Do you think im impure?!


Question: Do you think im impure!?
i was kindof taken advantage of when i was young(15) and too innocent about sex!.!.i had to do oral for a guy who also stripped me naked and rubbed it between my breasts!.!.!.without my willing consent!.!.ive never had any sexual encounter since!.!.im 22 now !.!.the incident has affected me more than i could help!.!.my friends say i need therapy because im showing symptoms of an abused person woud!.!.!.but i dont think so!.!.now i want you to be brutally honest(and not be nice) and tell me am i really a virgin!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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if thats all that animal has done to u then ur still a virgin,but please gimme his home adress by email so that imay have a peacefull inteligent conversation with him and me and my baseball bat ,i will make him wish he would have neverhad testicles or any genitals for that matter please tell me where he is so that i can unload myself i am extremely serious,email me his adress ,thanks and i will be waiting,i wish i hadnt saw ue question now i'm extremely but extreeemily angry @#$%^&*Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like it was a rather upsetting, if not traumatic experience for you!. I gather this not only from your description and your friends' concerns, but also from your question about your possible "impurity"!. You cannot let your past (your choice or not) to so color your current image of yourself!. Even if you had consented (which it sounds like you did not), you could still be a "pure" person through your thoughts, behaviors, way you treat people, etc!. The opposite is also true!. I would say that you should stop torturing yourself over questions regarding purity and consider how you want to live in the now!. If you are behaving in a manner consistent with what you value, then you will be more able to see yourself in a positive light!. Also, if you think of yourself in a positive manner, you will find it more easy to act positively!. Also, I would take your friends concerns more seriously and consider whether or not you are carrying some wounds from your experience!. You may want to consider some therapy!. Good luck and give yourself a break!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you were abused (taken advantage of) without your permission and have never done anything on your own, then I would call you a virgin!. It was not your fault and no one can blame you for that!. If you need therapy then get it, it won't hurt!.
I am very sorry that someone took advantage of you!. If you are having problems maybe somehow you blame yourself which is something alot of victims do but you are not to blame!. I will pray for you sweetie, that Jesus will wrap his loving arms around you and that you will feel his comfort!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You poor thing!. i have been in a situation similar!. And i have to tell you!.!.!.!. i needed to talk to a therepist and take some depression meds for awhile!. I am okay now and have learned that what happened wasn't my fault and im not a bad person!. As far as what happened to you!.!.!. yes you absolutly are still a virgin!. The only way that isnt possible is if you have had intercourse!. Your cherry has to be popped!. (sorry for being so graphic!.) As for me!.!.!. my situation!.!.!. was diff!. But i still considered myself as a virgin after it!. It didn't count!
!.!.!.!.!.!.And just because you are 22 doesn't mean you have to be having sex!.!.!.!. wait for the right person!.!.!. who knows you and loves you and makes you feel safe!!!
take care sweetie!Www@Answer-Health@Com

hey, i think you need to explain this to your doctor amd ask them to refer you on to someone who can help you through, and talk about your issues, you can email me if you wish to chat, im 20 and scared shitless about the thought of sex, coz of my past experiancesWww@Answer-Health@Com

of course you are!as long as he didnt stick it in your vagina then yes you are still a virgin!.i dont think oral counts
and i am really sorry for what happened!.that sucks =[
please answer my question http://answers!.yahoo!.com/question/!?qid=2!.!.!.
thankssWww@Answer-Health@Com

Whether or not you are "impure" and whether or not you are a "virgin" are two completely different questions!. Confusing them can be very damaging and harmful!.

People define "virgin" a number of different ways, depending on religious beliefs, etc!.

Scientifically, if you have not broken the hymen and had sexual intercourse, you are a virgin!. This, once again, has nothing to do with being "pure," however!.

If it was without your consent, you are technically a victim of sexual assault!. It was not your fault, in any sense, and therefore, your "purity" should not be called into question!. You are not any less of a human being as a result of being a victim of a crime!.

I would definitely recommend seeking out counseling!. This will help you get a healthy take on the subject and help you to heal and continue your life in a positive way!.

You are 22!.!.!.!. if you are currently enrolled at a university, a great many universities offer free counseling sessions for their students!. At my university, the couseling center even allows free sessions for friends, relatives, and spouses of students!. You may want to ask some close friends at universities to check into it for you!.

In the meantime, there are numerous resources available online!. I've included one in my sources below!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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