Please help, this is killing me?!


Question: Please help, this is killing me!?
I'm 15 and my best friend is a Christian, but I'm not!. She's changed so much in the last few months - she used to do drugs with me and now she's all Godly!. I don't have a problem with it, but she 'bends the rules' for her benefit!. She won't let me drink, swear, smoke or take drugs round her!. But she is 'going out' with a 21 year old supposedly Christian youth worker!. I hate him, it makes me feel sick!. It's perverted and they're keeping the secret from everyone - I'm the only one who knows!. They're really convinced they love each other and that they'll be together!. I know they do love each other, but I just think the age gap is disgusting!. They've kissed, she's given him oral and he's fingered her!. I know it's wrong and its perverted!. I can't stand knowing and not being able to do anything, it really is driving me mad!. She's such a close friend and if I do anything about it I really will lose her!. What do I do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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If your worried about your friend, call the pastor of the church she is attending!. As the pastor he is in charge of the ones that work with the youth!. He will not tell them who told, if you still do not feel you could do it then e-mail me the information and i will!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Thank God for having a friend that does not smoke, drink, swear, or do drugs!. Maybe you should follow her example, not with the boyfriend, but with the other issues!.

You start all of these bad habits now, and where are you in 10 years, addicted, alcoholic, possibly a stripper!.

Maybe you should check out going to church with her on a few occasions, and get rid of the bad habits that may kill you someday!. It may completely change your life for the better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Being a Christian is a good thing, but you shouldn't manipulate its meaning!. She sounds like she's not really committed to the belief and this "21 year old supposedly Christian youth worker" needs to go to jail!. You need to talk to her and if that doesn't work, you need to hint an adult into finding out some more info if you think that your friend is getting herself into trouble!. Good luck in getting this straightened out!Www@Answer-Health@Com

if you're really a good friend to her you'll let her parents know about this relationship!. what if they end up doing the deed and you know in your heart you could have stopped it!? Your friend sounds like she's being brain washed by this perverted man help her out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'd tell her parents and her mom will want to press charges probably (which is a really good idea!) if your a good friend you will protect her and tell her parents!!! That's so wrong and disgusting! I'm sorry you have to get mixed up in all that!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Report it to the police!. You may lose her as a friend, but what he is doing is criminal and needs to be stopped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Report it to the family!. Oral sex with a minor is usually illegal in many states!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sex with a minor is illegal !. You can report it anonymously !.
or you can let her grow up !.!. and let things take their own course!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's perverted and not to mention illegal!. You should tell her parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

and he has the audacity to call himself a Christian Youth worker!. Call the cops on that pervertWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think that, as her best friend, you have the right and responsibility to tell her your problems with what she's doing!. She's being a hypocrite, plain and simple!. And that's the reason most people hate Christianity; because so many people who say they are Christian are absolute hypocrites!. And maybe even give her some verses from the Bible!. (there are definitely plenty about sexual perversion) You don't believe the verses, but she at least SAYS she does!. She needs to decide between the two!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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