So terribly bored and lonely?!
Question: So terribly bored and lonely!?
Hi, I know this has been asked to death so I'll make up for it by giving ten points for best answer!.
I'm 20 and I'm bored constantly!. My town is dull, everything in my house is dull I have no friends and my job is awful!. Outdoor sports don't interest me and although I manage to find temporary distractions to the endless boredom, the fun always ends!. What's worse is how I'm a nerdy type (politics and philosophy for example) so I can't get interested in frivolous things like cheap television!.
I never used to leave the house now I always am!. Yesterday I ran for miles for a couple of hours through the nearby woods to escape!. I would just run away (leaving a note of course) but all other problems would need to be resolved first!.
The only thing keeping me going is my desire to travel the world, which I fear may never be acheived!. I feel so exhausted and my emotions seem weaker!. If this continues I might end up as a drug addict or something which would really suck!.
Any ideas!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm 20 and I'm bored constantly!. My town is dull, everything in my house is dull I have no friends and my job is awful!. Outdoor sports don't interest me and although I manage to find temporary distractions to the endless boredom, the fun always ends!. What's worse is how I'm a nerdy type (politics and philosophy for example) so I can't get interested in frivolous things like cheap television!.
I never used to leave the house now I always am!. Yesterday I ran for miles for a couple of hours through the nearby woods to escape!. I would just run away (leaving a note of course) but all other problems would need to be resolved first!.
The only thing keeping me going is my desire to travel the world, which I fear may never be acheived!. I feel so exhausted and my emotions seem weaker!. If this continues I might end up as a drug addict or something which would really suck!.
Any ideas!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It sounds like you have an active, intelligent brain that does not find your environment very satisfying!. I think I know a bit how you feel!. But I don't know your exact circumstances so I can just give some tips:
** If you are studying at a college or university, try to find out if they have an exchange program with another college or university in another country!. Apply!. You won't regret it!
** If you're not studying, consider applying for a scholarship and studying somewhere!. You'll meet a lot of like-minded people as well!.
** Join a philosophy club (or something similar)!.
** Get busy chatting on forums on the Internet!. I do that and find it very satisfying, you get intellectually and socially stimulated and you meet some cool people!.
** Facebook!.
** Chat rooms!.
** If you have a few close friends, go out camping in the woods!. I wish I could do something like that more often!.
** Read a lot of stuff - you might get new ideas into how to enrich your life in general!.
** Think about how you can get a job elsewhere!. Look around for that as well (ads in the papers and on the Net)
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
** If you are studying at a college or university, try to find out if they have an exchange program with another college or university in another country!. Apply!. You won't regret it!
** If you're not studying, consider applying for a scholarship and studying somewhere!. You'll meet a lot of like-minded people as well!.
** Join a philosophy club (or something similar)!.
** Get busy chatting on forums on the Internet!. I do that and find it very satisfying, you get intellectually and socially stimulated and you meet some cool people!.
** Facebook!.
** Chat rooms!.
** If you have a few close friends, go out camping in the woods!. I wish I could do something like that more often!.
** Read a lot of stuff - you might get new ideas into how to enrich your life in general!.
** Think about how you can get a job elsewhere!. Look around for that as well (ads in the papers and on the Net)
Good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why not concentrate your boredom on helping less fortunate people than your self!. Try voluntary work[you can fit this in after your regular job] !.Have a go at decorating your room seeing as you find it boring!. COOK your parents a surprise meal!. Study Politics or Philosophy!. [nothing nerdy about those]!. Or just make one person SMILE, every Day!. You might find you smile with them!. good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok if you really h8 things that people normally do then maybe some of your hobbies!? when i am bored i do drawings or dancing so what is yours maybe do some reading you know is best not to waste your time at this age!. so do something fun and useful will help:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I play music, remix songs, and like walking through the woods with my dog!. Drinking is always fun too, one more year!.!.!.
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go travel the world!!!!!!!!!!!! make friends!!!!!!!!!!! get a grilfriend!!!!!!!!!!!!!! do sports!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!go to a attraction park or something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are the political science and philosophy type then get busy reading, researching and writing!
You can write and submit to all kinds of magazines and e-zines if your work is good!.
If you are rural and have not any colleges or community colleges near you then do a credit or non credit course in something that really interests you!.
If you want to travel the world find out where there are young adult hostels and adult hostels as they can often be great inexpensive places to stay when you are tramping all over Europe without alot of money!.
Only you can figure out how to achieve a state of non boredom!. All we can do is suggest things!.
Take Care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You can write and submit to all kinds of magazines and e-zines if your work is good!.
If you are rural and have not any colleges or community colleges near you then do a credit or non credit course in something that really interests you!.
If you want to travel the world find out where there are young adult hostels and adult hostels as they can often be great inexpensive places to stay when you are tramping all over Europe without alot of money!.
Only you can figure out how to achieve a state of non boredom!. All we can do is suggest things!.
Take Care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
on 7 minutes !.!.!. i am here to say I was there a few years back, I was so bored it hurt my mind!. The solution is right there, you are stronger than you think, you are alive and awaken, you are a brother :) welcome to the world of people that think!. YOU have to find your niche!. most people wont get you, but you know that, only a few will get you, you know why !? cos no one gets anybody !. But you are trying to impose your standards on the world!.!.!. my friend your standards are too high for the world as it is!. Be simple in what you want and go and get it!. there are traces of sadness in you question and no wonder it is horrible to feel you are alone and bored lol but it is not true!. Most would say get a girlfriend or find a social activity that interest you, I would say !.!.!. stop travelling in the back sit of you life, prepare yourself to travel and go!. I used to live in a town of 50'000 people and every one was old and there was nothing!. I live in a Australia in the largest city and have all that i allow myself to have!. I have time to send this and to send you love and peace to your heart fulfil your dreams!. You are dreaming have them for a reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com