I perpetually hate life.?!


Question: I perpetually hate life!.!?
why does it seem that things are always either good or bad!?
im in 7th grade now!.!.!. 13 years old!. the first 60% of the year or so was living hell for me!. family issues!. trust issues!. being backstabbed and grinf***ed on a daily basis!. i lost it!. then things started getting better, and i was actually happy for once!.!.!. for once! and it lasted for maybe 1-2 months!.!.!. and now im declining again!.!.!. before i suffered of depression, i really did!. i dont consider "my friend is mad at me, or, i like him but he doesnt like me back" a problem, i consider "my brother is suicidal" a problem!. people whine about stupid little things, it pisses me off!. last time i hit the bottom, i started cutting myself with a boxcutter!. why cant i seem to ever keep my head above the water long enough!?!?!? how come some people can be happy while others cant!? and what am i soppoesed to do about it!.!. and dont say see a counselor or therapist!. cuz ive heard that already!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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talk to us!. there is a lot of people thay know what you are dealing with i have been there keeping your head above water is pretty common for all kinds of reasons money, job ,family divorce and in my case parents divorce you are 13 believe me things will get better!. like the saying goes nothing bad lasts for ever there are alot of people that know alot of things that use answers 100000 minds are better than one just trrust people, eeven strangers can help talk silence is not always golden keep positive and avoid things that bother you mike,mjmik1@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

listening to certain music can make you really emotional try some restful thinking like thinking about yourself in beautiful places and i know what you mean sometimes i used say i hat my life but guess what it isn't gonna get better because you are looking at what others have and why your life can be like theirs trust me it hurts but thats the price of love over whelming emotion it ant free my friend it ant freeWww@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with you, I am all ears!.!.!.well I am all eyes to those who can answer this question!. It seems life is a roller coaster, there are so many ups and downs!. I guess it just depends on how you handle it!. What your personality is like, how you were raised, it all effects who you are now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you have to start to relax, try relaxing routines or doing something that you like, for example, drawing relaxes me, playing guitar!.!.!. blah blah
i guess you should try buy yourself some self esteem hypnotism discs, they work quite wellWww@Answer-Health@Com

aww if you need any one to talk to contact me
hope u feel well sisterWww@Answer-Health@Com

Okay, take it from someone who lived w/ a depressed older sister during her teenage years!. She was a self-injurer starting in the 8th grade and still once in awhile resorts back to it (she's 29 now)!. Has scars all over her arms and legs!.

I didn't understand depression then!. Late 90s, etc!. But then I got hit with it in college and it was horrible!. Suicidal thoughts, my whole entire demeanor, personality, and life changed!. I dealt with it through therapy (yes, I recommend it as it works) and medication!. If you are seriously depressed (difference b/t sad for how family is feeling and a mental state you are in) and have had ANY suicidal thoughts yourself, you MUST seek help!. Not just from friends or family, but from a professional!. It doesn't make you weak!. It is a real illness caused by a malfunction in your brain!. But you can't do it alone based on just your own willpower!. Depression takes over and you need support!. Therapy and meds I recommend!. You can overcome it!. Take it from a normal girl who went through it!. I still suffer sometimes, but life is TONS better w/ help!. I'm married, have a good-paying job, college graduate, and have a LIFE!. Please don't be against therapy and especially meds!. And I can't stress enough, if you EVER have suicidal thoughts, please seek help!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

have you talked to your doctor about it!? do you have a diagnosis for depression or bi-polar!? just asking because of the ups and downs you mentioned!. you need someone you trust to talk to, an adult!. are you currently taking any meds!?
i can relate to some of your feelings, the roller coaster of my life, is what i call it!. but i see
a therapist once a week, and a shrink for my meds!. plus i go to alanon for support!. support is important!. it's not just to hear what a therapist has to say, but you getting a chance to TALK, to vent!. i wish you the best young one!. life IS a constant roller coaster sometimes,
then it works out!. you will turn around one day and be 37 yrs old like me and see all that life has thrown at you!.!.!. and you're still here, surviving!. =) best of luck to you!

~andyWww@Answer-Health@Com





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