Will someone help me?!


Question: Will someone help me!?
Help i just need advice!.!.
okay i get depressed often especially after break ups and stuff and well i have a terrible habit of hurting myself, and doing bad stuff to my body, and well one of my ex's made me a promise that everytime i did he would twice to make me stop!.!.and well i did and his parents found out abt it and i'm afraid they will tell my parents and they think i need help too!.!.

I really dont know what to do with my life anymore!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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wow, don't go to a see help u don't need help, it i have try to suicide three times but every time when i jump of the chair or about to pull the trigger some1 comes, i gone to a mental hospital for cutting myself, to tell u the truth, your just trying to feel alive from feeling pain, but look it as this way, there is always some1 out there that will love you and care for you, you just need to look harder, you will find him^^, don't give up, and remember theres always more people that have gone to hasher things then you have, and they have overcome it^^, so don't give up or do stupid things, you will find some1 who loves youWww@Answer-Health@Com

I self-harmed and my boyfriend did the exact same thing!. Now he's left with lots of scars he regrets!.

The best thing you can do with your life is get help!. I did that and I haven't felt as low as I did then!.

You need to stop self-harming, you'll be left with scars that you'll hate and will always remind you of the bad times!. If you want to hurt yourself, get an elastic band and snap it on your wrist!. Or try and distract yourself, go watch tv with your parents, go for a walk with your friends!.

Try not get involved in a relationship until you feel better, it'll let you concentrate on getting better and won't give anyone else a burden like that to deal with!.

Remember and get help, I hope everything works out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, first of all if you are hurting yourself you probably need some help!. Is there anyone that you can talk to about when you get depressed!. I know that it's hard after a break up but believe me you will and can come out of it a better and stronger person!. You have to think about how you were before the break up and/or before you started feeling depressed!. You life must have been happy!

"What you expect is what you will get!. If you dwell on positive thoughts, your life will move in that direction; if you continually think negative thoughts, you will live a negative life!. If you expect defeat, failure, or mediocrity, your subconscious mind will make sure that you lose, fail, or sabotage every attempt to push above average!. One of the key elements to enlarging your vision is raising your level of expectancy!.!.!.Program your mind for success!. Each day, you must choose to live with an attitude that expects good things to happen to you!. !.In the morning the first thing you should do is set your ind in the right direction!.!.!.!.Our expectations set the boundaries for our lives!.!.You have to start believing that good things are coming your way, and they will!."
If you have big problems, it's because your have a BIG future ahead of you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sweetie don't go and hurt yourself cause no matter how bad you are feeling at the time!. Time goes on!. When you hurt yourself they leave scars emotionally and on your body there will be times you might be happy and see a scar and it can pull you right back down!. Remember you have one life live it to the fullest don't let another choose the way you live your life

If they do tell your parents it's a good thing you might need to get some help!.There might be a problem and it's good to find out if there a chemical imbalanceWww@Answer-Health@Com

IF you want, you can talk to me!. My friend had this problem, and i dont know howi did it, but i stopped her from comitting suicide!. What people dont understad, is that there is SO much more to life than to be upset!. Life is a rollecoaster, and you get your ups and downs, but sometimes people cant get up by themselves, and need a little push, if that makes sense!.

Here's my e-mail: f9_fishies@hotmail!.com (tats a nine after the F) You can talk to me about anything and everything!. I find it easier to talk to people when i dont know them, so i think that tlaking to me can help!.

Take care xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED A LOT MORE ADVICE THEN WHAT CAN BE GIVEN IN SUCH A SHORT SPACE

YOU SAY YOU FEEL REALLY LOW OVER ANY NUMBER OF THINGS AND THIS MAKES YOU WANT TO HURT YOURSELF
I SUGGEST YOU FIND ANOTHER WAY OF EXPRESSING THE PAIN INSIDE YOU

THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING EMOTIONAL
BUT YOU CAN NOT LET YOUR EMOTIONS TAKE CONTROL OVER YOU LIKE THAT
IT IS A BAD ROAD TO GO DOWN!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. TRUST ME

IT ALSO SOUNDS LIKE YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE
BE IT HERE ON THE INTERNET OR IN REAL LIFE IS DOWN TO YOUR PREFERENCE
BUT IT SHOULD BE SOMEONE WITH KNOWLADGE (NOT NESSACERARLY A PROFESSIONAL BUT IT IS ADVICABLE)

IF YOU EVER WANT TO TALK TO ME AND SOME OF MY FRIENDS
I HAVE SET UP A FORUM AIMED AT HELPING SELF-HARMERS SUCH AS YOURSELF
YOU GET TO IT AT:-
HTTP://SHARP!.2TRUTH!.COM

ALSO I WANT TO POINT OUT THAT IT WAS NOT A GOOD IDEA TO MAKE SUCH A PROMISE
YOUR INTENTIONS WERE RIGHT
BUT SELF-HARM IS SOMETHING TOO COMPLICATED TO JUST BE ABLE TO STOP BECAUSE SOMEONE ELSE ASKS YOU TO

ANYWAY THERE IS MUCH TO BE SAID

GOOD LUCK!!
**HUG**Www@Answer-Health@Com

instead of talking/chatting on the internet, talk to your parents and seek professional advice!. Talk to a counselor or teacher at school if you don't want to talk to your parents!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

WHAT!?!?!?!?!?!?

You made a deal that he could hurt you after you hurt yourself!?

Okay!. You didn't mean it when you said it!.

Get a counselor and get away from that idiot!.

ps

Stop cutting!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stop cutting or get mental help find something that you enjoy such as hanging out with firends , music or what ever interests you life is to shrot wasteing it on hurting yourself!. stop cuting it doesent amount to anythingWww@Answer-Health@Com

A psychiatrist, if not a psychotherapist can help you outWww@Answer-Health@Com

I do!.!.!.email me right away and afford an hour in front of your computer in order that I can present a safe alternative for you!.
kthoden@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

you need to see a therapist!.
STOP hurting yourself-Www@Answer-Health@Com

Look up JESUS CHRISTWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm not sure how old you are but you sound like you are a teenager!. Don't worry, this is actually a common thing BUT it is not healthy and you need to go see a counselor, psychologist, etc!. There are coping mechanisms that you can learn for you to stop doing this behavior!. Instead of harming yourself, try yelling or putting ice cubes on your arms (this sound odd but it works) instead of actually harming yourself!. I know parents don't always understand these kinds of things but if you know they can be supportive then you need to tell them, sometimes telling parents about this can make it worse however, but you can still see a counselor at school WITHOUT your parents finding out!. If you are 16, you can even see a psychologist without your parents knowing but it'd be better if they did know!. It's okay to feel depressed after break ups but you mentioned the habit of hurting yourself which needs to stop because it can become much worse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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