A cry for help?!
Question: A cry for help!?
i dont want to be here anymore i have no life both my parents are sick so im always in hospitals my kids give me nothing but bad manners my boyfriend vrrbally abuses me as well i dont eat or sleeep anymore only when i have to i dont know how much longer i can go onWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'm so sorry to hear this!
I think you should get a therapist, or talk to a trusted friend to just let out your feelings and get some kind advice on what to do, but PLEASE do not commit suicide! No one's life is useless!
I'll be praying for you! Don't give up!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you should get a therapist, or talk to a trusted friend to just let out your feelings and get some kind advice on what to do, but PLEASE do not commit suicide! No one's life is useless!
I'll be praying for you! Don't give up!Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to seek help!. Your boyfriend is abusive, so I think that you should either ask him to stop or end the relationship!. It's an unsafe environment for you and your kids!. As for your children, you need to disciplin them!. Use time outs for little ones and groundings for older ones!. Do you have any siblings!? If you do, they should be helping with your parents!. If not, explain to your parents that you can't spend every moment by their side, though you will remain a dutifull daughter!. I think you need to find a job that is fulfilling for you so that you can be happy at work!. Don't worry!. If you can at least do a thing or two that I mentioned, I think that you'll make it out just fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Think about evrything good you have in your life!. All the time humans seem to focus on the bad things, but im sure if you look closely, youll start to see there is more often good than bad!. All you can do is do the best for your parents, show them that your always there for them and hopefully they'll be on their way to recovery!. Kids are kids, they'll always give you bad manners, its just their nature, your probobly just noticing it more now because your going through a tough time, so the other bad things seem to show up more noticable!. Your kids might be upset about your parents aswell, so despite their bad manners, you love them!. show them this & theyll show you affection back, which will make you feel so much better!. It may be hard with your boyfriend but take a step back and think, is he worth putting me and my children in danger!? if not then leave him hunny, slowly, not in a mad rush!.
and dont worry, it will always turn out okay in the end, and if its not okay, its not the end
best wishes
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and dont worry, it will always turn out okay in the end, and if its not okay, its not the end
best wishes
xXxWww@Answer-Health@Com
do not do anything you will regret!. Takeone thing at a time, break up with your boyfriend asap!. you dont need anything else on your mind right now!. DO IT AS SOON AS YOU can and try to get over it so you can move on!. You have two children as well soif you are thinking about killing yourself, dont! becuase even if you dont care about your life anymore you will ruin your childrens life, and both of your parents!. as it has to do with your parents i know it is hard but you will have to take it into moderation, everybody is going to get sick, and they might even make it through fine! please dont do anything that will ruin your familys life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to see a GP and ask them to refer you on to a someone who will help you through your issues, someone who will listen to you and be there when you need to offload,
you need to eat something coz Ive been anorexic and it isn't pretty, you need to put your foot down with your boyfriend and tell him to stop the verbal abuse coz it is getting you down and it is causing your kids to do the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you need to eat something coz Ive been anorexic and it isn't pretty, you need to put your foot down with your boyfriend and tell him to stop the verbal abuse coz it is getting you down and it is causing your kids to do the same!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Then you are the only one who can change your life!. ITs about what you make of it! you leave the bastard (I promise, it's not better for the kids to stay) and you learn how to be a better parent, there are tons of resources out there!. and you talk to someone so you can come to terms with yur parent's illness!. Good luck and if you need someone to talk to, emial me and I would me happy to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sorry for your parents but this is no reason to try to end your life!.
You seem to be in depression!.
I would leave your boyfriend!.
What a jerk!.
A lot of kids have bad manners!.
I am sorry for how this is happening but think of this,
If you leave, you would hurt so many people who love you!.
Like your kids!.
God is with you and has a plan for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You seem to be in depression!.
I would leave your boyfriend!.
What a jerk!.
A lot of kids have bad manners!.
I am sorry for how this is happening but think of this,
If you leave, you would hurt so many people who love you!.
Like your kids!.
God is with you and has a plan for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Because you took the time to make this cry for help means that you are stepping in the right direction!.
You need to find a counselor!. You can go through you job or if you dont want your business out there, there are some free services located in your city or town (you just have to do your research)!.
I have been in your situation before, I just felt like why am I here!. I talked to a counselor and she really helped me out alot!.
I had to really dig deep and realize that I do have a purpose and I am meant to be here!. I also realized the people that I would be hurting and destroying if I took my own life!.
Please seek some help-there are services out there thats available at little to no cost!. Do it for you and your family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to find a counselor!. You can go through you job or if you dont want your business out there, there are some free services located in your city or town (you just have to do your research)!.
I have been in your situation before, I just felt like why am I here!. I talked to a counselor and she really helped me out alot!.
I had to really dig deep and realize that I do have a purpose and I am meant to be here!. I also realized the people that I would be hurting and destroying if I took my own life!.
Please seek some help-there are services out there thats available at little to no cost!. Do it for you and your family!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey your the kids elders and tell them that they need to treat you better!. you can do whatever you want with them as long as you dont hurt them!. and tell your bf you dont deserve this crao from him and get the police!. and if your parents are old and have been in a colma or anything bad fo ra while, pull the plug on them!. i really dont want to sound mean but then they dont go through more suffering and you can move on!.
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hope this helpsWww@Answer-Health@Com
I know how it feels to not know how much longer you can go on!. I think what will help you is to cry out to God!. A counselor can only tell you how to cope, but God can help you with your situation!. He is right there to help you when you ask!. He holds you in the palm of His hand!. You are precious to Him and He loves you!. He has a life filled with hope for you!. He can change your mess and give you beauty for ashes!. You are precious to God!. Please ask God for help!. He will help you!. Read the Bible!. It is filled with hope!. Trust God with your life!. He will hold you together and give you a reason to live!.
Isa 41:10
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness!.
Psalms 56:8
You number my wanderings; Put my tears into Your bottle; Are they not in Your book!?
When I cry out to You, Then my enemies will turn back; This I know, because God is for me!.
Revelation 21:3a-5a
"Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people!. God Himself will be with them and be their God!. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying!. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away!." Then He who sat on the throne said, "Behold, I make all things new!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
Isa 41:10
Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness!.
Psalms 56:8
You number my wanderings; Put my tears into Your bottle; Are they not in Your book!?
When I cry out to You, Then my enemies will turn back; This I know, because God is for me!.
Revelation 21:3a-5a
"Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and He will dwell with them, and they shall be His people!. God Himself will be with them and be their God!. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying!. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away!." Then He who sat on the throne said, "Behold, I make all things new!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make an appointment with a counselor!.
Break up with your idiot boyfriend if he is going to treat you like this!. He is not right for you if he does this!.
Discipline your kids more and reward them for good behaviour!.
And get out of the house!. Get a friend to babysit (You can't trust peole you don't know with you kids so get a really, really good friend)
Take a walk, go to the movies, read a book, drive to a peaceful place!. Listen to music!. Just do anything you love!.
I hope you feel better!.
I am depressed too but it must be harder being depressed as an adult with kids!. I am so sorry abot what you are going through!. but remember your kids need you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Break up with your idiot boyfriend if he is going to treat you like this!. He is not right for you if he does this!.
Discipline your kids more and reward them for good behaviour!.
And get out of the house!. Get a friend to babysit (You can't trust peole you don't know with you kids so get a really, really good friend)
Take a walk, go to the movies, read a book, drive to a peaceful place!. Listen to music!. Just do anything you love!.
I hope you feel better!.
I am depressed too but it must be harder being depressed as an adult with kids!. I am so sorry abot what you are going through!. but remember your kids need you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Dear, i understand i have undergone many problems, my mother was depressed for a while and my dad was verbally abusive 2 but i survived it, u need to talk with ur friends, or a doctor, they will help u understand urlife is percious!. I no ur children have bad manners but don't kill urself it won't work, maybe go away for a week and clear ur head, things will be with u, i will send up prayers i give u hugs and all the support u need good luck :] things will be alright, i should no <333Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't want to sound cliche but get some professional help!. It's easy to ge caught up in the spiral of negativity!. Obviously you have some self esteem issues for being in an abusive relationship!. Your children are only a product of their own environment!. And having your parents ill can be a very stressful situation!. Come good therapy and maybe some anti-depressants may help you turn things around!. But YOU MUST take the first step!. Do it for your parents and your kids but most importantly yourself!. Your life has value or I wouldn't be writing you right now!.
When you get to the end of your rope!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Tie a knot and hang on!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you get to the end of your rope!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Tie a knot and hang on!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't misunderstand me, I don't want you to look at my answer and use it as another excuse or see it as another reason to say the whole world is against you!. Everything you say that is happening to you is happening because you allow it to happen, you have turned yourself into the proverbial doormat and people take advantage because you let them!. I am not talking about Jesus when I say the power is in your hands to change the way you live!.
A lot of women live with abusive boyfriends because they see it as a form of affection but it doesn't have to be that way, the answer to that problem is so simple I won't even mention it, but I am sure that virtually evryone reading your question knows what it is, except you maybe!?
As for your children, they are giving you attitude because you allow them to, you don't say how old they are but if they are young you have to be more strict and start laying down some rules, believe it or not children actually respond to someone who shows a bit of authority!. If they are older remind them that they live with you and you will not tolerate abuse from them, you are their mother and you will have respect or they can find someone else to abuse, take no prisoners, they have to help!.
As for your parents, its not their fault that they are ill but it isn't your fault either, tell them you will do what you can but you cannot be at their beck and call 24/7 because you are only one person and you have other things that have to be dealt with!.
I know you will ignore my advice because there is always a "Yes but!.!.!."!. The fact is that in the society that we live in no-one can expect any help, the more you need the less you get, you have to rely on yourself and change comes from within and the desire to affect change, it all sounds very grand but it is the way it is, only you can make the move, as long as you choose to be a doormat the more people will wipe their feet on you!. Best of luck, I really hope you can find the energy to make the changes that need to be made!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
A lot of women live with abusive boyfriends because they see it as a form of affection but it doesn't have to be that way, the answer to that problem is so simple I won't even mention it, but I am sure that virtually evryone reading your question knows what it is, except you maybe!?
As for your children, they are giving you attitude because you allow them to, you don't say how old they are but if they are young you have to be more strict and start laying down some rules, believe it or not children actually respond to someone who shows a bit of authority!. If they are older remind them that they live with you and you will not tolerate abuse from them, you are their mother and you will have respect or they can find someone else to abuse, take no prisoners, they have to help!.
As for your parents, its not their fault that they are ill but it isn't your fault either, tell them you will do what you can but you cannot be at their beck and call 24/7 because you are only one person and you have other things that have to be dealt with!.
I know you will ignore my advice because there is always a "Yes but!.!.!."!. The fact is that in the society that we live in no-one can expect any help, the more you need the less you get, you have to rely on yourself and change comes from within and the desire to affect change, it all sounds very grand but it is the way it is, only you can make the move, as long as you choose to be a doormat the more people will wipe their feet on you!. Best of luck, I really hope you can find the energy to make the changes that need to be made!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Jesus is the way the truth and the life!.
He created you and LOVES you so much!. He doesn't want to see you like this, when you hurt, he hurts!. :-) Go to him for help!. Have a read of the Bible, open it up, anywhere and start reading, its full of messages for you!.
http://www!.jesuslovesyouanyway!.com/jlya/
http://www!.jesuslovesyouanyway!.com/jlya/!.!.!.
If you have anymore questions please ask!. (and you can Email too)Www@Answer-Health@Com
He created you and LOVES you so much!. He doesn't want to see you like this, when you hurt, he hurts!. :-) Go to him for help!. Have a read of the Bible, open it up, anywhere and start reading, its full of messages for you!.
http://www!.jesuslovesyouanyway!.com/jlya/
http://www!.jesuslovesyouanyway!.com/jlya/!.!.!.
If you have anymore questions please ask!. (and you can Email too)Www@Answer-Health@Com
We have all felt like that at some point in our lives but the most important thing to do is to remember there is always someone worse off than you!. Your life is the only thing you have!?!? So make something of it! Don't take any sh*t off people any more! And remember to eat and sleep - you have to have something good in your life!Www@Answer-Health@Com
i suggest that you should visit the message boards on ivillage!.com!.
when i was going through a rough time awhile back, i somehow wound up on that site and the support, encouragement, and insight i received from this site alone got me through it!.
just take it one day at a time!.!. or start with one hour at a time if you need!.
good luck to you!!! this is just one more obstacle in your life that you will soon overcome! =)
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!.!.oh yeah--- lose the boyfriend!! normal healthy relationships DO NOT involve ANY kind of abuse!! this is one thing you can change immediately! Do not let some man have that kind of control over you!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
when i was going through a rough time awhile back, i somehow wound up on that site and the support, encouragement, and insight i received from this site alone got me through it!.
just take it one day at a time!.!. or start with one hour at a time if you need!.
good luck to you!!! this is just one more obstacle in your life that you will soon overcome! =)
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!.!.oh yeah--- lose the boyfriend!! normal healthy relationships DO NOT involve ANY kind of abuse!! this is one thing you can change immediately! Do not let some man have that kind of control over you!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
simple as this!.!.!.!.does it look like you will be happier without your boyfriend!? If so kick him out!. With your kids!.!.!.disipline!.!.!.!.!.when they do something wrong take something away from them that they love!.!.!.Example: TV for 2 days!.!.!.if they talk back or use bad manners says 3 days and so forth!.!.!.!.!.!.!.As for your parents all you can do is hope that they will be okay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
read the link sunshine gave you hunnie!. at this moment in time nothing we will say will make you feel better!. some of us have been in a similar position to you!. things wont always be this tough for you, do you have any friends to talk things over with!?!?
if not feel free to contact me, my ear is always available xWww@Answer-Health@Com
if not feel free to contact me, my ear is always available xWww@Answer-Health@Com
seek medical help as soon as possible!. There are plenty of support groups, counsellors one can talk to!. Having suffered my whole life with a deep and abiding depression i know that things can be difficult but get help, you can't do this alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey!. I know this might be the last thing you want to hear!.!.!.
But God loves you and will always be there! I will be praying for you! Just keep holding on, even though life seems crappy!.!.!. Put all your trust in him, and he will bless you!
:) I hope feel better soon!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
But God loves you and will always be there! I will be praying for you! Just keep holding on, even though life seems crappy!.!.!. Put all your trust in him, and he will bless you!
:) I hope feel better soon!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You need to take some time for yourself!.
Do you have a friend who will babysit for a couple of hours!? Take that time to go for a walk, see a movie etc!. Anything, just do something thats only for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Do you have a friend who will babysit for a couple of hours!? Take that time to go for a walk, see a movie etc!. Anything, just do something thats only for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
take a deep breath!. listen to some music to calm down!.and go to a therapist ASAP!. you deserve to be here and don't EVER think otherwise!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh love please call this number!.
they are always happy to help!.
and please feel better
1-800-273-8255
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they are always happy to help!.
and please feel better
1-800-273-8255
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Believe in yourself!!!
" God only puts bad times in ones life!.!.!.to balance all the good to come!"
Everything will be Okay!.!.!.Relax!.!.!.LIVE LIFE !Www@Answer-Health@Com
" God only puts bad times in ones life!.!.!.to balance all the good to come!"
Everything will be Okay!.!.!.Relax!.!.!.LIVE LIFE !Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to the nearest Emergency Room NOW! You have been busy taking care of so many other people, you forgot about about YOU! GO! kjlWww@Answer-Health@Com
that was a bad life,but you still can go on!.go on as far as possible!.don't think of death!.your life might change!.!.!.some times!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
kids will be rude but if you take your own life there the ones that will suffer
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god bless youWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I send you hugs!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I send you hugs!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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