Help Me be more confident? HELP?!


Question: Help Me be more confident!? HELP!?
Im 15, to be honest i have NO close friends!.
People talk to me and i just cant be arsed!

I dunno how ive become this but yeah, anyways i want to be rich, not famous (i couldnt stand all that attention :S)!. Rich NOT so i could show of but so im secure financially!. id be terrible working,im useless!

Also im so facinated by people like courtney love, dita von teese, and yeah there both totally different!

I want to dye my hair blonde, and start dressing how i want to!.

Like have my own style, im sick of being something im not!.
I want to become quite a stylish successfull, beautifull person, inside & out!.
I have noone to talk to about this!
Absolutely ***** noone!
Ive been saving up money, i want to get out of the house,leave my boring parents & life!.

Also ive made up a name, i know right crazy! :S
dita von teese did!

Ive had a load of boyfriends when younger,done things i shouldnt of,when i was 12,13!.!. and im not now!.
It should be the other way round me outdoors!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
the beginning of being confident is believing in yourself!. saying your useless doesn't sound like you believe in yourself!. "you are your worst critic!." <-- it's true!. we always judge ourselves wayyyy to harsh!.

courtney love and dita von teese are both very interesting people!. i understand why you're facinated with them!.

girl, if you want to dye your hair and dress how you want, go for it!. can't say to much on this subject cuz exactly dress how i want, but at the same time i'm not something i'm not!. i don't dress to impress anyone!. for one, its too time consuming!. and two, if they don't like me cuz of how i dress!.!.!. then @!#$ them, they wouldn't of been a good friend anyway!. don't dress to impress any one but yourself!.

unfortunately, you've got some time before you'll be going anywhere away from boring life and parents!. in the mean time, look at the bright side of things!. even if it something doesn't seem like it has anything good about it, look at it like 5 year old!. [if today didn't go so swell, there is always tomorrow!.]

i've done things i very well know i shouldn't of!.!.!. sometimes i still do!. but i'm getting better!. for me it all started in 7th grade (12 years old)!. so i understand that!.

another way to be super confident it so totally love yourself! i TOTALLY love myself!. sure there are some things i'd change, but if i cared enough i would change them!. try writing down things you love about yourself!. i can fill about a page, notice the little things (nose, freckles, ears, words, thoughts, etc!.)!.

hope i helped! :]


"DON'T TAKE LIFE TOO SERIOUSLY, NO BODY GETS OUT ALIVE!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

got about $25
buy a copy of
Instant Confidence(also CD enclosed) by Paul McKenna
look up book on amazon and look up Paul McKenna
wish i would have come across this when i was 15
with your present attitute(which i think is great) and practicing the info in the book i think you will have it made!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You sound completly mad!.!.!.but i like it go for it do what you really want to do life is too short!. But keep your family close i know they might sound boring to you but they give you a roof over your head and they will always be their for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i know this is traditional but!.!.!.!.you have to love yourself before people can love you!. if you want to dye your hair do it!. if you want to dress a certain way then do it!. anything that can give you confidence in yourself you have to do!. Im a teenager too and im totally fine with myself!.!.!.sure i would like to change things but what other teenager wouldnt!. runaway if u want to just as long as u love urself than you'll be fine!. but the whole terrible working thing is something u need to work on, because you cant make millions without a marketable skill
peace out! =)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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