Would it be better to end it all?!


Question: Would it be better to end it all!?
I'm sitting here tonight trying to work up the nerve to slice my wrists!. I've already made a few test cuts but I can't seem to make the big leap!. I know I want to die, I have nothing left to live for but I just can't seem to do it!. I am completely alone in the world even my own mother won't help me!. I've lost my whole family in the last 36 hours(3 kids and husband) to people and things beyond my control!. I've spent the day trying to find the light at the end of the tunnel but I just don't see it!. I know if I ask any professionals for help I'll never see my kids again!. Help please!. I can't stop crying and I can't sleep or eat!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
DO NOT KILL YOURSELF!!! I know that this may be a tough time, but do you really want to lose your children forever!?!? Since I do not know what all is going on, I can't give any real advice about what has happened, but I am sure that HAS to be some way to get everything back to normal!. This may seem out on a limb, but if you have yahoo messenger, you can message me, and I will talk to you about it!. My screen name is d4rk_m00n_gyp5y!. Please don't kill yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First off slicing the wrist just might not work!.
You have to ask yourself, what if I fail!. Then the professionals will definitely inter vein!. It would be even harder to see your kids!.
If you kill yourself you wont see your kids anyway, so why try!. see my other post and you just might understand just what I mean!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nothing is worth killing yourself over!.
Give the stuff with your family a few days to blow over, maybe even a week!. It always works itself out!.
And for no other reason, think of your children!! Think what kind of damage you will do to them if you die, especially by your own hand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just wondering what you think is beyond your control - how you lost your family!?

No - never better to end it!. Bad, bad Karma!.

And imagine your kids living with that thought for the REST OF THEIR LIVES!.

Don't be that selfish!. And if you want your family back then fight for them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

mm okay just think about what your going to do and stop ive thought about death myself entill i was saved by a friend she help me relise that theres so much more out there and just because the **** has hit the fan we cant back down and that we need to toughen up a get through with it and hope for the best and prepair for the worest-in memory of cathyWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't do it! I'm am soooo deeply sorry about your loss!. I can't even imagine what you're going through, so I can't give you any advice, but this is the worst you will ever feel!. Anything has to be better than killing yourself!. Go to some relatives for comfort!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you shouldnt be asking questions on yahoo!. if this is for real, go to the hospital or something!. you shouldnt kill yourself!. even though you think no one will care, trust me, itll affect your family more than you know!. i know how it is!. i lost a brother to suicide!. its selfish, and its not worth it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

See if you feel better over the next couple weeks (or months even) you will always feel bad about this when you think about it, but it has only been 36 hours, you obviously want to see your kids again!.

How is suicide going to achieve that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

no it would not be better to end it all!.

please call 1800-SUICIDE right away if you are seriously contemplating suicide!.

If you need to talk to someone my yahoo IM is zombie_cleric

things will get better, and there are medications to treat depression!.

keep your head upWww@Answer-Health@Com

there is another way!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.





find a new life and forget everything that gave you this horror



you poor thing,

your shadow is shrouded in darkness , your hollow soul drowns in depression,

they have caused you great pain and suffering!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.



and you will NOT be shown what death is!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

We are not allowed to answer that question!.
Please post a picture of yourself (that shows alot of skin)!. If you look good there is some guy who will be delighted to have you to take care of!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't do something stupid! Your life can turn around, hun! Yes, I nearly cried reading what you'd said, but things will get better in time!. I know it's very hard right now, but keep holding on!. There's no point in killing yourself!. Don't do it!. Please!. =(Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you need to see a pharipised, u r realy depressed and remember every 1 has a reason to live!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

stop there, im feeling the same way and if you are willing to do what i say it might help you!. placidfury@yahoo!.com!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

please call a anonymous hot line there are severely just look in the phone bookWww@Answer-Health@Com

you are focused on things you cannot control

make a list of things you CAN do

I am sorry for all of your losses!.

Many ppl survive then thrive without a supportive family; you can too!.!.go to family doctor and tell him how you feel!.

Not true; getting help will help you get better and see kids!.!.!.not getting help and you spiraling down will assure you wont see them!.!.!.!.think britney spears!

Get to doctor asap!.!.!.and then re-invent your life!.

Remember, you can do nothing about things out of your control; FOCUS and make lists of things you CAN do!.!.!.and do them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You don't really want to die you just want to stop the pain!. I don't know why you lost your husband and kids but I doubt that you would never see your kids again because you are seeking help from a professional!. That just proves you are trying to get better!. You do have something to live for, you have 3 kids to live for!. I don't know how old they are but do you really want their Dad to tell them you did not love them enough to fight for them!? Do you want your kids to know you killed yourself!? How do you think they would feel!? You may feel alone in the world but you are not, you have a family!. One day those kids will grow up, don't you want to be around to see them !? There is a light at the end of the tunnel you just have to keep looking for it!. Right now it is no brighter than the flicker from a candle but think of your kids and it will get brighter and brighter!. It is time to stop crying, get a bite to eat and start planning on how you are going to get your kids back and your husband if you want him back!. Quit feeling sorry for yourself, toughen up and find that fight that all women have inside of them!. You have it!. Find it!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

darling let me tell you to email me please it may not seem like it now but you will see your kids again and the lord jesus christ did not create you to have you end yourself and die and go to hell the lord jesus has a plan for you and i can gurantee you it does not involve you killing yourself grab a bible it will open up your eyes to everything whether you believe it or not it is true and when you do die you will know it put your faith in the lord and there is nothing you cant get through this world can do alot of things to you but the lord is the rock you can lean on trust me i have been there with a gun in my hand asking the same questions i have been to jail and thought i would never see my kids again but i did trust the lord in a hundred years you will be glad you did ask the lord jesus christ to come into your heart and forgive for what sins you have commited and read his word and open your heart to it god be with i will pray for you nowWww@Answer-Health@Com

I want you to sit there, and read what you just typed!.!.!.!.you're worried that seeing a DR will keep you from ever seeing ur kids again!.!.!.yet ur contemplating suicide! Ur definitely not gonna see them anymore if you kill urself!. If ur a christian at all or even somewhat!.!.!.read the book of JOB!. He went through hell and back, but always hung in!. If u take ur life, what kind of life will ur children have!? No kinda life!.!.!.they'll grow up wondering why Mommy was selfish and left them too soon!. If ur worried about them not seeing u, then think about them now!. It's better to go through hell now than to burn there for eternity!. I'm sure i'll get my share of thumbs down, but just consider these things!. Ur children need a Mommy!!! Don't do it!.!.!.!.it's not worth going further and giving ur life!. Things happen, try to get past them!. I have three children!.!.!.!.!.!.!.they are more important to me than my own life, so I strive to et a good example!. Don't leave them hurting and wondering what they might of done wrong!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am absolutley sure that it would NOT be better to end it all!.
I truly think that everything that happens to us, happens for a reason!. You are going through a terrible ordeal and have a right to be upset, but ending your life would only rob yourself of the many wonderful things you deserve!.
Please call a friend, a church or a crisis hotline and talk to someone about your situation!. I care and will pray that you may see that light that is sure to shine at the end of your tunnel!. Please hang in there and ask someone for help, please!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Immediately seek out a mental self-help group that addresses your needs and consider calling thier hotline and getting information on meetings!. Your children need you so I advise that you immediately cease the self injury!. Co-dependants anonymous is one group and there are divorce groups and others for depression!. You can find safety and company there!. I don't support these so-called professionals either and I know the consequences of seeing one as you have stated!. Get a handle on yourself and try some aspirin to calm yourself and look for immediate company and support!. Even coffee at a 24 hour coffee shop!. Smoke if you have to, but don't self-destruct!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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