A few serious questions...please please help me...?!


Question: A few serious questions!.!.!.please please help me!.!.!.!?
1!.) i've been through a lot mentally and some psyichal!. The past few years i noticed i don't feel the same!. when i go outside i don't feel the sun anymore!. i'm like in a cloud!. i remember when i was younger i could feel, smell, and touch and feel the outdoors!. today i went outside and it took like hours until i somewhat feel it!. even then i didn't!. what is wrong with me!?!?!? will this go away when my depression and crap go!? if it ever does!.!.

2!.) i had to cut!.!.!.but i didn't want to!. im sick and tired of it!. i was told to keep myself busy!. i've been non-stop all day!.!.!.it didn't work!.!.!.!.what next!?!?!?!?!?

please help and don't be rude or mean!.!.!.!.thanks in advance!.!.!.

also im really mad right now idk why!.!.!.i hate how i felt all day and now!.!.!.im snapping at my mom!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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my best advice would be to see a therapist and get a perscription for your depression!. i was despressed but now im on medicine and i feel much better!. what you need to do is look at all your positive traits!.
the thing about the not feeling the sun and stuff is probably part of your depression!. when you're depressed, wierd things happen to your body!. you should also try to let all of the stuff out of your head!. tell someone like a therapist or someone you trust all of your feelings and what hurts and i think that will make you feel better!.
what i think you shouldnt do at all ever is cut!. it doesnt work and all it does is hurt you more!. you dont want to be hurt physically and and mentally!. see a therapist for sure!. that always helps and you can find one that you like and wouldnt mind telling everything to!. i have been through the same thing you are going through now!. and to add on to the depression i had really bad anger problems!. all that is behind me now because of my medicine!. you have so many good qualitys about you and it just stinks that you cant see all of those things!. all you need to do is find yourself!. therapist will help you do that!. good luck!. hope i helped!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Okay then, here I go!.!.!.

Firstly I would imagine that when your depression clears up, you'll be more in tune with things again, like you touch and feel, etc!. When I was in severe depression, I couldn't taste, but when it got better, I could, see!? :)

Therapy for cutting!? Or find people who have the same problem and how they deal/dealt with it!.

Anger is a side effect of depression, I know!.

Hope this helps you somehow, I realise how frustrated you must be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

are you allowing life, or are you resisting it!? what happens if you allow everything to be as it is!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

youre my type of womanWww@Answer-Health@Com

How sorry I am to hear the way you are feeling!. Have you been to talk to someone lately!? Generally there are group sessions for depression in just about every city or town!. Do you think you could go into a group and talk!? Maybe this would help you if you were with other people that are going through the same thing as you!. I understand it must be very difficult to "stay busy" when you are feeling this way!. Please look into group sessions in your area!. I truly believe you will be able to get help and feel better if you are amongst caring, helpful people that can relate to your situation!. Good luck, and bless you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1- on this one i would talk to my doc!. and see if they could poss!. put me on some kind of anti-depression med!. and trust me if the depression goes away the cloud will go away!. but give it time to find the right med!. it takes time!.!.!.!.

2- and some of the ways to stop cutting it to do something else like us a rubberband, red maker, write what you are feeling down, talk to someone, some of it sound crazy but it works i promise!.!.!.!.

if you can stop cutting and get away from the depression you won't snap at people or be mad all of the time!.!.!. i now how you feel i am/went through the same thing!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

1!.) with proper medications to balance the imbalance the depression will go away- this will clear you and let you see and feel again!. The snapping is the funny thing that most dont understand about depression- depression comes in many forms it doesnt mean your sad- it does mean that you push everyone away and yet want them there for you more than anything- that too will go away with the proper meds!. It takes chemicals to fix chemicals- fight fire with fire there!.
2!.) the cutting is a borderline personality trait- do some research on this on the net- it is a release of dopamine and or seratonin!. It does not last but it brings you up to speed chemically so find something that does last with a psychiatrist!. This is a deadly game you play so get some proper nurturing for it!. good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

yeah i've also been throught the same!. you have to let go of what happened and learn to make yourself happy!. it's hard but your just going to keep feeling like this if you don't do something about it!. you have to want to change and want a better life for yourself, once you understand that try and find things that make you happy!. depression is hard to deal with and it affects everyone around you!. you didn't have to cut!.!.!.!.!.!.you just think you had to!. there are other ways to find a release for your feelings!. if you feel like that again try talking to a really close friend that understand what you going throught and just talk to them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

How old are you!? a lot of teens go through this!.!.!.depression is nothing to take lightly!.!.!. what you need is someone else who needs you, someone who needs to know you are there to try and help them and for them to be there to try and help you!. And I know you've heard this, but cutting does not solve anything!.!.!.and I'm speaking from experience!. you may think it gives you control or power over your depression!.!.!.!.but like anything else it is addicting!. Find someone who really cares about you!. When you feel like cutting or hurting yourself, call them!.!.!.no matter what time it is!. If they really love you, they will not mind being woken up in the middle of the night!.!.!.idk if this will help or not, I hope it does though!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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