How can I get over the bad things and start being happy?!


Question: How can I get over the bad things and start being happy!?
I can't get a good job, I work as a cashier and make very little money!. It depresses me because I'd really like to do more!. I pay a house payment, a car payment, bills and groceries!. When I finish paying all those I rarely ever have money to do much on!. In order to get furniture and stuff for my house I had to charge it to credit so now I'm paying credit card debt too!.

I can't find the time to be happy!. My friends always want me to go shopping or out to eat or hang out or something but I can't ever relate to them, all I know now is paying bills and working!. It's really depressing!. They also always have such nice things, it's hard seeing what they have and then seeing that I don't have much at all!. The weather hasn't even been nice enough to go to the park lately!.

Please give me tips on how I can feel better and be happy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
ok, NO your not a loser !. many people have the same problems as you !. dont let it get you down !. ITS PART OF LIFE!! the road to happiness is paved with challenges and mistakes !. so get over it!. move on !. if you keep down this road of depression, you'll get no where!.

now with your financial issue !. the answer is to save!. put like $15 away every pay check , do this for two years, yes a long time , but you will get the most benefit from it!. this is your fun/emergency fund!. ok!? putting this money away may help you pay your house rent when you have already used your paycheck!. in addition , this could be your once every 6 months shopping account!. BUT DONT USE ALL OF IT AT ONCE!. or else your back at square one!. you might save up enough money in 5 yrs to go back to school!. long time once again ,but money dosent grow on trees!. look for a better job , that may not need a college diploma , but pays better!. make a habit of saving your money regularly !. if you have any money left over each month , put it in this account!. every time you get a raise or a promotion, put in more money !. like for instance , your a cashier , so lets say you work hard and you get a raise of $5 !. so you start saving $17 in your bank account!. every time you get a raise or whatever , start saving $2 more than you were!. this plan will bring you long term happiness , and responsibility

also , look on the sales racks in department stores , just because they are on sale , does NOT mean theyre not "in" !.
stop buying name brand groceries , you will save on average about !.50 cents a can of canned vegetables!. this will also add up to success !.

GOOD LUCK !!Www@Answer-Health@Com

do evening course!. It worked wonders for me, even if it was hard at times!. there is education system in place for people who want to increase their levels!. Figure out what you would really like to do and aim for it!. In the meantime maybe you could start selling cosmetics like Avon or something like that!. That way you will get out of the house, it is fun and extra money!. Or Mary Kay, they give you more commission money!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Being cooped up for long periods of time will get you depressed, I suggest going to the tanner a couple times a week, having sunlight, fake or not is the best cure for depression, and honey everyone is financially in debt right now, thanks to our so called president, your not alone! Good luck to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

be optimistic and strive harder!.!.!. being depress will not solve any of your problems!.!.!. I mean just enjoy what you are doing!.!.!. and just put your eyes on your goal!.!.!. not having what you want right now does not mean you wont have it in the future!.!.!. just relax and see life in a different angle!.!.!. the better side of it~ God bless!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to let go!. take a trip to see some family, go someplace that isn't going to cost that much!.
This one wont solve your problem, but it will make you feel better at the moment!.
go on a date!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There is no lack of events in life!. Some events are good!. Some events are bad!. We can all benefit from a few minutes in nature each day to reset our perspective on things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get out and enjoy the nice weather,go window shopping!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I understand how you feel!. I've always been a low-income girl!. My family has always had problems with money!. Always know that there is someone somewhere out there who has worst problems!. I had to learn that!. Smiling is your best medicine!. Only you have the power to change your life, if you don't like the way that things are going for you!. Change it!. Now I know change isn't as easy as saying it, but always know that God will be there to help you, always!.

God BlessWww@Answer-Health@Com





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