Alone and depressed because of it?!
Question: Alone and depressed because of it!?
My husband works every day of the week and no he's not on an 8 or 9 hour schedule for work!. He will work from 6:30 am to midnight or later some nights!. We recently moved to a place where I don't know anyone and I'm too shy a person to go out and say "hey how are you" to someone I don't know!. I've never been good at making friends and I'm always home alone with my 16 month old and 4 month old!. I don't know what to do!. Even the one friend I thought I'd made before we moved here doesn't want to spend time with me!. She always has a reason why she can't!. I need advice and help!. I can't see a councellor because they're too expensive and we can't afford health or mental insurance!. I don't know what to do or where to go!. I'm so alone all the time !.!.!. I hate being depressed around my girls!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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I really don't know how to answer this very well so bare with me!. Try your best to grow so self esteem and get out there!. You have kids, so join a mommy and me class or something that you would be around your kids and other adults!. Join a book club!. If you can't do that, take your kids to the park and play with them!. You will filll up feeling fulfilled sometime!. Just be determined to do it, put yourself out there!. It will take some time but you'll get use to it!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like your husband has a life away from you-Watch out! See if there are any resources in your area that would be mom friendly to you-try to find other moms and make play dates, bake dates etc!. Unfortunately, people won't come knocking at your door unless they think you will give them something-so you are going to have to go out and say hey how are you!. Show your girls how to be a friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
at least you have a husband!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
no way that a normal work is EVERY day this early til this late!. i think something dirty is going on there!. umm!.
as for your friend-less situation!.!.!. remember that no one really knows you there, they have no impressions about you, they don't know your past, so you might as well just put yourself out there! just really try to be comfortable with yourself and try to get more outgoing!. besides, there are people who you see like every day all around, and why won't you step up and walk up to them with a simple question that might turn out in a real conversation!?
i hope i helped!. :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
as for your friend-less situation!.!.!. remember that no one really knows you there, they have no impressions about you, they don't know your past, so you might as well just put yourself out there! just really try to be comfortable with yourself and try to get more outgoing!. besides, there are people who you see like every day all around, and why won't you step up and walk up to them with a simple question that might turn out in a real conversation!?
i hope i helped!. :PWww@Answer-Health@Com