I'm a spoiled brat. How do I get un-spoiled?!
Question: I'm a spoiled brat!. How do I get un-spoiled!?
I get whatever I want, when I want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Hi Sayra,
I want to congradulate you on your reconition of realizing that your spoiled!. Most kids/people dont realise this!. Realizing this a a very important milestone and a very important 1st step!.
Others (parents, family, friends) help you get this way!. The way to get unspoiled is to start being happy with what you have!. Tell others that you don't wan't anything (and mean it) It's nice to have things, but when we get what we want when ever we want it's not healthy for us; especailly when we are older and have to work for it!.
You strike me as someone who has a very good head on her shoulders!. Keep up the good work!.
Throughout the years you have told others what you want and they listen; now it's time to tell them in a nice caring way that your greatfull for all of the nice things that they have done for you but that you don't want to be spoiled like this anymore!.
If this doesn't help talk with another Parent or Adult that you know who has children!. Ask them what is the best way to break the chains of how you have been raised being that it is only going to make things a lot harder on you as you get older if you don't change now!.
I wish you the best life has to offer!.
Sincerely,
BusterWww@Answer-Health@Com
I want to congradulate you on your reconition of realizing that your spoiled!. Most kids/people dont realise this!. Realizing this a a very important milestone and a very important 1st step!.
Others (parents, family, friends) help you get this way!. The way to get unspoiled is to start being happy with what you have!. Tell others that you don't wan't anything (and mean it) It's nice to have things, but when we get what we want when ever we want it's not healthy for us; especailly when we are older and have to work for it!.
You strike me as someone who has a very good head on her shoulders!. Keep up the good work!.
Throughout the years you have told others what you want and they listen; now it's time to tell them in a nice caring way that your greatfull for all of the nice things that they have done for you but that you don't want to be spoiled like this anymore!.
If this doesn't help talk with another Parent or Adult that you know who has children!. Ask them what is the best way to break the chains of how you have been raised being that it is only going to make things a lot harder on you as you get older if you don't change now!.
I wish you the best life has to offer!.
Sincerely,
BusterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Get into public service after college!. That's one way!. Also, maybe get jobs where discipline is forced onto you, such as law enforcement and military!.
Whatever you do, learn to have self-control, self-determination, and self-discipline!. It's one thing to get whatever you want, when you want!. BUT, you want to be able to get what you want on your OWN!.
It sucks balls for you to have no self-control and to be at the mercy of others!. Try spend a year without help from whoever it is that spoils you, in some distant country!. It'll be tough, maybe at first or maybe the majority of when you're there!. But, if you survive you'll become a better person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Whatever you do, learn to have self-control, self-determination, and self-discipline!. It's one thing to get whatever you want, when you want!. BUT, you want to be able to get what you want on your OWN!.
It sucks balls for you to have no self-control and to be at the mercy of others!. Try spend a year without help from whoever it is that spoils you, in some distant country!. It'll be tough, maybe at first or maybe the majority of when you're there!. But, if you survive you'll become a better person!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you want something, try and see if yoiu can achiev it on your own, without asking for help!. When your making decisions, think of the effect your choises will have on other people, If you see someone struggeling, offer to help them out, and don't expect anything back in return, exept kindness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Volunteer your time helping those less fortunate as yourself!. Serve at a soup kitchen, volunteer your time at your local ARC- (Association for Retarded Citizens)!. Spend some time with those who are not spoiled and do not get whatever they want, when they want it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
give everything you own to a charity shop, then get a job!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go to a soup kitchen and volunteer your time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need a spanking!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ruff up ur hair clothes or wat ever miss behave piss about do wat u want wen u wantWww@Answer-Health@Com
refuse it then or give it to the needyWww@Answer-Health@Com