I feel suicidal! PLEASE HELP :'(?!


Question: I feel suicidal! PLEASE HELP :'(!?
i have hung myself before - but paniced!.

NOBODY knows wt im going through!.
my mum is always shouting and moody, my mums
boyfriend HATES me alot!
my dads goes months without sayin hi!
i constantly have this stupid ex friend who is always putting me down saying im crap! and i hate my life!


please!
HELP
i want to die!Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
please dont say that!. do not kill yurself!. i felt the same way!. my life was terrible!. but yu have to think there are other people who have wya worse lives!. call yu father and talk to yur mom about her bf!. ignore yur friend bc he doesnt know anything and is just pissed bc he lost a really great friend!. talk to a counsilor or some one yu really trust!. please get help!. i wish yui the best of luck and hope everything turns out okay!. if yu need someone to talk to just email me =]Www@Answer-Health@Com

do not try to kill yourselff!. i have felt depressed before, last summer, and i know what you are going through, even though mine was a different situation!. I am 14 and what kept me motivated is making things right for my future kid and making sure that my future kid never goes through anything like this!. You need to find that one friend that you can confide to and tell everything to!. Once you find him/ her tell them how you feel about everything!. They don't have to say anyting but listen to you so you know they care!. It feels good knowing someone is listening to you and someone in the world cares about you, i mean your mom and dad do whether they show it or not, but someone else!. Tell that friend how you feel on life, on you other ex friend, and things that are bothering you!. That ex-friend, even though because of how your feeling it is soo hard to block her out, you have to find a way to ignore her!. You aren't crap your human and you make mistakes just like she does and you love and get mad just like she does, so never think or believe that your crap because your not!.

btw when this is all over and you finally do get over your depression, trust me it is totally worth it!. Everything gets a lot better!. This was probably the best year of my life and I am glad that I never tried to hurt myself!. You should never because just trust me when you get over this, it will be your best year ever!.

If you need any other help, email me !Www@Answer-Health@Com

Usually getting away from depression involves getting over a weakness that prevents you from escaping depression-oriented dependencies!. It's almost like the weakness people have when they're afraid to quit smoking!. They're afraid it will be too hard for them, or leave them miserable in other ways!. So it makes them feel weak even to think about it!.

It's the same way with many people's depression!. Instead of going to a nude beach, joining the circus, or coloring your hair a wierd color, they want their lives to carry them into a new state of happiness!. In your case, that is not going to happen because the people in your life are obviously not going to be the welcome wagon of new happiness!.

Instead, you just need to get up and do new stuff!. You need some circulation, just like lazy people need to get up and move around!. The hard part is worrying about how hard it will be to leave the comfort-zone of old dependencies!. Even though you may not be treated well, you probably feel you have a "place" where you are!. You already know how people will treat you (even though it is bad)!.

It is hard for many people to leave that sense of "place" and the knowledge of how you will be treated (even if it is bad)!. But because it is bad, you are not motivated deep inside, and so it depresses you!.

Instead, you need to find your inner life force, your urge to live, and mechanize it for things that are more positive!. Take a few risks, and don't worry about the sorts of anxieties people sometimes feel when they are quiting smoking!. Just let it go!. Experiment with new freedom!. Once you find a positive application for your new-found freedom inside yourself, you will no longer feel depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all - don't know how old you are - sound young - but for you to kill yourself would be a major waste of a life that God - or whoever you believe in gave you - - - if you are in fact young - you need to go to a teacher that you like and just ask to sit down and talk - - there has to be someone in your life - teacher - priest - someone that will listen - - - one of the most important things for you to think about is that there are people who care and will help you - - AND - - for you not to give up - - because suicide is quiting - - in a few years - if you haven't quit - and really work hard at it - - maybe you will see all the good things that you have become - - - but that is going to have to come from positive reinforcement from the "good people that you need to find that "ARE AROUND YOU" - believe me there are people ther willing to help - - you need to find the courage to ask !!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I want to tell you that you are not alone!. I constantly feel suicidal!.!.!.the only thing keeping me going is my cats!.!.!.I can't leave them!.!.!.I dont' know what will happen to them when I'm gone!.!.!.and I promised them a good life!.!.!.crazy I know but it helps!.

I know thinking about others doesn't really help!.!.!.I mean I want to know why I should care what other's think if I do it or not!.!.!.they never reached out and helped!.!.!.they don't care!. But really you should think about yourself!. Do you REALLY want to kill yourself!? Or are you just wishing things would change and people would show that they cared!?

My advice about your family!.!.!.though!.!.!.you should sit your mom down and calmly tell her how you are feeling!. Don't start screaming or yelling or blaming!.!.!.just tell her how you feel!. Tell her that her b/f doesn't like you!.!.!.or that you feel that way!. Talk to her!. She maybe stuck in her own world and needs to be remind that she has a daughter that needs her!. About your dad!.!.!.call him up and start a conversation with him!.!.!.you can't always expect him to stop and say hi!.!.!.sometimes you have to start the convo!. And as for the friend!.!.!.or ex-friend!.!.!.if s/he is an ex-friend why are you letting them tell you all those things!. Get away from them!. If they call ignore them!. If they try to get with you!.!.!.tell them NO!.

And finally!.!.!.!.if you are really serious about suicide!.!.!.I please ask you to call the police!. Tell them how you are feeling!.!.!.tell them if you have done anything!. They will get you the help you need!. This might end with you being put on some meds that will help alot!.!.!.and you might also start seeing a therapist!.!.!.

Good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Listen: Don't do it!.

things WILL get better - but you have got to give it a chance!.

Don't give up!

No matter WHAT you are going through, understand that you are not alone, that others are going through things like that - and that suicide is NOT the answer!.

Can I tell you something maybe you've heard before - but maybe not!? Turn to God!. Talk to Him in prayer!. Tell Him exactly how you feel!. Ask Him for help!. Be willing to change!. Be willing to obey what He tells you!.

Read the bible!. read read read!. Read about the life of Christ!. Read about His death and resurrection!. It will change your life!.

Don't wait for things to change- do something about it! Turn to God, talk to a good friend, find a church, etc!.

god blessWww@Answer-Health@Com

h i and well done for your 1st step to recovery ,youve talked about it youve asked for help, as your reading my words i want you to say after me , i am going through a bad time , but i know BETTER TIMES ARE AHEAD,

i know things are bad and very worrying at the moment!. BUT THINGS ARE GOING TO WORK OUT FOR ME!.

IAM AMONG MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE FEELING SAD BAD AND VERY HURT AND CONFUSED, BUT I AM LOVED BY SOME ONE THAT I HAVE NOT EVEN MET YET, his name is J E S U S ,( yes my freind jesus), HE LOVES ME AND CARES FOR ME AND WANTS TO TALK TO ME,NIGHT AND DAY, WHENEVER AND WHERE EVER!.

JESUS I WANT YOU TO COME INTO MY LIFE AND LOVE AND PROTECT ME , KEEP ME FROM HARM,

HELP ME TO RELAX AND SLEEP TONIGHT IN THE KNOLEDGE THAT YOUR HERE WITH ME IN MY DARKEST DAYS AND NIGHTS, HOLDING ME CLOSE AND MAKING ME FEEL SAFE AND LOVED ,AND PROTECTED!.

have alook at the J JOHN WEB SITE GATESHEAD TUES NIGHT TOMORROW 13,5,08 6000 CHRISTIANS WILL BE THERE AND WERE GONNA PRAY 4 YOU BRO OK ,6000 PEOPLE JUST 4 YOU , SO COME ON BUD SMILE COZ YR IN SAFE HAND S FROM NOW ON IN OK

JESUS!.S HANDS , SAY THEM WORDS ABOVE OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHEN YOUR OUT WALKING OR CURLED UP IN BED,

some of the biggest stars , boxers snooker players golfers acters have felt how your feeling right now, and prayed bout it (i did too, so trust me) !.!.!.!.!.!.god bless you ,love you hold you,xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

sweetheart, please see your doctor, you have depression, you need medication and therapy!. I have had depression and know what it feels like!. You do need professional help; good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ive gone through what your going through!. You need to get help ASAP!! There are so many meds out there now that can help!.
Please get help for yourself!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

go talk to a friend that u can trust!. dont becom a suicidal!.
theres much things out there u can do besides
feeling depress!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

ur not the only one i feel like that too but try calling one of those hot-lines like 1800suicide, i have and they help allot, so call them right now!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its just your situation: not getting out of it (not finding new friends, etc) is the worst thing to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to some people online!. you dont have to tell them who you are!. but you can trust them! email me if u want to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

youre not alone, me too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my b\f is going threw the same thing and he is pulling me along with him just go get some helpWww@Answer-Health@Com





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