I am so worried about my friend, she wants to kill herself?!


Question: I am so worried about my friend, she wants to kill herself!?
she wants to commit suicide this sunday, she is depressed, and there is nothing i can do to help her, because she lives in switzerland, she is only 21 years old, and she is depressed cuz her grandmother died, and her girlfriend left her, i don't know her last name!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.i don't know what to do, i don't want to sit her knowing she is trying to kill herself, but i don't know what to do, i have tried talking to her, but she won't listenWww@Answer-Health@Com


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You need to ask her if she has ever been this depressed before!. If she answers yes, ask her if things did get better after a while!. If she says yes again, then tell her things will work out!. It just takes time!. Dont tell her she is dumb or being dumb!. Tell her that you know you can't stop her and you're not going to try to, but let her know that even if you havent met face to face or see achother often that if she died, you die a bit too!. Tell her how much you honor and appreciate her friendship!. Then, if you dont hear from her after sunday or she stops talking to her, know that you tried to do all you could and that you were there for her!. If she was meant to leave earth at this time, then it was her time!. Know that she isn't in pain anymore!. It may hurt but it isn't your fault if she goes!. You will blame yourself but you will come to realize that you tried!. When no one was there, you were!. You can only help and pray!. But the final decision is theirs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're in a difficult situation!.!.!.try to contact her again and point out all the things she has to offer in life!. Tell her how she's made a positive effect in your life and how you'll feel without having her in it!. Remind her that everything in life tends to work itself out in the end with time!. It sounds like she needs to get help and hopefully she will come to her senses and seek it!. Remember though that what ever happens!.!.!.you're not responsible for what she does in the end!. So long as you've been a good friend to her and tried your best to help, you have nothing to feel bad about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I have never know anyone that is planning to kill themselves to sit around and chitchat about it, mostly when someone decides to kill themselved, they come to a certain type of peacful place, and they don't need others to change their mind or listen to reasons why they shouldn't!. I'm sorry but it may just be for attentionWww@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, that's serious!. I'd try and contact someone close to her that can better deal with that situation, family, her boss, teachers/school!. It's good that she's opening up about her feelings, suicide prone people may not bother telling anyone before they act!. But you need to find someone close that can get her help or keep an eye on her!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

mm!.!.if u cant comunicate with her by phone or know their family or friends just write her a letter, saying that she means so much to you cvos she probably does, and that her being here makes a positive change in your life and u appreciate her friendship!. Just express what u feel about ur friendship and that she is worthy!. Hope everything goes well!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

most of my friends have last names,I would look into this first!.Someone might be playing a head game with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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