Any advice? I'm really confused at this point...?!
Question: Any advice!? I'm really confused at this point!.!.!.!?
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Jump on he offer!.
Better late than never!.
Say something like 'Remember how you said I could open up to you or whatever!? Well, I really need someone to talk to right now!.'
I very much doubt she will reject your request!.
I think you need to take this up so you don't have to be like this for a long time!.
Also, I just think you should talk to her orally because it's more personal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Better late than never!.
Say something like 'Remember how you said I could open up to you or whatever!? Well, I really need someone to talk to right now!.'
I very much doubt she will reject your request!.
I think you need to take this up so you don't have to be like this for a long time!.
Also, I just think you should talk to her orally because it's more personal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm sure she wouldn't have offered to help unless she really wanted to!. I would just go see her, and tell her you'd like to take her up on her offer if she is still willing or still has time!. That way you are not putting her on the spot!. If she is unavailable, ask her if she can recommend someone else or try a support group!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are about 3 things I can think of offhand that might help you but it depends on what you're most comfortable with!.
I can relate to the first part of your question, I'm still having a time handling mine!.
Just trust me when I say that it would be best to keep in contact with her - I doubt a little bit of time away from each other affected the relationship at all badly!.!.!.
You may want to tell her that, as being somebody who has authority over you, you still need to feel like you're on the same level, peer-to-peer!. Friends in those meetings, if nowhere else!. You already seem to be able to trust her a little bit, doing this might help the trust grow enough to the point that you don't have as much trouble talking to her about some of the more unpleasant topics!.
First, you could try to write down on a page how you'd want to start out; maybe a sentence or two for starters but after that, just jot down a few key issues you want to cover (but just talk about what's comfortable at the time)!.
Second, you could try to bring a little worry-stone or something you can use to keep your hands busy while you talk about things you're not normally comfortable talking about!.
The third way might be to write out a few details and, if she seems understanding enough for you, either write or talk with her about more detailed occurrences!.
Now would be the best opportunity for you to get out what you need to get out, and in a healthy atmosphere where you feel at ease!. Go at your own pace!. And if you find yourself getting worked up about a particular topic of conversation, take a break for a minute!. Go for a walk and let yourself be distracted by simple little things until you're ready to go back into it, if you decide to!.
Good luck, hope that helps!
(If need be, I also have 2 links I could give you for your particular situation - support groups that can give you advice that's tried-and-true for some, suggestions for others!.!.!.Just mull it over!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I can relate to the first part of your question, I'm still having a time handling mine!.
Just trust me when I say that it would be best to keep in contact with her - I doubt a little bit of time away from each other affected the relationship at all badly!.!.!.
You may want to tell her that, as being somebody who has authority over you, you still need to feel like you're on the same level, peer-to-peer!. Friends in those meetings, if nowhere else!. You already seem to be able to trust her a little bit, doing this might help the trust grow enough to the point that you don't have as much trouble talking to her about some of the more unpleasant topics!.
First, you could try to write down on a page how you'd want to start out; maybe a sentence or two for starters but after that, just jot down a few key issues you want to cover (but just talk about what's comfortable at the time)!.
Second, you could try to bring a little worry-stone or something you can use to keep your hands busy while you talk about things you're not normally comfortable talking about!.
The third way might be to write out a few details and, if she seems understanding enough for you, either write or talk with her about more detailed occurrences!.
Now would be the best opportunity for you to get out what you need to get out, and in a healthy atmosphere where you feel at ease!. Go at your own pace!. And if you find yourself getting worked up about a particular topic of conversation, take a break for a minute!. Go for a walk and let yourself be distracted by simple little things until you're ready to go back into it, if you decide to!.
Good luck, hope that helps!
(If need be, I also have 2 links I could give you for your particular situation - support groups that can give you advice that's tried-and-true for some, suggestions for others!.!.!.Just mull it over!.)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Does she have a teachers mailbox!? Maybe leave an envelop in there for her asking when would be a good time for her that you could speak!? Or email leave her an email address to contact you as well!.!.!. Teachers nowadays must be very cautious getting too personally involved because of all those looney ones that like to threaten the instructors integrity making false accusations etc!.!.!.It is a shame!.!.!.but there is always someone who has to ruin a good thing! I am glad you found someone you feel you can confide in~ Take care~Www@Answer-Health@Com
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