Need a little cheering up???!


Question: Need a little cheering up!?!?!?
I truly think my boyfriend has some mental issues!.!.Last nite I was talking to my neighbor and he like flipped the F**K out!.Says who do I think I am and so on and so on!.!.!.He goes on these tirates evry so often!.He is a recovering alcoholic/addict and has been sober for a little over 2yrs and I'm thinking he is wanting to use and takes it out on me cause I'm also sober for ovr a yr and he sees that I'm changing alot and I don't think he is liking that to much!.!.Anyways I feel emotionally drained and I'm just moping around and need a little cheering up can you's help!?!?!? Thanks you in advance!.!.!.!.Any advice to help w/my byfrnd will help to!?!?!?Thanx again!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Honey!. people grow and change in their life!. You need to find the guy that will grow with you not against you!. it seeems you might be going in to two different directions!. You feel drained because he is holding you back!. You need to take some space for a while and look at the issues!. they might be a lot worse than you think with him!. Becarful of people who try and control you, they can mess up your life if you let them!. i think you need postive people around you to help lift you up!. get the stuff of your shoulders and play it solo for a while!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

ok well maybey it is cause he had recoverd from being an alcaholic it is probly not easy for to just act normal u know u have to understand how he is feeling right now!. maybe it is not you it is him he is probly going thriugh some thing that he need to deal with and he has no cluse what to do so he starts freakin out on ppl maybe u r not the only one he yells at maybe he yells at others but since u r going out with him u kinda feal like it is only u talk to him and try ro give him advice and trust me things will go ok well g2g so hope this helps bye!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like your bf is going through some serious thing right about now!. If he hurts you physically you should consider leaving!. Have you 2 been to counseling!? Even though he is going through some mental issues do not allow him to belittle you!. Let him know that he needs to stop!. Recovery is not a reason to allow someone to treat u like crap!.

sorry got on my soap box!. If the weather permits go for a walk!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dump him!. You need to set the standard for yourself!. Obviously you're putting up with some abuse that no one should go through!.

Perhaps your emotions for him are strong, however, you're first obligation regarding your emotions should be to yourself!. Respect yourself by realizing that you do not need to be treated better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hi, well my girlfriend divoced her husband of 9 years, it got bad the last 5, cause of drinking!. she wasn't going to take that and neither should you!. maybe he's having a relapse maybe not but for him to flip out out like that is wierd, I hope he doesn't try to hit you or anything, I understand a lot of guys do that ****!. good luck friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

http://au!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=yXaCSZC_MU!.!.!.

well he needs to control himself for him to know he will loose you!. dont waste ur sweetass time w/a guy!. most guys dont have the same feelings we do, but forget them we can do better!. and hope thee video cheers u up!. lol :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ignore him when he gets like that,I think he doesn,t like the fact you are coping better than he is!.!.!.!.!.!.Hugs!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You really need to find someone who is willing to be for you, not against you!. You changed your life for the better, and if he doesn't like that, then evidently he doesn't respect you!. I completely congratulate you on changing your life around!. You need someone who is proud of you as well!. My husband is a recovering alcoholic!. It seemed like the only time he could have fun me with or the kids, is when he was drinking!. He finally realized he was going to lose everything, so he went into detox and got help!. There are many times that he feels like we can't have a good time without alcohol, and he has often gotten upset and hateful about it!. I just told him that I have had enough! If this is all he is going to do and this is the way he is going to be, then I was leaving!. I felt like he wasn't going to bring me down along with himself!. That is what your boyfriend is doing!. He's trying to make you feel guilty and bring you down!. You don't deserve that!. You deserve to be happy and feel good about yourself!. Now, you have a reason to be both, and I am very happy for you and wish you all the best the world has to offer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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