How can I help my friend?!
Question: How can I help my friend!?
I asked this a few days ago but I didn't put the right details in!.
Well, my friend who is fifteen that I've known for about a month has a lot of mental problems!. From dyslexia, colorblindness, heart problems to killing small animals!. [he doesn't want to hurt the animals, it's just an impulse he acts on!.] I want to try to help him but I'm not sure how I can!. My sister says that I should just be there for him and stay on his good side!.
Any suggestions on how to help him!?
And I don't want answers like "ew what a freak, get away from him!."
I looked up signs of being a serial killer and he has at least two of them!.
Starting fires for the thrill of it and torturing animals!.
I'm a little scared about this and I told him I was slightly uncomfortable and he got really upset but crying upset, not angry at me!. I'm pretty much the only person he doesn't get mad at!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, my friend who is fifteen that I've known for about a month has a lot of mental problems!. From dyslexia, colorblindness, heart problems to killing small animals!. [he doesn't want to hurt the animals, it's just an impulse he acts on!.] I want to try to help him but I'm not sure how I can!. My sister says that I should just be there for him and stay on his good side!.
Any suggestions on how to help him!?
And I don't want answers like "ew what a freak, get away from him!."
I looked up signs of being a serial killer and he has at least two of them!.
Starting fires for the thrill of it and torturing animals!.
I'm a little scared about this and I told him I was slightly uncomfortable and he got really upset but crying upset, not angry at me!. I'm pretty much the only person he doesn't get mad at!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
First thing that i would do is pray that God will lead you down the right path!. Second ask someone in the medical Field how to work with people who have disabilities!. third take your sisters advise and just be there for him!. try to talk to him and tell him how you feel about the things he does!. BUT do not get frustrated!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to talk to his parents or to your parents about this!. He needs more help than you can give him!. You can be as supportive as you want but in the end, that support won't fix the problem!. Explain what you have seen and if you are afraid to tell his parents or your parents tell a school counselor what you know!. He may be taken somewhere that he can get individualized attention and believe me, that's not only good for him but for the people around him (and the animals)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be as empathetic as possible!. Ask if he realizes that he's suffering!. Is he willing to get help!? If so, offer to help him get help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well like what kind of life style is he leaving in !? because if he is leaving were there is always violence and he sees people hurting animals well then that is how he will remember it , well to try and help some one they first must want help and if he does well you can gon on sites and try to find ways to help him like there is alot of sites you can go on for that kind of stuff and if you need help to find them well i can help !. ok so you looked it up and it says that serial killers like to start fires and torture animals but just cuz he does that doesnt mean he is like its just things to look out for thats all but if he gets more signs then you will have to get him checked like i dont want to be mean to him but you have to get him checked to make sure he cant hurt himself or anyone around him !. its normal for him to get upset because for him if youre uncomfortable around him to him it mite mean that you dont like being around him like i dont know if you understand but i hope you do and the best way to tell him that is by explaining it to him so he understands that you dont hate him youre just uncomfortable with some of the things he does thats all
well hope this helped and hope you can find a way to help himWww@Answer-Health@Com
well hope this helped and hope you can find a way to help himWww@Answer-Health@Com