Depression playing chess?!
Question: Depression playing chess!?
I played a game of chess with my brother and I losed!. I am really depressed!. I know that nobody's always winning in every game they play!. Kasparov loses 43% games he played in tournament, Alexhine loses 38% games he played!. But I cannot accept my lose to my brother, he is younger than I am he is 15, I am 21, and I think I deserve winning!. We played once tonight, he won, yesterday we played 3 games, I won 2-1, the second last of our game we played once, I won!. But the last of our game, tonight, the recent one, I losed!. In addition, all of our games, he won more!. This is the time I think I should enjoy winning!. Is it ok depression playing chess!? I am afraid I am going mad!. He is younger than I am, true, he had won more than I had but the recent ones I think I should win more!. Ok he is very good but don't like losing, Its crazy, mad, mad and mad!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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You know, it's the same with any other sport as well!. I hate losing in tennis and making stupid mistakes, and it's difficult not to lose control over your temper, but it helps to see the lost game as a opportunity to improve your game!. You should write down the moves of each game (if you don't know how, google something like "chess notation" and learn, it's not difficult) and afterwards study the game and you should be able to find where you have gone wrong!. I know it's worse to lose against your brother, but remind yourself that it's really not important!. There will always be something else in which you can beat him, but in the end, that's trivial!. Good luck, and lighten up! :DWww@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't matter if your brother is younger than you!. He's getting to the age that he can think like an adult!. When I lost a chess game I'd just think I had a lot to learn!. Try not to be arrogant, but to be interested in the game and curious about how to improve your game!. What part of the game do you have problems with!? My biggest weakness was the endgame!. The more chess you play, the better you'll get, but then the more games you'll lose too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you think that's bad imagine losing all night to someone until morning!. That's what I did to someone!.
It's ok to get a little down over this!. If you want to get better you need to train at it!. You're not going to automatically win in everything just because you're older than someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's ok to get a little down over this!. If you want to get better you need to train at it!. You're not going to automatically win in everything just because you're older than someone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're not depressed from losing a game of chess,you're just a little sad or dissapointed!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be happy for him!. I don't like losing to certain people either, but it makes you a better player!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
yeah the part about ITS A GAME!Www@Answer-Health@Com