think to much!.!.you dont listen anymore with your lessons!.!.!.
you think to much like an adult like me!.!.!.your a teenager!.!.!.
dont be like me who end up in a wrong path and now suffering for what i've done and its hard to go back!.!.!.
and if have questions just email me!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com